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    Re: Chaotic on and off relationship

    Quote Originally Posted by james88 View Post
    Rolyo - I think you sound a little judgmental to assume that in all the off-and-on chaotic stuff, that in a year of sleeping with each other and being lovers/friends/not sure/, that we don't have any real emotions or tender moments together, and that it's like, ALL BAD. Obviously I wouldn't bother with hope if it was all bad. There is some good, and I love that good. But in any case I am going to quit talking to him for a while and date other people, because the thought of him being with another guy, in and of itself, is getting to me too much.
    I am not being judgmental, nor did I say that you have no real emotions. I said that whatever emotions you two have aren't love, and never were. Love doesn't seek to damage, and he is trying to do that to you. Actively. Also, I have to disagree - there are a LOT of cases of people holding on to hope in all-bad situations. It's just that they can't see how all-bad those situations are.

    Do not be that guy who seeks advice not because he doesn't know what to do, but because he does but hopes to hear a different answer. Nobody here will give you a different answer because the situations you describe is damaging and unhealthy. And what's worse, is that you think that because you didn't care enough about him at first, now you OWE him to let him abuse you physically and mentally, possibly leave permanent scars. Incorrect.
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    Re: Chaotic on and off relationship

    I think you're headed in the right direction james88. I would see other people and go from there. This relationship doesn't seem healthy in the least, but I can understand how strong chemistry can pull people together.

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    oh pleez. if you can tell me the open, hi, low and close of the s&p 500 index on feb. 22, 2014 sure, then i'll give astrology a go.
    I've actually found astrology to be quite enlightening.

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    Re: Chaotic on and off relationship

    Quote Originally Posted by altlover85 View Post
    I've actually found astrology to be quite enlightening.

    I agree...Meyers Briggs was a great tool my therapist used and it helped me a lot...and an astrologer friend also helped me a lot..he told me exactly who my mate should be and why...and that was 35 years ago...he was absolutely 100% on target...everything he said.

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