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    Gay Doctor murdered in West Hollywood

    So sad. Just read about this today on a West Hollywood blog. Why haven't the larger gay media picked this story up??

    Dr. Kurtland Ma, age 34, was murdered on Sat. March 29 by his boyfriend, Andre Damiane Davids. West Hollywood police were called to an apartment at 939 Palm Avenue, after getting tipped off about suspicious activity. When the police got into the apartment, they discovered Dr. Ma, stabbed to death. They also found Andre Davids (the boyfriend) trying to commit suicide by taking pills.

    Dr. Ma was extremely smart - he got an almost perfect score on his SATs, and he went to Yale University for college & medical school. He did his physician training in New York City, where he first met Andre Davids. Dr. Ma loved to travel to Europe & Asia, and he just moved to West Hollywood early this year to work as an emergency room doctor.

    Sadly, Dr. Ma won't be able to save any more lives. Because his evil, monster of a boyfriend took away his life.

    Why haven't the gay media (outside of WeHo) picked up this story? Is it because the victim is Asian & isn't a blonde-haired, blue-eyed gay man? Or is it because the murderer is Black, and the liberal-leaning media want to be politically correct & don't want to perpetuate stereotypes? Or, lastly, is it because this tragic story highlights the reality of gay domestic violence, lest the fight for gay marriage be hindered? Or is it all of the above??








    RIP Dr. Kurtland Ma. Such a promising life lost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post

    Why haven't the gay media (outside of WeHo) picked up this story? Is it because the victim is Asian & isn't a blonde-haired, blue-eyed gay man? Or is it because the murderer is Black, and the liberal-leaning media want to be politically correct & don't want to perpetuate stereotypes? Or, lastly, is it because this tragic story highlights the reality of gay domestic violence, lest the fight for gay marriage be hindered? Or is it all of the above??
    Few of us obsess over the murder of a human being who is unknown to us, for the victim is dead and resurrection is not an option...meantime, the police are doing what they are paid to do....

    Your highly speculative observations are duly noted......I recommend drinking a mug of chamomile tea to calm you...

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    Re: Gay Doctor murdered in West Hollywood

    ^Just this.
    Any live that is cut short is tragic, you can and do feel empathy, more so if the victim is a child. Why do you always have to bring race or social standing into almost all your posts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Few of us obsess over the murder of a human being who is unknown to us, for the victim is dead and resurrection is not an option...meantime, the police are doing what they are paid to do.....
    Are you kidding me? The media loves to obsess over women (typically white, attractive, blonde women) who have been murdered, likely due to domestic violence.

    Nicole Brown Simpson
    JonBenet Ramsey
    Laci Peterson
    Natalee Holloway

    Just to name a few.

    Most gay men in WeHo & NYC didn't know Matthew Shepard, but they were protesting in the streets after his murder in far away Wyoming. Of course the murderers were (allegedly) straight, and not gay themselves.

    The reason why we don't hear about stories of gay domestic violence is the same reason why Rev. Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson & the MSNBC crew march in the streets for Trayvon Martin, but they completely ignore the Black-on-Black violence that is the biggest killer for young Black men in America.

    Gay, Inc. would rather sweep gay domestic violence under the rug. They don't want to remind straight people that gay relationships can have the same problems as straight relationships.
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    Maybe we'll get to see his killer in that other thread.

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    Sorry mate, just pure bullshit, "Gay Inc"......Seriously!

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    This is an old story that I'm just now finding out about. Sad shit. I wish I could know more information though like why they didn't mention the black guys job if he had one. Idk. Just so many question marks and tears with this and how this is getting no publicity buy any lgbt outlets.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taralen View Post
    Just so many question marks and tears with this and how this is getting no publicity buy any lgbt outlets.
    Thanks Taralen. Finally at least someone else besides me is wondering why this story was not covered.
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    Its tragic that this talented man died. RIP
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    Thanks Taralen. Finally at least someone else besides me is wondering why this story was not covered.
    It was covered, should it have been covered more by the "gay" press? Yes, i believe it should have.
    Though not for the reasons of race, or occupation.

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    Sadly this story is even more gruesome than I first thought. Andre Davids confessed to also mutilating Dr. Ma's body by cutting off his genitalia and putting it into his mouth. He said he killed Dr. Ma out of jealousy.

    What a sicko & a monster

    http://www.wehonews.com/z/wehonews/w...hbors-chilled/



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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    ...mutilating Dr. Ma's body by cutting off his genitalia and putting it into his mouth. ...
    That's worse than Pistorius & Steenkamp!

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    Are you kidding me? The media loves to obsess over women (typically white, attractive, blonde women) who have been murdered, likely due to domestic violence.

    Nicole Brown Simpson
    JonBenet Ramsey
    Laci Peterson
    Natalee Holloway

    Just to name a few.

    Most gay men in WeHo & NYC didn't know Matthew Shepard, but they were protesting in the streets after his murder in far away Wyoming. Of course the murderers were (allegedly) straight, and not gay themselves.

    The reason why we don't hear about stories of gay domestic violence is the same reason why Rev. Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson & the MSNBC crew march in the streets for Trayvon Martin, but they completely ignore the Black-on-Black violence that is the biggest killer for young Black men in America.

    Gay, Inc. would rather sweep gay domestic violence under the rug. They don't want to remind straight people that gay relationships can have the same problems as straight relationships.
    You're obessing over blood, and gore garnished with conspiracy theories that speak more to your daily focus on the gutter press...than on a genuine concern for the murder victim.....

    You underestimate the intelligence of people posting here when assuming that we do not read Internet news sites....more so, when you assume that we should obsess over every matter of political controversy that percolates its way through your posts....

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    Unless the murder is somehow representative of the gay, Black, or Asian groups, there IS no larger story.

    Domestic violence occurs across the spectrum -- in gays, straights, tea party, Libertarians, farmers, profligates, ghetto, elite, and every other subgroup.

    However, you are correct about all media outlets controlling and censuring the content due to their agendas, and that also runs the gamut from PBS to NPR to Fox to NBC.

    The murder was a horrible tragedy. That is the story. If they reduced the killer to just a race, then that is also a valid observation.

    Is it typical of gay couples? Obviously no.

    The idea that Nicole Brown Simpson was more covered because she was white is a hoot. She was covered because a front-page celebrity murdered her, allegedly. If Bill Cosby had murdered his wife, there would be no less sensationalism.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    Unless the murder is somehow representative of the gay, Black, or Asian groups, there IS no larger story.

    Domestic violence occurs across the spectrum -- in gays, straights, tea party, Libertarians, farmers, profligates, ghetto, elite, and every other subgroup.

    However, you are correct about all media outlets controlling and censuring the content due to their agendas, and that also runs the gamut from PBS to NPR to Fox to NBC.

    The murder was a horrible tragedy. That is the story. If they reduced the killer to just a race, then that is also a valid observation.

    Is it typical of gay couples? Obviously no.

    The idea that Nicole Brown Simpson was more covered because she was white is a hoot. She was covered because a front-page celebrity murdered her, allegedly. If Bill Cosby had murdered his wife, there would be no less sensationalism.

    This. Purely and Simply.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    You're obessing over blood, and gore garnished with conspiracy theories that speak more to your daily focus on the gutter press...than on a genuine concern for the murder victim.....
    And this is what is sad. The point of this thread isn't actually to feel bad about the victim.

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    The OP obviously wishes Ann Rule was still alive to write this story.

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    damn!...


    I just stepped into a JQ thread


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    A doctor is not a famous person and murder is commonplace in some countries. That means no coverage unless the murder is particularly notorious.

    They certainly covered Matthew Sheppard more than James Byrd, or maybe I just heard more about Sheppard due to being gay myself.

    But they definitely covered Magnotta's murder of Jun Lin, and crazy theories about "liberal media" are just that.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    All media is somehow biased. Even media vigilante about fairness qualifies as a bias in that goal.

    The idea that there is purely objective journalism is a fantasy. Even technical journals reflect certain prejudices about their subjects.

    Our task remains simply to be familiar with the biases so that we are less subject to being influenced unawares, much like people wearing blue-blocker sunglasses may begin to forget the true spectrum until they remove them.

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    Liberal leaning media? You lost me there.

    Why isn't the conservative leaning media reporting it?

    Surely you are aware of the conservative leaning media. You carry enough water for them.

    When you start a post with right wing talking points and catch phrases and anti gay bullshit I could care less about the subject. It shows how little you care as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    All media is somehow biased. .
    This smacks of postmodernism.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    It is an important local story---any gruesome murder is--- but would not be covered nationally or here in NYC local news---but it would have been a big local news story for sure. And something tells me it was a big local LA news story. It goes to what I have always thought, it's so important to really see the true character of the person you partner with. It is one of the most important decisions you make in life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
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    ^This West Hollywood murder reminds of an American friend living in Athens for many years, who has since retired to New York who had picked up a "stray" Syrian Kurd for an over night encounter....the following morning Steve invited the Kurd to join him for coffee, and rolls at a local cafe, overlooking a busy central Athens roundabout.....towards the end of their breakfast a police car siren was heard....the police car stopped at the kerb directly in front of the cafe with two officers alighting....who proceeded to handcuff the Kurd......and take him away...one of the two police officers informed Steve that the Kurd was being sought for murdering a fellow Kurd the previous day....

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    The event/story isn't worthy of greater attention. Someone was killed by his jealous lover, the authorities arrested the murderer, that's it.

    Race, gender, sexual orientation, occupation...............all irrelevant, there's no reason to believe these variables were the cause/reason for the murder.

    Why are you so concerned...neither one was white, masculine, republicans?

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    Quote Originally Posted by johaninsc View Post
    damn!...


    I just stepped into a JQ thread

    And I can smell it on your shoe all the way over here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beachguyj View Post
    too bad he couldn't read people, RIP

    yeah exactly, there was a well known gay doctor in NYC who was also smart and popular and he partied hard, hung out with lot's of borderline people, had lot's of sex with them, did tons of drugs and OD'ed and died ---

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    The story is tragic and may he R.I.P. But did you share this story because you just really cared, or did you also have a bit of your own agenda, JQ?

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    Am I the only one who is more shocked by the fact that an Asian Medical Doctor was dating a Black Man in Westhollywood? The Snow Queens within the Asian community is epidemic. Anyhoo, this is still a very gruesome and tragic act.

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    wow...this is horrific. I just do not get people sometimes.



    Quote Originally Posted by -Kane- View Post
    Am I the only one who is more shocked by the fact that an Asian Medical Doctor was dating a Black Man in West Hollywood?
    I admit, i was very surprised by that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Kane- View Post
    Am I the only one who is more shocked by the fact that an Asian Medical Doctor was dating a Black Man in Westhollywood?
    No I'm more shocked by the mutilation and murder.
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    Tragic for sure ....but isn't this just another crime of passion? Neighborhood looks dumpy btw.


    I think I would top myself if I had to live there...

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    Re: Gay Doctor murdered in West Hollywood

    JayQueer, a troll long overdue to have his privileges removed from posting. Only JayQueer would take a newsworthy post and make wild partisan, racist accusations against black people, white people, and Democrats. This is the same troll who drools over stereotyped images of white men while looking down on other men of color. This is also the same troll who praises everything Republican, but criticizes anything "liberal" or Democrat inspired. Note his unnecessary mention of marriage equality, as if this murder was somehow a reason not to allow gay men and women to marry.


    My condolences to the families involved in this tragic murder. Domestic violence affects the gay community as much as it does the heterosexuals.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    The story is tragic and may he R.I.P. But did you share this story because you just really cared, or did you also have a bit of your own agenda, JQ?
    My agenda, at least in this thread is to highlight the dangers of domestic violence. When people think about domestic violence they think about battered women or wives. But people ignore that men can be victims of domestic violence, especially gay men.

    From my read of the article & comments from those who knew him personally, Dr. Ma was unhappy in his relationship with Andre. He used to be popular & social but Andre was jealous of Dr. Ma's friends. Dr. Ma told his friends he was thinking about breaking up with Andre.

    The article I read didn't say what Andre did for a living. Maybe Andre was jealous that Dr. Ma was really successful in his career and he was ready to move on & end the relationship. This is speculation on my part but maybe Dr. Ma told Andre that he wanted out of the relationship but Andre wasn't going to let that happen ("if I can't have you, then nobody will")

    There is very little support for men (gay or straight) who are the victims of domestic violence. Shelters and assistance programs only cover women. If there is anything positive that could come out of this tragedy, maybe it could be that we need to be vigilant of domestic violence & get more support for male victims of rape & domestic violence.
    I used to be like that, but not anymore. At least not on the first date. Third date, whole other story..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Just_Believe18 View Post
    JayQueer, a troll long overdue to have his privileges removed from posting. Only JayQueer would take a newsworthy post and make wild partisan, racist accusations against black people, white people, and Democrats. This is the same troll who drools over stereotyped images of white men while looking down on other men of color. This is also the same troll who praises everything Republican, but criticizes anything "liberal" or Democrat inspired. Note his unnecessary mention of marriage equality, as if this murder was somehow a reason not to allow gay men and women to marry.
    Shame on you for making personal attacks on me. But then again, that's your modus operandi.

    I posed valid questions. I want to know why this story was not covered widely, at least by the lgbt media. And yes, I stand by my view that stories that bring negative attention to the gay community are simply suppressed by the lgbt media out of fear that it will make us look bad to straight people (when we are waging a PR campaign for legalizing same-sex marriage). That's why stories about domestic violence within the gay community are usually ignored.

    I don't need your permission for my political views. Last time I checked, I'm free to be a Republican if I so choose. About 25% of gay men are Republicans, so I'm clearly not alone.
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    ^Why don't you 2 just go over to CEP and have a catfight there? Why whip up politics in a thread that has nothing to do with bicameral bull shit. I can't stand Republicans or Democrats anyway. Bunch of whiners.

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    Not my favorite gay news website. But it is the national coverage you were asking about.

    http://www.queerty.com/west-hollywoo...pect-20140411/

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    So...ignore the above link. It highlights what I don't like Queerty. This link now links to different article than when I copied it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    My agenda, at least in this thread is to highlight the dangers of domestic violence. When people think about domestic violence they think about battered women or wives. But people ignore that men can be victims of domestic violence, especially gay men.

    From my read of the article & comments from those who knew him personally, Dr. Ma was unhappy in his relationship with Andre. He used to be popular & social but Andre was jealous of Dr. Ma's friends. Dr. Ma told his friends he was thinking about breaking up with Andre.

    The article I read didn't say what Andre did for a living. Maybe Andre was jealous that Dr. Ma was really successful in his career and he was ready to move on & end the relationship. This is speculation on my part but maybe Dr. Ma told Andre that he wanted out of the relationship but Andre wasn't going to let that happen ("if I can't have you, then nobody will")

    There is very little support for men (gay or straight) who are the victims of domestic violence. Shelters and assistance programs only cover women. If there is anything positive that could come out of this tragedy, maybe it could be that we need to be vigilant of domestic violence & get more support for male victims of rape & domestic violence.
    Charming. You mention bringing awareness for domestic violence for men and women alike. But in your OP you bring up the predictable race issue. This is not a race problem. It is a domestic violence problem that got out of hand. The fact that the parties involved were Asian and black are happenstance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    My agenda, at least in this thread is to highlight the dangers of domestic violence. When people think about domestic violence they think about battered women or wives. But people ignore that men can be victims of domestic violence, especially gay men.

    From my read of the article & comments from those who knew him personally, Dr. Ma was unhappy in his relationship with Andre. He used to be popular & social but Andre was jealous of Dr. Ma's friends. Dr. Ma told his friends he was thinking about breaking up with Andre.

    The article I read didn't say what Andre did for a living. Maybe Andre was jealous that Dr. Ma was really successful in his career and he was ready to move on & end the relationship. This is speculation on my part but maybe Dr. Ma told Andre that he wanted out of the relationship but Andre wasn't going to let that happen ("if I can't have you, then nobody will")

    There is very little support for men (gay or straight) who are the victims of domestic violence. Shelters and assistance programs only cover women. If there is anything positive that could come out of this tragedy, maybe it could be that we need to be vigilant of domestic violence & get more support for male victims of rape & domestic violence.
    To be fair JayQueer, you're OP brings racism and media bias into the arguement, with minimal mention of domestic violence. You preface your questions with wondering why the media didn't big up the story and the first things you mention as to why is race; the victim of the murder was asian, the murder African American.

    You then throw out domestic violence, not as an important part of the post, but as a reason it wasn't picked up due to imaginary effects of domestic violence on gay marriage equality.

    Your premise is that the media didn't care about the murder because neither victim nor murderer were blonde haired and blue eyed. That's got nothing to do with domestic violence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    Shame on you for making personal attacks on me. But then again, that's your modus operandi.
    Shame you on you for using a story like this to push your shitty little agenda on a message board. As already stated no where in the beginning of the thread you were even "highlighting the dangers of domestic violence." No one is buying your bullshit, so stop trying to sell it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    Shame on you for making personal attacks on me. But then again, that's your modus operandi.

    I posed valid questions. I want to know why this story was not covered widely, at least by the lgbt media. And yes, I stand by my view that stories that bring negative attention to the gay community are simply suppressed by the lgbt media out of fear that it will make us look bad to straight people (when we are waging a PR campaign for legalizing same-sex marriage). That's why stories about domestic violence within the gay community are usually ignored.

    I don't need your permission for my political views. Last time I checked, I'm free to be a Republican if I so choose. About 25% of gay men are Republicans, so I'm clearly not alone.
    Like MakeDigitalLove wrote, that has nothing to do with your original post. This isn't about an isolated event of domestic violence. This is about you insulting other racial minorities and slipping in partisan bullshit that has nothing to do with the actual news story. If this was an isolated incident, you'd get a pass by the community. However, most of us have read your threads and posts, and we've pegged your habitually disturbed posting behavior.
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    Re: Gay Doctor murdered in West Hollywood

    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    Unless the murder is somehow representative of the gay, Black, or Asian groups, there IS no larger story.

    Domestic violence occurs across the spectrum -- in gays, straights, tea party, Libertarians, farmers, profligates, ghetto, elite, and every other subgroup.

    However, you are correct about all media outlets controlling and censuring the content due to their agendas, and that also runs the gamut from PBS to NPR to Fox to NBC.

    The murder was a horrible tragedy. That is the story. If they reduced the killer to just a race, then that is also a valid observation.

    Is it typical of gay couples? Obviously no.

    The idea that Nicole Brown Simpson was more covered because she was white is a hoot. She was covered because a front-page celebrity murdered her, allegedly. If Bill Cosby had murdered his wife, there would be no less sensationalism.
    Yeah, allegedly..... OJ is definitely innocent. Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Just_Believe18 View Post
    Like MakeDigitalLove wrote, that has nothing to do with your original post. This isn't about an isolated event of domestic violence. This is about you insulting other racial minorities and slipping in partisan bullshit that has nothing to do with the actual news story. If this was an isolated incident, you'd get a pass by the community. However, most of us have read your threads and posts, and we've pegged your habitually disturbed posting behavior.
    And this.

    I'm sure that somewhere in the US, over the last few months, an Indian immigrant probably killed his wife or girlfriend as a result of a domestic dispute.

    I don't see you or any other national outlet reporting on it.

    It says nothing. About anything.

    Except that it is a personal tragedy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    And this.

    I'm sure that somewhere in the US, over the last few months, an Indian immigrant probably killed his wife or girlfriend as a result of a domestic dispute.

    I don't see you or any other national outlet reporting on it.

    It says nothing. About anything.

    Except that it is a personal tragedy.

    Well there should have been more coverage of that, then.
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    There were seventeen gunshot deaths in Chicago last night. Black? white? Indigenous American? gay? straight? Not relevant. Tragic, nonetheless. Knowing their sexual orientation or ethnicity doesn't make them any less dead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayQueer View Post
    Well there should have been more coverage of that, then.
    Why don't you call the Associated Press and complain? No one here can do anything. What about the California bus crash? Don't forget Flight 370. There's only so much time/or space for reporting anything.
    Last edited by chrisrobin; April 12th, 2014 at 07:19 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nafhoosier View Post
    Yeah, allegedly..... OJ is definitely innocent. Lol.
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    What is this metal thing outside the murder scene? is it some kind of radio antenna? Or perhaps some excess window frames?

    I hope some deluded hipster doesn't think this lop-sided metal thing is 'artistic' or an ornament to the building.


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