I'm using this post as a place to vent. I've kept the level of my resentment bottled up for years even though he and I have talked about the issue.
Husband and I have been together 7 years. I love him. Problem for the last few years: He has no sex drive, no desire for sex at all. Cringes when I mention it. Makes up excuses.
I don't think he's sleeping with others but I almost wish he was. At least then it would be a problem with me being bad in bed/him not being attracted to me and not just him. I'm beyond sexually frustrated. BEYOND.
We opened up our relationship to see if that would spice things up, but he never wants to play together and when I play separately, he pouts for days. So it's not worth it.
I don't want to leave him. Other than this, we're happy and have built a comfortable life together. I'm just at the point where I feel like I'm going to go crazy. I didn't sign up to be celibate and it's unfair for him to expect it.
Thanks for listening to me whine.