Hi there, I'll try to keep this short.
Basically last October I sort of fell in love with this guy at my school (we're both 18). Maybe it wasn't 'love' but it was definitely bigger than any other crushes I've had.
It was so big that it sort of drained me and I couldn't concentrate on my work or my life... I was completely OBSESSED with him.
But I'm pretty sure he's straight because his gay friend mentioned it while I was nearby. That's why I haven't told him.
Anyway I'm finally over him (which wasn't easy)
So I don't really have feelings for him anymore.
But now I want to tell him about how I felt because I feel he deserves to know and also I want to know what he would have thought.
He doesn't know I'm gay yet (it's not a big deal though). But I'm not SURE he's straight.
I really want to tell him but I'm just worried it might destroy our friendship (even if he says he's cool with it).
Do you think I should tell him? Even if I don't really like him in that way anymore??