Ok time to say my two cents.
Alistair here. This video was private and not meant for public release at all. I am not straight, I have never said I was or will ever say I am.
I am out, gay, happy and proud.
I don't wish to be a porn star and this is not some huge conspiracy or leaked plan to launch a career in the adult industry.
This video is over two years old and at the time I was single also not known by my married name Swodeck.
Why I asked this video to be removed it was purely and simply because it was NOT made for public consumption and certainly not made so other people could profit from publishing it.
I sent a polite request to Sexflexible to take it down and they point blankly refused and said they are going to make thousands of dollars even if I took them to court and proved that they had no right to publish. Luckily GoDaddy who host there site could see i was in the right and removed the video on my behalf.
I am now very happily married and it upsets me simply because it upsets those closest to me, namely my family. I have no regrets in making the video, hell even my husband told me I look good. However, this is not the point, the video was leaked by persons unkown and luckily I had the foresight to copyright the original and therefore get it legally removed from sites that were publishing it.
In regards to Jamie, he has every right to be whatever the hell he wants to be. He and I met when we made the video, and have been great friend and nothing else since. I also count his fiancee as a very good friend.
Seriously guys, there is plenty of legitimate porn out there, I know I have fuck loads of it. Please spend you time watching that, not something that was meant to be private and now upsets people."