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    Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Hi, all.
    I met this really cute/nice guy at a party the other night, and we ended up spending most of the evening talking to each other, even making out a little bit. At the end of the night, I was stupid and chickened out about asking for his number. The next day, I saw that he was a mutual friend of another one of my friends on facebook.
    Would it be weird to send him facebook message (not add him as a friend), saying something like "Hey, cool to see you on here. Can't believe I left the other night without getting your info. Would love to give you a call or text some time."?
    I've never asked a guy out before, so any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    That approach sounds groovy to me.
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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Since you guys already made out, don't ask for his number. Ask him out on a date! Then get his number.

    Don't be apologetic in your message. Be confident and assertive. Have a game plan...to take him out on a date. Find a date activity you both can enjoy (besides sex )

    If I were you...my message to him would be: "Hey, cool to see you on here. Had a great time with you at the party the other night. Would love to see you again. Are you free this weekend to (insert a date activity)?" In this message, you're not asking for his permission. You're not leaving it up to him to contact you. You are taking the lead and you're planning ahead. You want to see him this weekend...not some time (which sounds unsure). You're confident!

    When he agrees to go out with you. Then ask him for his phone number so you two can call and text each other to coordinate the schedule.

    Good luck!
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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Well, I'm not sure why you hesitated to ask him for his number. You two were already making out! I think it's safe to say that he likes you- lol.

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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    The worst that can happen is that he doesn't respond. The best that can happen is that you exchange numbers.

    Nothing wagered, nothing gained. The best option seems pretty clear.

    Lesson learned- if your in the midst of snogging with a stranger, it's not unthinkable to come up for air and exchange numbers before getting back to business.
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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    (...). If I were you...my message to him would be: "Hey, cool to see you on here. Had a great time with you at the party the other night. Would love to see you again. Are you free this weekend to (insert a date activity)?" (..)
    ^^^^^^^ This. BTW, I assume both of you are aware of each other that both of you are gay guys.

    Good luck, and please keep us informed.
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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Message sent. Message "seen" (as per what facebook tells me). 24 hours, no response.

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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Don't panic. Maybe he's just as shy and insecure as you are.
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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    You don't want to be with a flake of a guy anyway...

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    Re: Advice needed: Asking for a guy's number

    Mean while...keep kissing other guys at other parties. Don't put your life on hold for him.

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