January 13th, 2014, 10:56 AM
Ive recently began to start fingering myself but its been a huge let down, i cant seem to find my prostate i seem to get a burning like sensation when i push in and out? Anyone help please? Thanks
ps do you think this will kinda make me gayer? Im a straight guy but yeah, anal play turns me on a lot
January 13th, 2014, 11:21 AM
use lube not your bare finger. or slip a finger in a condom and put some lube. of course, if you do an enema before fingering with a lubed condom then you can really enjoy.
it doesn't necessarily make you gay. just another way of getting off, that's all.
January 13th, 2014, 11:59 AM
that burning sounds like friction. were you using any form of lubricant?
if you dont want to buy lube, for going slow and only using 1 finger, you can get away with using oil or soap (in the shower).
put your finger in all the way and the push toward your front from the inside - basically stick your finger in and aim for your balls. youll feel it on your prostate.
January 13th, 2014, 11:53 PM
I don't recommend soap though because that can cause irritation of the lining. You can do it of course but not recommended. 100% mineral oil(used as a laxative or vaginal lubricant) or olive oil might be used. Although I'd still recommend lubricant: Boy Butter or any lube out there: Pjur, Swiss Navy, Astroglide, etc.
Originally Posted by njcollegekid
January 14th, 2014, 02:23 AM
As others have said use lube and aim in and press against the base of your penis. You may have to bend your finger a little. Feel for a small lump. You'll find it. Sometimes it's easier to have someone find it for you and then you'll know exactly where yours is. Check out an anatomy chart for a little help. Also there are toys designed to help hit the prostate. Give one a try.
Gotta say that part about "making you gay" wasn't called for. Nothing makes someone gay. A straight guys prostate can give him just as much pleasure as a gay man's