I'm relatively new to the guy-on-guy scene, having finally admitted to myself in the past year that I am a bisexual. Currently, I'm dating a really nice guy that satisfies me in so many ways, it's unbelievable.
My only complaint, if you want to call it that, is his obsession with cuddling. In fact, I've noticed that gay guys, in general, love to cuddle, even when they just met the person.
Don't get me wrong, I like cuddling, but not all the time and certainly not with strangers. If I'm on a date that leads to the bedroom, I'm there to fool around, even if it doesn't lead to sex. I'm not there to look into a strangers eyes and cuddle.
My question is this? Why do gay guys (as opposed to bisexuals) love this cuddling thing so much? Am I wrong to not like it? If I am, what should I do?
The guy I'm dating isn't happy that I don't like doing it and that is starting to affect our relationship. He thinks I don't like him, which isn't true. I should add that I don't like cuddling with women either, and never have.
Thanks for your comments.