I've been seeing a guy for about a year and we've gone back and forth on having an open relationship. He's more interested in fooling around with other folks then I am
I'm OK with it if we communicate clearly about what's going on and as long there is safe sex. The problem is we have different ideas about what safe sex. To me it's condoms every time you fuck or get fucked by anyone else. To him it's asking questions about HIV status and testing and if it sounds OK then bb is OK too.
What are other folks doing about this?