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    Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG!

    If you don't want to read it all, skip to the very last paragraph, maybe you will figure out the whole point from just that paragraph. If not, try reading the last 3/4 paragraphs, they will give you a better view. For all else, read the whole thing, hope you don't fall asleep. ha ha ha ha

    When I hook up (on a hookup site or in person), before I commit and give a green light for it, my primary interest is in seeing a guy's face. More specifically, face and body, or face and stats -- basically I want to see if I am attracted to the guy, and for me attraction is in face and a slimmer body type. I really do not need to see much else.

    Same goes for in-person hookups for me, but it's much easier. I can already see the guy, and I make my decision. I usually do not need to see the guy naked. That happens during hookup and I have rarely been surprised. More often pleasantly surprised by their body.

    Now, I realize that different guys need different things before they go ahead and give a "green light" and proceed with the hookup. Maybe some guys will just "come over", sight unseen, questions unasked, and maybe some will require a picture ID and a medically signed papers, lol just saying.

    But one thing has been bugging me and one thing I do not understand, and one thing that has been happening a lot is guys asking me for a picture of my dick before they give that go-ahead "green light" to proceed with the hookup process. And you see, that's where I stall. My buddy tells me things like "don't send your dick you do not know where it is going to end up".

    Perhaps paradoxically, I do not mind sending my face pic if I think it is fair. If my face pic ends up on the front pages of "People" magazine saying "Chris has been hooking up right and left", and my mom, dad, husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, extended family, etc see it, I will be just fine with that. Maybe ruffled a bit but no biggie. Now, if my dick photo shows up in the magazine saying "Chris has been a naughty boy", I will be more upset. I do not want my dick picture being out there, it is kind of personal and it definitely shows intent that I indeed have been "naughty". At least with a face picture I can say "oh someone got it off of my facebook and fabricated the entire story". With a dick picture, it is much harder to say someone fabricated stuff. They will ask "well how did they get your DICK picture in the first place? I bet it was not on facebook, I bet YOU sent it to them, so you WERE naughty.

    So I said "paradoxically", because it seems that most "bi" or "discreet" guys are 100% against sending their face photo but 100% for sending their dick and ass photo. Well, I am like totally the opposite. I will send you my face pics till you're blue but no dick pics. I can maybe kind of understand guys who are in the closet who don't like face pics sent, but that's another issue.

    So here is my problem -- when guys ask me for my dick pic, I assume kind of that they want to hook up with me. Not always true, but often guys tell me "I will suck your dick but you got to show me your dick, or the whole deal is off". When I ask why, they say "I want to see what I will be putting into my mouth".

    Now, here is my problem -- haven't you seen a dick before? One guy said "Chris, you are uncut, I have not been with an uncut dude, so just show me". And I am thinking ... "uhh, dude? Have you heard of Google and the Internet? Have you heard of easy access porn on any keyword you type? Type "uncut dick" into Google, press Images, you can do this right now on your phone, you will see some uncut dick within a minute!" The point is You do Not Need to see mine. What do you expect to see anyway? A monkey? Lol ...

    In my conversations, it seems that the dick pic is a major MAJOR MAJOR deal breaker. If they do not get one, they CANNOT move on with the hookup process. It stalls and stops there, breaks down, and screeches to a halt.

    Since conversations go something like this "Show me our dick pic" "No, why?". "[some lame reason]. Please Show me your dick pic of the deal is off!" "No! I don't see why you need it to hook up. Do you ask GIRLS to show you their pussy before you take them home? Try that one time see how that works out ... " (repeat 20 times using various ways for a guy to reason with me while requesting and asking for my dick pic, and me saying why and no in various ways. I can provide transcripts upon request, lol And the guys cannot drop it and say something like "well you know, come over anyways, you are a nice looking guy I bet your cock will be fine as well, I don't need to see it really".

    That makes me wonder... were they after my cock pic all along? Is my cock pick the ultimate pay off? Once they get it, maybe they jack off to it and for them the adventure is complete. aka they "troll guys for cock pics pretending they are trying to hook up, because that is about the only way they can see a guy's dick, because i.e. they are in a relationship and cannot otherwise actually invite a guy over and hook up. So acquiring the dick pic is like the ultimate goal they are aiming at, at the expense of leading guys on". That is my primary theory.

    Because more often than not, after they do acquire my dick pic, most of the times they just drop off and do not proceed with the hook up and stop talking overall. I am reasonably certain it is not because of my dick. My dick is a.. dick. Nice, not scary, uncut, etc, and I'd say reasonably nice-looking. I have sent it to guys on an occasion before and some did continue the hook up process and did hook up with me. But most have dropped off without saying even a "thanks".

    So my question is -- why do some guys ABSOLUTELY MUST see my dick and will not talk about ANYTHING ELSE until they see that precious little picture, and when they do I get a feeling that they never really were serious about hooking up anyways, and just wanted to see my dick I guess? Like it was the destination and all else was just a ruse. Cuz my dick is all they were talking about. I wonder if it is a bi / straight guy thing, because gay guys do not seem to care as much, maybe.

    My point is that when some guys who ask me for my dick pic, as what I believe to be a part of the hook up process, and when they realize that I am not sending it to them, it becomes a HUGE issue that derails the hookup process.

    Now, derails can mean a temporary derail -- the guys were indeed interested in a hookup but for some unknown to me reason they must see my dick before they do it. But if I do not show them the dick, they may still recover and skip that point of interest and move on with hooking up anyway.

    Derail can mean total derail, where I'd question if they were looking to really hook up in the first place. I mean when guys seemingly were never interested in the hookup as the end point anyway, are were leading me on about it, and they wanted to see the dick as the primary and final point of interest and if they do see it, then jack off or whatever, and forget the hookup afterwards. So if they do not see my dick, they keep on trying harder and harder to get it out fo me, instead of dropping that one bit that I think doesn't really matter that much, and moving on with the hookup process. I mean you can have ME (ME!!) come over and have your dick sucked, why does it all matter so much for me to send it to you??

    Guys -- please tell me your view on these moments when guys ask for "MUST HAVE" dick photos. Why are they MUST HAVE? I do not seem to have the drive to collect, ask, beg, request, or bargain with guys to get them to send me their dick pictures, nor I rarely ever request them to send me any. So why do some guys do it and do it to such degree that makes me question "what is is about my dick picture that they must see so desperately and strongly and unquestionably, that they derail what I thought was a try to set up a hookup opportunity"? I will appreciate thoughtful and thought-provoking answers because up until this point, this, I do not understand.
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    They must be crazy.
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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    They might be just making sure you actually do have a dick, lotta trans out there.
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    hmm I wonder if some guys have a photo fetish or get more aroused by the photos of the person than they do by the actual person. I've seen one guy who got off on that before - he got really horny when I was showing him my (clothed) photos in person.

    That is, photos get them excited and in the mood, and meeting the real person is a presumed follow-up. The trick is not to get too aroused where you jack off and cum before ever meeting the person.

    In this case I can kind of see that they want to get aroused beforehand, but may also lose it by accident when they become too aroused, blow their load, and then lose interest in the actual hook up, ha ha ha.

    I am saying this because another person was talking to me asking for "pics". I asked "what kind", he said "all kinds". That right away makes me think "oh well he is interested in pics again more so than in actually meeting me and getting off together".

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    You guys did not give me good reasons yet..
    * guys are not crazy (some are but no..)
    * it is fairly obvious I am not a tranny

    Somebody's gotta know what's going on. Here are some transcripts (from just this very hour mind you! I did not have to dig deep here guys... it seriously happens all the time):

    Steve: wanna get fucked? [sends his cock pic] [hey, sounds like a hookup invitation!!]

    me: why did you show me your cock? Just curious

    Steve: I am horny and want it on your mouth. Wanna meet? [intent to meet!]

    me: if you get me off, yeah, but do not wanna get fucked.

    Steve: I can go soft an easy

    me: what's your HIV status ?

    Steve: Neg you and wats your name

    me: Chris

    Steve: nice to meet you. *Anymore pics* ? [this is where I laff myself, ha ha ha ha, starts for emphasis]

    me: Thanks, what kind of pics do you want?

    Steve: *All types* [I've added stars for emphasis]

    me: Lol, wouldn't you rather see it all in person, where you can see, view, smell, touch and lick?

    Steve: yes, Pics too though.

    me: Lol lemme think about that

    Steve: ok

    [conversation dies]
    [it seems to me that he is more interested in pics here than the hookup]


    Another one:

    Mike: Hung?

    me: yes, but not a top

    Mike: Can I see a nice hung bottom cock?

    me: Why do you need to see it?

    Mike: I wanna cum suck it [hey sounds like intent for a potential hookup!]

    me: Ok, but why do you want to see MY cock? I mean how much does it matter? Don't they all look the same anyway?

    Mike: I just wanna see it? You can say no, lol I don't know why this is a big deal

    me: Because every other guy has been asking me for my dick photos. And I never ask guys for theirs. I want to understand. And if it's just so you can "see it", weithout a good reason, that's not a good enough reason for me.

    Mike: my reason is to look at it before I cum milk it.

    me: Why can't you come, then look at it, and then milk it?

    Mike: I wanna make sure it's a nice looking cock.

    me: Ah ... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

    Mike: Great reason to me.

    [conversation dies]
    [derailed by lack of cock pic. cuz I will not send the pic, and he will not back off asking me about it, see?]

    I wonder if they read my lack of sending the dick pic as a refusal or or lack of desire to hook up. Cuz that's not necessarily my intent. When I don't want to hook up I just say so, directly or indirectly.
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    Can we see your cock?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    Can we see your cock?
    Come here, CupidBoy. And I will slap you around with it. And you can take all the pictures of it that you want while it is down in your throat making you choke and cry.

    And guys (in general), you probably do not know what you want yourselves. You just want it without knowing why.

    So when I am trying to figure it out, you (guys in general) get threatened and scared, like little babies. ha ha ha ha.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    Are you complaining? I wish I had someone wanting to see my cock.....Somebody please look at my cock

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    Quote Originally Posted by brokegayguy View Post
    Are you complaining? I wish I had someone wanting to see my cock.....Somebody please look at my cock
    haha, lol, love it!

    yeah I am complaining because ... I am horny for a hookup and instead of hooking up guys bug me for pics.

    I am unwilling to send my cock picture for reasons outlined in top post, plus my experience shows that guys who ask for pics like this rarely actually hookup. So I see their requests more so as a warning to me that they are not very serious about hooking up. And yeah I'm complaining.
    Last edited by chrisdobro; April 8th, 2014 at 07:13 PM.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    Is it not obvious, they are all size queens.........Plus your refusal to show, is rather telling........

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    tl;dr

    First of all, why is this in the straight & bisexual forum?

    Why not just meet people in person like a normal human being and then fuck the shit out of them when you bring them over to your place?

    Fuck lame hookup sites, skip all the nonsense and bullshit and just get out there and do it already.

    get off your ass and meet people in person like at a bar or a club, coffee shop ...hell a grocery store even.

    Also, if all you're looking for is just a hookup, why complain about guys asking to see you cock?

    All you want is just a hook up, you could at least give these numb nuts the courtesy of seeing the goods since they will probably never see you again anyway.


    If I am really that desperate and horny enough to use some ridiculous hookup site and someone asks to see my cock, I end the conversation and move on. I usually then come to my senses and go walk around Whole Foods for an hour until I see a hot redhead eyeing my junk and get her number.

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    ummm, why don't, whats the........ummmmmmmmm SMH
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    I don't get hookup culture because I don't get why I'd have to go somewhere else to ask these kinds of questions. You're here tired of guessing why and hoping we can explain why some guy wants to see a pic of your cock before he sucks it, but I figure if he couldn't explain it to me himself I wouldn't want my dick in his mouth. I want to have a good enough comfortable dialogue with a guy to be able to ask him that before I would ever cum on his face.
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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    going from what you've written and the conversations you've posted I think you're chasing them away. I don't understand your rationale for not sending your dick pic. it doesn't make sense to me at all. you don't want your family seeing your dick pic. how are they going to know it's yours? do they know what it looks like now? does it have some birth mark on it or a tattoo? that just doesn't make and sense to me. most guys won't send face pics and will send all kinds of dick pics. it's taking guys off guard. I don't know if you're in the US but you said you're uncut. I know several guys that won't hook up with an uncut guy. I think it's stupid, shallow and superficial but welcome to the hookup world. some guys just don't like uncut dicks. I'm not one of them btw. some of your criteria seems superficial and shallow to me.

    there's a few things you can do. word your replies differently. if you replied to me like that I'd lose interest or think you were trying to hide something as well. try not to be so sarcastic about it. also take a pic that only shows your dick. nothing in the background that can be traced back to you. if it's between a deal breaker and having a good time send 1 dick pic and that's it. in your post or reply to a potential hookup you can say from the start "I'm 6" uncut. I prefer not to send a dick pic" that way it'll weed out those guys that require a pic. there are some pic collectors out there and there's no getting around that but if you're going to play the hookup game you're going to have to find a better way of handling this issue. many guys are going to think you're hiding something and they're going to just move on.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    for guys insisting on seeing a dick pic, copy & paste a dick pic off the internet & send that...

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    What about the obvious explanation?
    They're just collecting pics and don't want to hook up.
    They pretend they want to hook up because it means they've got a better chance of getting pics from you.

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    Steven

    that makes most sense. I think I need to handle it differently. In above conversations yeah I wanted to find out why they wanted it, so I was inquisitive. I have not seen a good reason yet. They never really give me a good reason other than just wanting to see it. Maybe to verify that it matches their mental model or something. I don't think they are size queens, or any special kind. They are just guys. A dick pick is almost like your ID or something.

    As far as my rationale for not sending it, I don't know myself. I just don't like sending it. The rule is "don't send anything out on the Internet you don't want everybody to see". While I am not gonna run for public office, nor am I a celebrity, I still don't like the idea that if I do send it out, that somewhere somehow it may show up back to me. It actually happened one time, when my friend got my naked pics from someone else. It happened to be a good friend at the time, and he told me about it and laughed about it, and it was not a big deal but I would not want my naked pics being circled around to someone I don't know or friends of potential hookups, necessarily, just not something I'd like to happen... Some guys don't seem to mind however.

    So yeah I need to find a non-confrontational way to not send my pic.

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    ^^ It could be a control issue on my part - I cannot control their distribution once they are out.
    Last edited by chrisdobro; April 9th, 2014 at 05:40 AM.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    I posted in this forum, because I think that straight or bisexual guys are a little bit more interested in seeing that dick, because it is more sexual for them, when gay guys are more into the whole person, with feelings, attachments, and so on, that they do not need to see the dick to make their decision about the person. I may be mistaken.

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    It's a puzzlement to me, too, why any gay guy would want to see a penis.
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    You are right to be on guard. I sent out the wrong pic one time that showed my face and cock in it. The guy never wanted to hook up. Later on i tried a hook up again next thing i know this guy sends me my pic as if he was me. It ended up being used on other sites as well as friends told me about it. I tried ny best to threaten this guy that i went to the authorities. It was a nightmare!

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    It's a gay form of cat and mouse. Or hide and seek.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rjason2425 View Post
    You are right to be on guard. I sent out the wrong pic one time that showed my face and cock in it.
    Even I, who knows nothing about hook up sites, would assume this is a bad idea. What were you thinking?
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    I said it was an accident. That pic was meant for someone else.

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    I gotta ask .. what is the difference between sending a "cock pick" and a "cock pick with a face in it"?

    Is it okay to send a cock pic?
    Is it okay to send a face pic?
    but not okay to send two in one?

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    Apparently some guys are turned on only by dick........others want the whole package.
    I don't care how gorgeous a dick is........if he's not attractive TO ME........not interested.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    Ok here's the thing...

    A lot of guys that I've talked to on these hookup apps usually want a face pic before ANYTHING and so do I. There are some guys who all I need to see is a face pic and I'm instantly attracted to them and don't need to see any other part of their body because I know they'll look good.

    Then there are other guys who I'm iffy about so I want to see EVERYTHING. I hate meeting someone and being unpleasantly surprised.

    It sucks because some people are HORRIBLE picture takers and even though their pictures are bad, I might be VERY attracted to them in person. That's why initially meeting someone at a bar or whatever is different. If I met a hot guy at a bar I wouldn't ask for pics obviously. I can tell by his voice, smell, mannerisms, walk and looks that I wanna hook up with him and just assume he looks good underneath.

    I live in New York and have spoken with A LOT of guys on these apps/sites and most of them really just want face pics. I don't mind sending dick pics though because I mean, if your face isn't in it how would people know it's yours?

    That's why I have very few FULL BODY pics. I have pics with JUST my dick and pics with JUST my face or just my torso. All of the pics have different lighting and such so if someone does pretend to be me I'm not too worried.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jubdown5 View Post
    All of the pics have different lighting and such so if someone does pretend to be me I'm not too worried.
    Hey what do you mean by lighting? How does that connect to you not being worried of someone impersonating you?

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    I usualy like a guy with a cute face i dont usualy ask to see there 'Cocks' buy when i use a public toilet there is always someone that checks me out ,when i take a whiz. A bit anoying at times.
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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    Maybe they want to know if your shaved, or hairy, big or small, cut or uncut, these are all ques. that guys want to know who want to bottom or go bi with you.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    I've caught a guy using my dick pic as his. he insisted it was his until I pointed out the planter on the background. I initially replied to his ad and got his interest and his address. I told him it was my pic and I now had his address and it would be in his best interest to take it down. he did.

    sending a fake pic is a terrible idea. what are you going to do when you show up and the dick pick you sent doesn't match? I had that happen too. I told the guy I couldn't trust him and left. not everyone will care or notice, but some will and I think that may be what you're running into. guys want to make sure you're legit and that you don't have a nasty looking dick. let's face it. guys lie about their dicks and in the finicky world of hookups they want to see what you REALLY have.

    I'd take one that ONLY showed your goods don't include anything in the background or your tattoos etc. nothing that can be traced back to you. if they ask for more just say you only send one and that's it.

    I think MOST of them are just trying to make sure you're legit and will match your pic when you get together.

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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    IF they are "bi" or "discreet" they don't want anyone to know who they are. And, as many guys as this might offend, they're not even happy with who they are. They're still battling accepting that they like men. So, from vast experience, they want to make sure they're going to be turned on by your dick - not your face. Otherwise, as you put it, they would want to be attracted to "you" - the "you" that's above the waist. So, they want a "hot" cock more than they want a "hot guy" who might have a perfectly nice dick, but not the one of the fantasy that they are building without ever meeting you. Be careful: you sound like you have a heart, and this 'hooking up' if done a lot will eventually turn you into a jaded guy. Saw this a lot in the 70s in San Francisco, (The 80s in SF were different, due to AIDS, and the 90s even more different, but even so, having your heart when your 60 will serve you a lot more than having a 'hot dick' or any other body part in terms of happiness).

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    Chris

    I want to see your Cock because I'm fascinated with Dicks!

    Nothing Personal. Nothing "Meant". I'm simply Curious. I was born to "Perv" on Penis!

    SO ... Show me, Please?

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    When that is a first request I send them this picture as it is a tell-do they just collect pictures, are they scared because of the size or are they size queens-go big and bold..
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    This whole thread was just a set-up so you could say "This is going to be long," wasn't it. Hah!

    And you slipped it in without anybody even noticing.
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    Re: Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

    Maybe they're worried your size will be uncomfortably wide and not easy or pleasurable to accommodate.

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