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    I am 19 and live with a 45 year old bf, Brian. Brian is a great guy, and takes care of me. But recently, when he is drunk he wants to bareback me. He tried twice, and I stopped it, but he is stronger than me and could take me if he wanted to. He gets really aggressive when he is drunk. I don't know what to do. I still want to be safe since a friend of mine was infected by his daddy. I only work part time at Walmart. Brian has a great job. I am not sure I can leave him.
    Any advice?

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    Re: need advice

    I hope you realize that you are describing rape (and your fear that it might happen tells a lot). My ex used to drink and we always had to fight about it.. When they say you are too young, itīs not because they want your relationship to fail (not always anyway), but maybe because of your age you are clinging to someone who treats you the way he does and youīre just saving for later the day your relationship will end.

    To me, this situation is so delicate, I would probably beat the shit out of him and end it all then and there. You might want to make him seek help, make him get tested and see his results and always play it safe, like if he drinks, you try to stay away or have something at hand just in case. But this is not the way a relationship should be. Itīs not the fairy tale that Hollywood sells you, but itīs not a cheap tv show for stupid people neither.

    Imagine that your kid or your mother or brother or whoever you love would be in your situation: what would you say to them? Thatīs what you have to do.

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    Re: need advice

    Isn't this the same issue as in http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...=1#post9358393

    You might ask the threads be merged into this one (more appropriate for the issue).

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    Re: need advice

    So do you work at Target (see ^^) or Wal-Mart?

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    Yes, its the same thread. It seems to be on the wrong thread under daddies and bears. I saw this forum after I posted it and it fits better here. I was working at Target. I just started at Walmart for more hours. Thanks for your thoughts.

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    You need to get away from Brian. Alcohol and aggression is a nasty combination under any circumstance. Move in with a friend or something. This is not working for you. Bare backing is a choice to people make, this is wrong on so many fronts.

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    I agree. Leave him and the sooner the better. You may struggle for awhile financially, but you will find a way. Nothing is worth endangering your health.

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    Thanks for the advice. Everyone is telling me the same thing, even my cousin. I got some good news today, my new boss at Walmart said he was impressed with me and wants me to go full time. I was really excited! I should be able to save a little more money and leave Brian in a couple of weeks.
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    Re: need advice

    IT IS A FAKE STORY. THE USER IS LYING AND MAKING SHIT UP. STOP GIVING HIM ADVICE.

    I mean, seriously, guys, read a little beyond the OP, yes?
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    Re: need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    IT IS A FAKE STORY. THE USER IS LYING AND MAKING SHIT UP. STOP GIVING HIM ADVICE.

    I mean, seriously, guys, read a little beyond the OP, yes?
    Interesting since no one has reported this thread to the mods?
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    Re: need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    IT IS A FAKE STORY. THE USER IS LYING AND MAKING SHIT UP. STOP GIVING HIM ADVICE.

    I mean, seriously, guys, read a little beyond the OP, yes?
    OK Sherlock.........provide some EVIDENCE!.......

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    Re: need advice

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...93#post9358393

    Agree, this shit is fake. He's working at target on the 26th and now hes switched to wall mart on the 27th. And that's just the factual part. None of this smells right, it's even more evident in the target version of the story, which is basically erotic fiction, steamy details and all.

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    Re: need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by KaraBulut View Post
    Interesting since no one has reported this thread to the mods?
    This thread was reported - for possible merger incorporating the one in "Daddies and Bears." As no action had taken place at the time Rolyo brought the Target/WalMart issue up I assumed it would be seen - and that there was no need for an additional report clogging The System. I suppose I can say "my error."

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