So I'm 28 and I recently started seeing this 20 year old guy. We've been on a few dates and he's really cute/we get along well. He told me he was a virgin, which I'm ok with.
Anyway, today he texted me saying he would love to be my boyfriend and that he would like me to decide if I want to be his boyfriend within 30 days. I think it's really weird that he would give me that kind of deadline.
I like him but I dunno if I can make that kind of commitment right now since we've only seen each other a few times. I also asked him how he felt about just cuddling with a guy (not sex) and he said he would like to wait at least a few weeks before he did that.
I want to respect his values but I don't know if I can commit to being his boyfriend right now since I don't even know when or if we'll ever cuddle or have sex (which is kinda important to me). Does it make me an asshole to feel this way?
I'm also a little bit worried that if we ever have sex, he'll always remember me since I would be his first time. That's a lot of pressure! lol