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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    One thing I'd be curious about from bisexual members of JUB here, is what do YOU guys think when someone else identifies as bi but has a love life that pursues only one gender 100%?
    I assume that, like me, they know what they're doing and they identify as how they perceive themselves.

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    Don't mind mike, he's on his period again. 4-5 days from now he'll be like, "oh my I was sooooo hot flashy."

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    Re: Most so called "bi" guys like cock exclusively

    Quote Originally Posted by Maestro719 View Post
    Uh.. Bi sexual is a real thing lol. You can't just be gay or straight. Like me, honestly I'd probably only date a girl but I can get turned on by a guy and sometimes its easier for a dude to get me turned on than a girl can.
    Just suck my cock ...it's the real thing dude. Girls are pussies.

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    And such juicy, soft and tasty pussies too. Mmmm...
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    And such juicy, soft and tasty pussies too. Mmmm...


    I like to watch...

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    Re: Most so called "bi" guys like cock exclusively

    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Another bi-bashing thread to start 2014. What else is new?
    Funny thing...I never really heard this topic being discussed much ...and I did work in a gay bar for 20 years so I pretty much heard all the usual (and unusual)topics. The closest thing to this I can remember that was discussed alot would be the guys who thought "everyone was gay" Yawn.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gentleheart View Post
    Awww, c'mon. Sometimes I feel like a hot dog, sometimes a burger hits the spot. Variety is the spice of life.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    They feign interest in pussy to straddle the fence of lies and cowtow to fake girlfriends who think they are so "man"...! What a "bi" guy says about "preference" ...never believe it what a lie from bi...fukkkkk. I think I just pissed off such a guy in a bar here but he looked scared too probably "faced with the 'massive' realization that he had been living a lie" and wanted to 'confide' in me...what rubbish... But, in the end I just let the conversation run dry. I told him he will get no "solutions" from me and will be faced with his own choice.

    Why must this nonsense go on? You are either straight or gay.

    True and you know it.
    got turned down again, huh..?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Awww, c'mon. Sometimes I feel like a hot dog, sometimes a burger hits the spot. Variety is the spice of life.
    lol I know. just messin' with ya.
    I like to watch...

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    You, sir are getting cuter every time you yank my chain.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    They feign interest in pussy to straddle the fence of lies and cowtow to fake girlfriends who think they are so "man"...! What a "bi" guy says about "preference" ...never believe it what a lie from bi...fukkkkk. I think I just pissed off such a guy in a bar here but he looked scared too probably "faced with the 'massive' realization that he had been living a lie" and wanted to 'confide' in me...what rubbish... But, in the end I just let the conversation run dry. I told him he will get no "solutions" from me and will be faced with his own choice.

    Why must this nonsense go on? You are either straight or gay.

    True and you know it.
    just like the only eye colors a blue and brown.
    intermitent phenotypes are exist between any 2 polar phenotypes. you can argue about the frequency, meaning how many people are bi, but saying bi doesnt exist is just ignorant of both human sexuality, and biological concepts in general.

    and if people are in psychological denial, they cant just be told so. it wont do anything - they have to come to the conclusion themselves. so for any such people, you are only a source of stress.

    why do bi people bother you? or people who identify as bi, regardless of what they may be?

    youre just coming off as a mentally challenged bigot.

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    Re: Most so called "bi" guys like cock exclusively

    OP probably had his heart broken by a girl long ago and just hates them now.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    I see rainbow dick still talks out of his unwanted ass.

    And they always say the new year is when you're supposed to "change"...
    "As anarchism rears its face,

    They are answered by an iron fist..."

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    Re: Most so called "bi" guys like cock exclusively

    Quote Originally Posted by blackbeltninja View Post
    I assume that, like me, they know what they're doing and they identify as how they perceive themselves.

    -d-


    Well put.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

    --Jonathan Rauch, Salon Magazine, March 13, 2000

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    Re: Most so called "bi" guys like cock exclusively

    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post


    Well put.
    Do we (as gay people in general) employ the same reasoning when it comes to straight men identifying as straight and frequently having gay sex?

    I agree in general that self-identification trumps an outsider affixing a label to you in conflict to the one you use yourself. But I do perceive sometimes a certain wall where I would legitimately like to understand bisexuality better, but the answer very often resembles something close to: it's the way I choose to identify, do not question it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Do we (as gay people in general) employ the same reasoning when it comes to straight men identifying as straight and frequently having gay sex?

    I agree in general that self-identification trumps an outsider affixing a label to you in conflict to the one you use yourself. But I do perceive sometimes a certain wall where I would legitimately like to understand bisexuality better, but the answer very often resembles something close to: it's the way I choose to identify, do not question it.
    That's not true. There are people who label themselves however they like to, even if they indeed are something else, which often muddles the waters. Yet I don't perceive the "don't question me" attitude as much as you do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    Funny thing...I never really heard this topic being discussed much ...and I did work in a gay bar for 20 years so I pretty much heard all the usual (and unusual)topics. The closest thing to this I can remember that was discussed alot would be the guys who thought "everyone was gay" Yawn.....
    Both those topics seem to occur at JUBville, but that's expected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Both those topics seem to occur at JUBville, but that's expected.
    It's easier to be a Westboro Gayist when you don't have to look people in the face.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

    --Jonathan Rauch, Salon Magazine, March 13, 2000

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    Re: Most so called "bi" guys like cock exclusively

    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Both those topics seem to occur at JUBville, but that's expected.
    Yeah...I have noticed the bi topics a lot here but I have see the other as well.

    My input on the "are they really bi?" threads...

    Bi Guy : "I am bi"

    Me: "OK"

    The end

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Do we (as gay people in general) employ the same reasoning when it comes to straight men identifying as straight and frequently having gay sex?

    I agree in general that self-identification trumps an outsider affixing a label to you in conflict to the one you use yourself. But I do perceive sometimes a certain wall where I would legitimately like to understand bisexuality better, but the answer very often resembles something close to: it's the way I choose to identify, do not question it.
    Then how about ask bisexuals? The more you ask the more answers you'll get. Is there a question you'd like me to answer?
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by medic1 View Post
    Bollocks : True and you know it.

    You are basically saying, that all members here who identify as bisexual, are either delusional, or liars.

    Way to go, you narrow-minded Homosexual.
    So true - how can bisexuals fight against the prejudice of homosexuals?

    It is so funny how some gays are so much like their straight parents... "You can not find both sexually attractive..."

    I find these (I call them "conservative gays") very funny. They know only one way - the gay way.

    All I say to those homophobic straights and bi-phobic gays - get over it dear. Life is diverse...

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    I don't get the aversion to labels. I don't like them either because my personality is all over the place but still will use gay and geek to describe myself best.

    If you enjoy sucking dick or getting fucked in the ass, you are not heterosexual. I have little against bisexuals but own the label society will bestow upon you or end up shunned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    I don't get the aversion to labels. I don't like them either because my personality is all over the place but still will use gay and geek to describe myself best.

    If you enjoy sucking dick or getting fucked in the ass, you are not heterosexual. I have little against bisexuals but own the label society will bestow upon you or end up shunned.

    Stop the label thing - it is a Hollywood cliche.... you like dick, you like vagina, you like both, you like the one 23% and the other 77% etc.

    No labels (aka excuses).....

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    Quote Originally Posted by SLOPPYSECONDS View Post
    bi ness gay or any labels no complex
    as clear a artic ice wen fish go hey look out a loony wi harpoon

    * sorry any porfessionals head folks now out job *

    ya cured

    thankyou

    complex HAAAAAAAAAAAA
    Yea "SloppySeconds".... let's hope you are not gay!

    God forbids any and all forms of deviant sexual practices...


    You wanna be bi/straight? You still deciding? Wow! As long as you are not gay....

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    Quote Originally Posted by figjam View Post
    Yea "SloppySeconds".... let's hope you are not gay!

    God forbids any and all forms of deviant sexual practices...


    You wanna be bi/straight? You still deciding? Wow! As long as you are not gay....
    Are we supposed to reply to Sloppy's posts? I always thought the account was for comic relief(seriously).

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    I guess bisexuality confuses people, but it confuses me when people say it doesn't exist.

    What do you make of this relationship that was posted on buzzfeed a couple of months ago ? This woman doesn't like labels, I can relate.

    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    Are we supposed to reply to Sloppy's posts? I always thought the account was for comic relief(seriously).
    Every once in awhile...not often...but it happens...sloppy is the first post I agree with on a thread...and he sometimes puts topics in perspective as well quite nicely

    I would kinda miss him if he wasn't here......

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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    Every once in awhile...not often...but it happens...sloppy is the first post I agree with on a thread...and he sometimes puts topics in perspective as well quite nicely

    I would kinda miss him if he wasn't here......
    Yea - kinda like I miss her aunty.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    Are we supposed to reply to Sloppy's posts? I always thought the account was for comic relief(seriously).
    No. Nothing of importance is said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    Are we supposed to reply to Sloppy's posts? I always thought the account was for comic relief(seriously).
    If you can follow him, sure. There've been times when he cut through the fog of a topic to its heart... but that goes unnoticed because few take the time to translate him. And sometimes his humor is so on target it's hard to stop laughing.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

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    I've never understood why people are so obsessed with bisexuality. Unless I'm in a relationship with a person I couldn't give a crap what a person labels themselves, who the had sex with before me or who'll the do it with after our relationship ends.

    It kind of reminds me when a celebrity comes out. People go into a whirl like they did with Tom Daley. The only thing I think is "good on you, coming out can be tough", as for the rest it, I don't care. I wasn't going to date him before he came out, and I'm not going to date him now.

    Same with most peoples sexuality, I wasn't going to date you before & I'm not going to date you after so what does it matter?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ravenstar View Post
    I've never understood why people are so obsessed with bisexuality. Unless I'm in a relationship with a person I couldn't give a crap what a person labels themselves, who the had sex with before me or who'll the do it with after our relationship ends.
    wouldn't you be interested in knowing a person's label that you MAY be interested in dating, though? It would be nice to say it doesn't matter...but it doesn't work that way, especially for us gays. We can't just assume anything. Sometimes...we have to know or get an idea before we can go further with someone or know our chances.

    I'm just using potential dating as an example, but it applies for a number of things across the board. Unfortunately, for us gays...there are a number of situations we find ourselves in in which it would be in our best interest to know the sexual orientation of the individuals we are interacting with.
    I like to watch...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    That's not true. There are people who label themselves however they like to, even if they indeed are something else, which often muddles the waters. Yet I don't perceive the "don't question me" attitude as much as you do.
    Kulindahr made a great post, but I do feel like most others in the thread essentially assumed a defensive posture about someone's motives for wanting to ask about it, rather than illuminating much about what bisexuality means to them. And I do feel that happens a lot. Granted, I understand the hostile reaction to the OP. But I'm speaking in general.

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Then how about ask bisexuals? The more you ask the more answers you'll get. Is there a question you'd like me to answer?
    That's what I was doing.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    Are we supposed to reply to Sloppy's posts? I always thought the account was for comic relief(seriously).
    I have never seen any rhyme or reason to his posts other than that he bumps controversial topics where people are arguing. So that's why I tend to regard him as someone's sock puppet.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    I guess bisexuality confuses people, but it confuses me when people say it doesn't exist.

    What do you make of this relationship that was posted on buzzfeed a couple of months ago ? This woman doesn't like labels, I can relate.

    Thanks for sharing that --- but (I think I recall the original thread where this lady's story came up) would you say this typifies the experience for many bisexuals? That they lived their life as "one orientation" and one individual of a different gender opened them up to something else? From what I recall of her answers, there was no period of attraction to women prior to meeting the partner she's with right now. Would you say that's typical for bisexuals? I honestly don't know. It's hard to have discussions about it sometimes.

    Quote Originally Posted by ravenstar View Post
    Unless I'm in a relationship with a person I couldn't give a crap what a person labels themselves
    I'm sorry Ravenstar, I'm not trying to be contentious but this simply isn't really true. A lot of people say this, and it sounds good. But like I alluded to earlier-- people have strong enough opinions about other people's labels when it comes to closeted gay men identifying as straight, and we had two big explosive threads full of rancor some months back about gay men using the label "straight acting." So no, it's hard for me to swallow that labels simply don't matter, and that everyone is cool with letting everyone else identify in any way they please without question. None of this is to say I'm "challenging" the label of bi, I'm not. But I'm reiterating the point I made earlier: I feel bisexuality is very poorly understood, even in the gay community, and the fact that discussions about it tend to turn into "why are you asking? Just let people label the way they want, why do you care?" tends to make understanding difficult.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Thanks for sharing that --- but (I think I recall the original thread where this lady's story came up) would you say this typifies the experience for many bisexuals?
    .
    Most likely, no and perhaps a couple of years ago, I would have called BS on this woman.

    But, Im learning that everyone's experience is different. I can't deny the authenticity of her love for her fiance or her past relationships (I assume that she felt real feelings for men in the past.)

    I can only take her word for it. I can't say that her feelings are fake or cliche or insincere.

    I know that it doesn't feel good and like her, only I can say what feels real for me. I assume that other people that identify as sexually fluid or bisexual feel the same.

    I think that I get why people dont believe in bisexuality and I too hate that label.

    Its slowly becoming less important to me because Im learning that having a connection with another human being is a gift. I think that people tend to avoid labels because it wastes time. We are trying to push ourselves into boxes to make other people happy when we should be paying attention to our feelings, which is most important.

    Your feelings belong to you and not your friends, future partners, family members, random strangers with prying questions etc.

    I think that this is a good discussion, even if it goes nowhere.
    Last edited by MissAnne; January 13th, 2014 at 08:41 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Most likely, no and perhaps a couple of years ago, I would have called BS on this woman.

    But, Im learning that everyone's experience is different. I can't deny the authenticity of her love for her fiance or her past relationships (I assume that she felt real feelings for men in the past.)

    I can only take her word for it. I can't say that her feelings are fake or cliche or insincere.

    I know that it doesn't feel good and like her, only I can say what feels real for me. I assume that other people that identify as sexually fluid or bisexual feel the same.

    I think that I get why people dont think that bisexuality doesnt exist and I too hate that label.

    Its slowly becoming less important to me because Im learning that having a connection with another human being is a gift. I think that people tend to avoid labels because it wastes time. We are trying to push ourselves into boxes to make other people happy when we should be paying attention to our feelings, which is most important.

    Your feelings belong to you and not your friends, future partners, family members, random strangers with prying questions etc.

    I think that this is a good discussion, even if it goes nowhere.
    Answering for yourself, do bisexual people go through sort of like, a "realization of attraction to same gender" much like what gay people go through, only it never "replaces", or develops at the same time, as realization of attraction to opposite gender? Or did they realizations come at different points along the way?

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    i know the question wasnt directed at me, but if youd like, heres my answer:
    i started becoming attracted to both simultaneously. i just didnt know that the attraction to guys was attraction til a bit later. then it was pretty odd for me so i denied for a while. then when i had to confront it i was confused for a bit til i realized it meant i was bi during early high school. then after i knew i hid it til a little under a year ago when i came out.

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    I'm sorry Ravenstar, I'm not trying to be contentious but this simply isn't really true. A lot of people say this, and it sounds good. But like I alluded to earlier-- people have strong enough opinions about other people's labels when it comes to closeted gay men identifying as straight, and we had two big explosive threads full of rancor some months back about gay men using the label "straight acting." So no, it's hard for me to swallow that labels simply don't matter, and that everyone is cool with letting everyone else identify in any way they please without question. None of this is to say I'm "challenging" the label of bi, I'm not. But I'm reiterating the point I made earlier: I feel bisexuality is very poorly understood, even in the gay community, and the fact that discussions about it tend to turn into "why are you asking? Just let people label the way they want, why do you care?" tends to make understanding difficult.
    I'm not talking for everyone else xbuzzerx, I'm talking for myself. I don't care if you say you're bisexual and only sleep with guys or only sleep with women, anymore than I would care about anyone else saying they're bisexual and only sleeping with the same sex.

    Nowhere in my response did I say "everyone is cool with letting everyone else identify in any they please without question." I said I simply don't care enough to worry about the labels people give themselves which don't directly affect my life.

    Straight acting is a different thing altogether. I don't see why anyone has the need to act. Be who you are, but if you have to act a role then you're not being true to yourself, you forcing yourself to conform to an expectation. I've got friends you'd never be able to pick as gay and they don't act in the slightest. They just are who they are. I've also got friends whose homosexuality can be spotted from space and you know what, they don't act either. And both groups get on just fine because the people in the groups aren't trying to be anything other than what they are.

    The only difficulty in understanding bisexuality comes from those who refuse to acknowledge it can and does exist. Most of the gay guys I know who claim it is bullshit, used it as a stepping stone to fully coming out, or they've gotten their hearts broken by falling in love with a bisexual guy who used the "I'll only date/have relationships with a woman but I'll have sex with a guy" mantra.

    As in most situations in life - and again, I'm only talking for myself - I'm a proponent of live and let live. I don't need every bisexual guy to be a closet gay frightened to commit to prove to myself that such and such who broke my heart was a coward.

    And quite frankly, that is the underlying sentiment in pretty much every one of these threads. Some guy or girl gets their heart broken by someone who is bisexual and then desperately needs to prove that the person who hurt them is a coward and a liar.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    Answering for yourself, do bisexual people go through sort of like, a "realization of attraction to same gender" much like what gay people go through, only it never "replaces", or develops at the same time, as realization of attraction to opposite gender? Or did they realizations come at different points along the way?

    I think I understand the question, let me know if I answered it correctly:

    For me, sexual attraction to both has always been there. When I was younger, I thought that most people had a little of that, but didn't talk about it. I was afraid that I was gay because I didn't know that people could be bi. I didn't know what bi was.

    Emotional attraction, which is most important to me, varies from person to person. Ill have periods in which I lean one way based on my emotional attraction to that particular person.

    Im not like the woman in the article. I didn't just notice my fluidity because I met one person. That is rare, but I hear it happens.
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    For me, being bisexual balances out my Id. Being surrounded by females 24/7/365 for years on end threw me completely out of whack. Being with another male, I can almost consciously smell the change in hormones and sexually interacting with males brings me back into balance. Crazy I know, but it is my story and I'm sticking to it.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    You, sir are getting cuter every time you yank my chain.
    Of course he is .....you are attracted to guys!

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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    Yeah...I have noticed the bi topics a lot here but I have see the other as well.

    My input on the "are they really bi?" threads...

    Bi Guy : "I am bi"

    Me: "OK"

    The end
    No not quite the end my parting line would be

    Me: Well then thanks for telling me ...cheated lately?

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    ^ Because he has a sense of humour. Do I have to report to you every time I eat pussy and enjoy it just to prove you wrong? Um, no thanks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post
    I know some who play the game the other way, pretending to be only gay because of barbaric bigoted bozos who insist there's no such thing as bi. But then they get caught with a chick.... and it's disgusting how some gays will never even talk again to a guy who's shown he'll even touch vagina.

    It's sad, but we have our own Westboro types among us -- call them Westboro Gayists.

    Lol, no. You don't know any such people ^_^
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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    No not quite the end my parting line would be

    Me: Well then thanks for telling me ...cheated lately?
    Thanks for proving my point about why these threads get started in the first place.
    Last edited by ravenstar; January 13th, 2014 at 09:36 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    I fall right in the middle of this thread. (Oops pun.)

    I do acknowledge that bisexual is real, but I also have to nod towards what I've seen in real life, that the overwhelming majority of people who use the title do not practice bisexuality in any discernible way. It is often used as label-avoidance by effectively gay men and as an allure-creator by effectively straight women who each continue to only ever pursue one gender. That accounts for really every bisexual I've ever encountered in real life.

    I would lean towards simply believing everyone regardless of whether their love life is almost 100% one gender, if not for the fact that there's such a tremendous social pressure to "not be gay", and such a stigma attached to it.

    I think part of the problem is that the term itself seems to fluctuate between a biological definition and a habit definition, or a mix of the two, which varies from person to person. Even here at JUB I've never seen one definition: if we define it as practice, then every gay man who ever had sex with a woman while in a closeted state is a bisexual as well. The biology is slippery because very few seem to have an "exact 50/50" and many seem to profess a leaning-- sometimes a strong one. So it makes it difficult to even draw a line: am I bisexual if I occasionally notice a woman is beautiful or have an erotic dream about one, while my sex life is 99-100% homosexual?

    I think bisexuality is very poorly understood by most people because of the difficulty in establishing any parameters for it other than "someone chooses to use the title", when there's the rather major confounder of some people have very strong social and possibly no biological reasons for preferring the title of bisexual to another.

    One thing I'd be curious about from bisexual members of JUB here, is what do YOU guys think when someone else identifies as bi but has a love life that pursues only one gender 100%?
    Word for word what I think. Of course, when I say it, I get eaten alive, but hey, a guy sometimes likes to be eaten
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    But more interesting I find are the men who have been out and gay, for many years then in midlife discover their attraction to women. How about them?
    Is that a thing? I've never even heard of, let alone met someone like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    No not quite the end my parting line would be

    Me: Well then thanks for telling me ...cheated lately?
    Again, how predictable. You are right, bisexuals are such sluts! Sluts I tells ya!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    I have a friend who identifies as bi but only pursues only men here in America because he finds most American women repulsive. When he returns home to Europe, he pursues women. Makes sense to me. But more interesting I find are the men who have been out and gay, for many years then in midlife discover their attraction to women. How about them? Or what about the guys who desire men but never act on it? What do you call them? I have another friend who just came to terms with his gayness, left his wife and kids, got a boyfriend, then secretly dropped the bomb on me that he thinks he made a big mistake because he is still very attracted sexually to women.

    I find it amusing that some gays demand that everyone respect how they chose to identify, yet refuse that same freedom to everyone else. Typical.

    Wow, Cgymike, you are a disappointment. I thought you were smarter than that.
    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    Is that a thing? I've never even heard of, let alone met someone like that.
    And why does everything need a label? So that it could be neatly compartmentalized into a box?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    And why does everything need a label? So that it could be neatly compartmentalized into a box?
    That's... not really related to my question.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    That's... not really related to my question.
    It isn't. It was more of rhetorical question. If it exists, then it exists. There is variety in this world and the OP should understand that labels won't capture every population.

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