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    Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    I met what I now call one of my best friends when I went to basic training in the military. Our friendship formed out of the situation (not knowing anybody, both being loners, constantly getting screamed at, etc.) At first we really didn't talk to each other, but when I found out we we're both going to the same tech school we started to bond and get to know each other. He's a couple of years younger than me, aesthetically attractive, and a little more athletically built then myself. He's also pretty mature for someone his age, though he does have his moments were his limited years of experience show.

    Anyway, we both made it out of basic and went off to tech school in Missouri (which was actually a major downgrade). We weren't roommates at first, but I recommended he ask our Sergeant to let him switch rooms since my roommate had just moved out, and they actually let him. So after that we were hanging out everyday, all the time. We did everything together, eat, sleep, work out, we even showered together (once). Most of all we would come back to the dorm after a long day of working and watch movies together on my computer on my bed. I would usually be in just my boxers and he would wear shorts to sleep in. I didn't seem weird considering all that we been through together, we would just lay across from each other and watch whatever until we got tired and then he would go to bed.

    What made it so special was one night when I was really tired, and I was trying to stay awake to watch a movie he really liked, but I couldn't and eventually I unknowingly started resting my head on his shoulder. When I woke up I looked at him, thinking he would be offended, but he didn't say or do anything, so I moved in closer and continued to rest my head on his shoulder as we watched the rest of the movie until he got tired, and we went to sleep in our own beds. It was the first time I had any moment like that with another guy, but it felt really nice, mostly because it wasn't sexual in nature, but platonic "security" I felt in someone I considered my brother. He was never really that physically affectionate towards me, but after that night he started "opening up" more, and he stopped lying across from me and started lying beside me when we were in bed.

    Our time together lasted a little over four months, and we constantly told each other how happy and lucky we were to have each other, and that we would have been very lonely without each others company. The problem was he was active duty, and I was reserve. We both hoped that he would be stationed somewhere close to where I lived, but that didn't happen. I graduated before he did and the morning I was scheduled to leave, I came back to our room instead of going to the airport, and I laid down beside him since he was still in bed, this time face to face. We talked about how we would keep in touch and how he was the brother I never had, or even knew I wanted, but we were so glad to have found each other. In what seemed like minutes it was time to say goodbye. He called me a cab to take me to the airport, and I told him we should get our hugs out now since I knew he didn't want to do it outside in public. We hugged and I held him tight, though he just gave me a few light pats on the back, which I expected considering he's that type of guy. He helped me take my bags outside and put them in the cab. Before I got in he gave me another hug, holding me tighter this time like he really meant it. I was surprised he did this since there were other guys standing around watching, but I guess in that moment he didn't care. I told him I loved him and he whispered "I love you too" (which he never said before). I got in the cab and left.

    It's been over six months since I've seen him, and though we still talk and text over the phone every few weeks or so, I feel we're already growing apart. I often think about our time together, and how it was some of the closest male bonding I've ever experienced. I plan on visiting him soon, and hopefully it will be like old times together, though I often wonder if that will be the case...

    I have other stories I can tell you about the time we spent together, if you would like to read more let me know.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    really nice story! will you ever see him again?

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    did things ever become sexual? or seem like they were about to?

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Beautiful story. Have you felt a physical or emotional attraction to other men?

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    That is a great story and for you both I am sure a beautiful experience that neither of you will ever forget whether or not you remain in touch with each other; something to remember and treasure as cherished moments always are. Thanks for sharing, wishing you to find happiness and real love in the future.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Thanks, newguy, for sharing such a warm and beautiful experience. It brings up memories from the past. There is nothing more tender than the true emotional bonding with another. Whether that bond develops into something greater in the future, only time will tell. But, as has been stated, cherish it and refer back to it when times are not so positive. I hope your friendship grows and there will be a continuance of this wonderful interaction.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Thanks for sharing your story with us - yes, more will be appreciated



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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Uhh, that's not what I posted... who hacked my account?

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    I have to say I don't believe you posted this follow up story either! It lacks your sensitivity and emotionalism and is contradictory to the initial story which clearly indicates you being someone who would not follow up with a story of this nature. I am glad to see you immediately denying any personal responsibility of it being posted in your name.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    I, too, was a bit confused. I couldn't quite grasp how you ended up in someones basement in an orgy. None of the second story matched the warm and tender experience with your army buddy. Hopefully someone will be able to figure this out.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    It seems to be the second chapter from nhvtski2190, "Relief for the big cop cock (cop, cuffs, cum, & piss)", but how his writing was put in your thread is the mystery. Maybe Auto can figure it out.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Quote Originally Posted by Craiger View Post
    It seems to be the second chapter from nhvtski2190, "Relief for the big cop cock (cop, cuffs, cum, & piss)", but how his writing was put in your thread is the mystery. Maybe Auto can figure it out.

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    Strange things happen! I have removed the offending post for as Craiger has spotted, it is attributable to the nhvtski2190 story.



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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Hey guys,

    Not exactly sure what happened to my original post, but I'll try to recapture the words to the best of my ability.

    A few things I didn't get into my first post is that my best friend is actually married to his high school sweetheart. It happened during tech school (typical), and I actually attended the wedding for support. I did ask him if he was sure he wanted to do it because they are both so young, but he said that he loved her and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her, so I supported him. I met her and she seems to make him happy, which is good.

    Another thing I didn't mention is that we actually had another roommate during tech school who was younger than both of us, but closer in age to my bf. He seemed pretty cool at first, but he was your true definition of "friend blocker". I initiated all of us hanging out together because when I first met him he seemed pretty lonely, but after he met my bf he immediately attached himself to him, like he "imprinted" on him or something (sorry for the Twilight reference). I don't think our roommate was gay, he did have a girlfriend, but he became overly obsessed with my best friend. He started following us everywhere we went, and he would always take my bf's side in any conversation we had good or bad. I asked my bf if he noticed this, but he just said it was because he was lonely and because they both came from the west coast. I tried to roll with it at first, but then it became bluntly obvious that he was trying to hinder me and my bf's friendship. Two occurrences I distinctively remember were when we all went out to the movies and before we sat down our roommate quickly placed himself in between my bf and I, and then taunted me saying "oh I'm sorry, did you want to sit by him?" I called our roommate out about it and he didn't deny it, but my bf continued to think nothing of it.

    I won't get too far into but one time our roommate and my bf did something that really upset me. I didn't speak to either of them for days. My bf knew I was pissed, but he didn't know how to approach me about it, and I felt like I tried so many times to talk to him about it to no avail. One day when our roommate left and we were alone, my bf sat across from me and asked me if he had done something wrong. I told him that what he and our roommate did really upset me, and that it seemed like he was "getting off" on the attention he was getting from our roommate, and this whole time he had me feeling like a jealous boyfriend even though we weren't even dating. He told me he was sorry and that he considered me his brother that he will keep in touch with forever, not our roommate. That didn't cut it, I was still pissed at him and I tried to leave the room, but he blocked my path and grabbed me in a tight bear hug saying "I'm sorry, bro. I didn't mean to make you feel that way. I really care about you, you know that". This was the first time he hugged me, and I knew he meant what he said, but the damage had been done and I was still heated. I eventually forgave him, but I told him that it was bound to happen again. Unfortunately it did happen again, but soon our roommate left and got stationed somewhere with no cell phone reception. My bf kept his promise and only spoke to him once as I did just to make sure that he got there safely.

    Just to clarify, I'm not sexually attracted to my best friend or any guy, but I do have strong emotions towards people in general, and I feel like we've molded a deep connection that will last forever. I do still think about my him alot (probably more than I should), and hopefully I will make it out to see him in the following months. I would really like to rekindle the intense friendship that we once shared, but now that he's married I don't know if that is possible. His wife is supportive of our friendship though, like when I gave him a congratulatory hug after they got married, she smiled and said "kiss him like I kiss my bestie", which didn't happen of course. I am excited to see him again, but on the other hand, I don't want to feel like a third wheel when I'm around both of them considering I just got out of a relationship myself, but that's another story...

    Thanks for reading everyone.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Hi
    Great the roommate ( NOT!) was out of the way eventually but clearly some damage done to loyalties so testing these, the strength of them as I say in another posting "Everything in life" happening for a reason, case proven in this instance. It made your B.F. question himself and the way he had been behaving or had been weak enough to having been manipulated to behaving towards you but it seems some damage had clearly been done. Like I say you are a sensitive guy so I fully appreciate this fact.

    Not sure a good idea you even want to gain back the intensity of the friendship you once shared, seems a strange emotion to want to gain back as if this done will lead to problems in his marriage as his wife will be aware of that intensity as he will have told her the strength of your feelings for him so will be on her guard anyway if she truly loves him; she will stand by her man in the words of Tammy Wynette! I am relieved to see that you are aware of being a third cog in a wheel here so if happening similar to the scenario played out with the roommate, once bitten and sensibly and wisely twice shy.

    There are things you need to face so the emotions you have for your B.F. as you admit you think about him more than you should so whether or not you are attracted to him, there is clearly an attraction or you would not think about him more than you admit you should; what that attraction is only you can know and therefore determine. Interesting in your message you post faces which illustrate jealousy, envy, sadness etc so again I say that in your own interest you need to be really honest with yourself as to the exact nature of your feelings towards your B.F. before being in his company again which will mean being in his wife's company too!

    All the best and your openness really respected.

    Zanadu
    Last edited by zanadu; February 23rd, 2014 at 11:39 PM.

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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    Your second post is very interesting. Close friendships, as you have described yours, can be all consuming. When someone else steps in and gets between you, it is quite unbearable. It is not necessary for such friendships to be sexually motivated and I can empathize with you completely, having had similar experiences myself. Thanks for sharing this with us



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    Re: Male bonding with my best friend - TRUE STORY

    I respect as you say friendships can become all consuming but ideally something expressed by both parties involved or becoming unbalanced with one doing more of the giving and the other of the receiving so bound sooner or later to create conflict.

    Therefore there needing to being an agreed compromise met and again ideally something discussed by both people in order to be successfully reached. This done making it much more unlikely anyone will be able to upset the equilibrium within the close friendship.

    Therefore there being no justification for negative and damaging emotions like jealousy being felt and much less expressed within that same friendship. "Life is the lesson, experience the teacher!"

    All the best,

    Zanadu
    Last edited by zanadu; February 24th, 2014 at 03:16 AM.

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