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    Re: Found my lover dead in hospital yesterday...

    I'm very sad to hear that happened, Harke. I think it's always a shock to lose someone you love, no matter the circumstance. I know it must hurt; please remember take good care of yourself.

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    Oh no...

    We're so sorry to hear this -- and....

    I am so grateful that the internet can shrink oceans and land -- enabling us to embrace you with our condolence...

    We're here for you, if you need us...

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    My condolences Harke

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    Oh wow. Hark, just know that he is out of pain now, and he is on an amazing journey but he will never leave you alone. Just clothes your eyes and smile at him. Peace to you, friend.

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    What a terrible thing to have happen. My sincere condolences.

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    Harke, my sincere sympathies.
    I have been where you are now.....
    I will keep you in my thoughts.....


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    I'm so sorry.
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    Harke my condolences to you. I can't imagine what it is like to experience the loss of a lover. Be strong and cherish the memories and experiences you had together. Life is fragile and the clock is ticking for all of us.

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    So sad to hear about your loss, my condolences to you and his loved ones.
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    Re: Found my lover dead in hospital yesterday...

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    Sorry to hear about your loss

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    Life with a few smiles and a few scandals is perhaps the way it should be done.

    Harke, I'm sure you gave him a bit of both in the time you had together. Sorry to hear your news.
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    I'm sorry to hear this Harke, I don't really know what to say other than cliches so I'll just

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    Re: Found my lover dead in hospital yesterday...

    My condolences. This is a very sad news indeed. Sorry to hear about your loss.

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    i saw your post two days ago. it brought back bad memories. i can say this much... same thing happened to me couple years ago. i posted here as well- just to have people to talk with. it hurt like hell. it still does but it is better. its years later and i still think about him daily but every once in a while a day passes without thinking about it.

    i hate what you are going through but nothing can help now except time. and sleep. i slept and dreamed. it was the only way to really rest my mind.

    dream of the future. it will be a better one.

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    I'm so sorry to hear this. My sympathy for your loss...

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    Sorry about your loss. My sympathies are with you.

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    Has Anyone heard from Harke?

    I'm thinking that the past few days must have been like an abyss opening up.

    If anyone does hear from him...tell him his Dutch cousin is thinking of him.

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    Harke's been posting a bit as recently as yesterday^. I'm glad.
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    Re: Found my lover dead in hospital yesterday...

    So sad Harke. My sympathies through your grieving.


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    Awww I'm so sorry to hear. Hugs.

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    My condolences for the loss of your partner, Harke.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ravenstar View Post
    I don't really know what to say other than cliches
    Over the years, one learns that cliches of caring are perfectly welcome.

    There are no magic words, but the intent to reach out is well-understood and appreciated by those suffering.

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    Very sorry to hear about this.

    Big cuddles for Harke.

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    I offer my condolences on the loss of your partner. It is a sad time; I hope you can find some comfort from what has been written in response to your post.

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    Thank you, I've read all of your posts, comments and PMs.

    He was cremated at the beautiful crematorium of the famous Père Lachaise Cemetary. Afterward they handed me the ashes and the urn didn't fit in the box. Next were two police stations that were supposed to supply the paper allowing me to transport the urn to The Netherlands. They did manage eventually. Now I'm at the house of one of his friends in Asnières Sur Seine. His urn is on the table.
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    Condolences to you and I wish you strength and stamina in getting through this with the support of your family and friends.

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    The rebuilding has begun. I hope you find strength from your friends both there and here when you need it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by -Kane- View Post
    wow dude... If it's any of our business, what was the cause of death?
    Cirrhosis with ascites and liver cancer. What the cause was I wasn't told, but he had had Hepatitis B.
    He did like to drink but not enough for that kind of liver damage.

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    Found out today that an obituary appeared in The Telegraph about two weeks after his cremation.

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    I am sorry for your loss

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    We are sad to hear of it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    Found out today that an obituary appeared in The Telegraph about two weeks after his cremation.
    Very nice read, and quite the life of achievement. 72,000 hours! Wow!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    Found out today that an obituary appeared in The Telegraph about two weeks after his cremation.
    Wow, I have read about him in the past when looking into the Melkweg and its origins when I first moved to Amsterdam! Jez and I have read old copies of the International Times. What an amazing man, I am sure your time together was wonderful. I hope you are doing OK.
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    If you did not already know The Guardian done a piece on him - http://www.theguardian.com/theguardi...moore-obituary

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    Found out today that an obituary appeared in The Telegraph about two weeks after his cremation.
    Wow! He certainly had a full life! Sounds like he was quite a fascinating Man. Thanks for the Link!
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    Harke, it was interesting to read of your partner's accomplishments and character. Did you share in any of his theater work or other enterprises?

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    He was incredible!!!I can't imagine the amount of passion and drive......

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyAnger View Post
    If you did not already know The Guardian done a piece on him - http://www.theguardian.com/theguardi...moore-obituary
    I'd heard about an obituary in the Guardian, but I thought it was the one in the Telegraph.

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    Wow! He certainly had a full life! Sounds like he was quite a fascinating Man. Thanks for the Link!
    It wasn't just him, it was the interesting places where he lived. Paris, Berlin, Amsterdam. (etc.)

    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    Harke, it was interesting to read of your partner's accomplishments and character. Did you share in any of his theater work or other enterprises?
    By the time I met him, he hadn't done any theatre work in decades. He'd taken to recording performances on video (then a revolutionary new medium) offering then unknown artists a platform to record their performance art (some of them became quite famous afterwards) and after that tending to the multivolume collection that ensued.

    He did some video installations for galleries, gay bars and parties and recorded one or two acts, but he was mainly concerned with restoring the old ones. I was involved with many of those projects in the period I was with him.

    Quote Originally Posted by The Fly View Post
    He was incredible!!!I can't imagine the amount of passion and drive......
    Passion and drive alone can't explain what he did, I'm not sure I even understand it completely. He had an extraordinary intelligence and knew how to connect with other people of talent.

    He lived through an era where well-educated young people felt empowered enough to conceive of changing the word (after having grown up with rations) and there were plenty of opportunities to do so.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    He lived through an era where well-educated young people felt empowered enough to conceive of changing the word
    world...............

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    Hope you're keeping fine and doing OK, Harke.

    I just read the article - out of curiosity, what has happened to all his video recordings?

    Will it be catalogued and archived, and will they give it to a library or museum or an exhibition or something?

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    It appears that you had some wonderful years with that man. I am so sorry to read about your loss, now months after it happened, which somehow I missed when you first posted it.



    I hope that you, and all others who were affected by this great loss to humanity, are doing as well as possible under these circumstances. I echo chickenguy's question, too...is there an effort to archive and preserve his massive resources?

    You were so fortunate to have him in your life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    Hope you're keeping fine and doing OK, Harke.

    I just read the article - out of curiosity, what has happened to all his video recordings?

    Will it be catalogued and archived, and will they give it to a library or museum or an exhibition or something?
    Quote Originally Posted by frankfrank View Post
    I hope that you, and all others who were affected by this great loss to humanity, are doing as well as possible under these circumstances. I echo chickenguy's question, too...is there an effort to archive and preserve his massive resources?
    What will happen with the recordings is unclear. It's being sorted out.

    We'll probably show a little of it during Amsterdam Gay Pride.

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