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    It is not bad for the relationship if both people are fine and comfortable with the idea. It wouldn't undermine the relationship at all or anyone elses for that matter. A relationship is what you make between you and the person you're in the relationship with.

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    What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    I'm intrigued by real-life couples who enjoy showing off as part of their erotic life together. I'm not really talking about porn stars dating each other. I just mean couples that enjoy being the centre of attention once in a while. Apart from the fantasy of it, do you think it's healthy for a typical relationship, or does it undermine it? For anyone who has done it, how did it come about?
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    Watching people having sex in front of you is incredible. It's extremely hot. Whether or not it's good for a relationship I have no idea however.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    They're doing something that they like and it keeps them together.

    I don't see how that's a problem, or, how it effects me.
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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    Watching people having sex in front of you is incredible. It's extremely hot. Whether or not it's good for a relationship I have no idea however.
    The voyeuristic aspects of it seem obvious. Hope we hear from some couples.

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    If they're hot I'm all for it. Who doesn't like to watch?

    I'm envious of exhibitionist's self confidence and freedom.
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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Quote Originally Posted by MakeDigitalLove View Post
    Edit: This board is fucked.
    What is the topic/question?

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    My partner and I go to our local gay sauna every once in a while. Although we are monogamous, one of the things we like is obviously that we can have sex there if we feel like it (and funnily enough we always do, walking around naked for a couple of hours kinda stimulates the senses). The little rooms they have are only somewhat private; the doors have gaps or even small peeping holes, and it's easy to peek into adjacent stalls simply by standing up and looking over the walls. There's sort of an unwritten code that watching is OK, and we almost always have one or more guys peeping in some way or other. For us, this is like an extra turn on that adds something to the sex; it's just hot to see you are making other guys horny by having sex. We never feel the need to involve anyone, but the watching is a nice plus. On more than one occasion we found 'evidence' that we weren't the only ones who shot their loads during our sex session ;-)

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Quote Originally Posted by reaunl View Post
    My partner and I go to our local gay sauna every once in a while. Although we are monogamous, one of the things we like is obviously that we can have sex there if we feel like it (and funnily enough we always do, walking around naked for a couple of hours kinda stimulates the senses). The little rooms they have are only somewhat private; the doors have gaps or even small peeping holes, and it's easy to peek into adjacent stalls simply by standing up and looking over the walls. There's sort of an unwritten code that watching is OK, and we almost always have one or more guys peeping in some way or other. For us, this is like an extra turn on that adds something to the sex; it's just hot to see you are making other guys horny by having sex. We never feel the need to involve anyone, but the watching is a nice plus. On more than one occasion we found 'evidence' that we weren't the only ones who shot their loads during our sex session ;-)
    And did you have a question or any useful comment to add to the topic?

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Quote Originally Posted by MakeDigitalLove View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by figjam View Post
    What is the topic/question?
    He is referring the site's ongoing glitch -- displaying posts out of sequence. It has now even begun to fail to the degree that an OP asks a question and then the site manages to post the reply as if it were the #1 post.

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    And did you have a question or any useful comment to add to the topic?
    You need to re-read the OP (and that would be Bankside's now showing as Post #2.) The reply perfectly addresses the OP's request for responses.
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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    I think it's cool that they're confident and open to sharing themselves with others. It's definitely not something just anyone would be comfortable with. I don't think it's unhealthy or detrimental to the relationship, as long as both parties are willingly participating in the exhibitionist behavior, and they're not doing things in a way that would render consequences from the law, professionally, etc. Just depends on the situation, outlet for showing themselves off, etc. I guess.

    but like different things work for different people.

    Sometimes I feel like I would like to post a video or something, but quickly realize it's just a passing thought (not something I would really go through with), and it's definitely not my partner's thing. The possibility of people getting off on watching does give me a rush though.
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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Just to be clear, this is the original post, despite being billed as the second:
    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    I'm intrigued by real-life couples who enjoy showing off as part of their erotic life together. I'm not really talking about porn stars dating each other. I just mean couples that enjoy being the centre of attention once in a while. Apart from the fantasy of it, do you think it's healthy for a typical relationship, or does it undermine it? For anyone who has done it, how did it come about?
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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    I have been turned on watching and being watched and have had alot of experiences...erotic and satisfying for the most part.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    They're doing something that they like and it keeps them together.

    I don't see how that's a problem, or, how it effects me.
    It affects you because you're sandwiched in between.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Quote Originally Posted by figjam View Post
    And did you have a question or any useful comment to add to the topic?
    Perhaps, rather than be a snarky bitch you should read bankside's original post. MakedDigitalLove's response ended up on top through a glitch. You'll the see reauni's answer is a direct answer to the question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    It affects you because you're sandwiched in between.
    Unless i'm trying to separate them, it's not causing an effect on me.
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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    Hahahahahahahahaha I don't even WANNA know what the OP says, but I love that people are quickly shooting down the closed-mindedness.

    Different folks, different strokes. Beautiful, basic concept, but some'll never get it.

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    And I've always wanted to watch a couple have sex in front of me. It doesn't even matter if I'm specifically attracted to them. I just wanna. I'm fascinated by it and any couple that would reveal that part of themselves to a third party.

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    If they're hot I'm all for it. Who doesn't like to watch?

    I'm envious of exhibitionist's self confidence and freedom.
    *Raises hand*

    But, I grew up in farm country. Animals were always going at it - everywhere.

    And, I've never been a spectator. It's boring. If I'm not in the game, I'm not interested. I don't even care much for porn . . . well, not the talkies, anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    Hahahahahahahahaha I don't even WANNA know what the OP says, but I love that people are quickly shooting down the closed-mindedness.

    Different folks, different strokes. Beautiful, basic concept, but some'll never get it.

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    And I've always wanted to watch a couple have sex in front of me. It doesn't even matter if I'm specifically attracted to them. I just wanna. I'm fascinated by it and any couple that would reveal that part of themselves to a third party.

    So, give us a hand, then, will you?

    What reason(s) would a couple have for doing their business in front of you? How would this be 'healthy' for their relationship?

    Do they need you to validate their . . . love . . . commitment . . . technique/style . . . ability to shock . . . . what?

    If you know something special, if you've got the big answer, don't keep it to yourself.

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    Man, the bitchy comments that came because people thought I was the OP.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    I don't really like being the center of attention so it isn't for me, but kudos to those who like it.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    I've been the center of attention a few times while having sex. I don't mind at all being watched. I don't find it unhealthy or detrimental. It's amazing how intimate you can still be with an audience. But I'm with Kahiah, I don't really care too much about watching. Anyway, I can't watch others for too long because I get so damn horny that I have to start something.

    And when being watched I actually hope that others will join in or start an orgy or turn to a stranger and suck his cock. I just like the energy of a room full of guys having sex.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    ^ ^ When I've met up for threesomes in the past and two of us hit it off while the third wasn't into it, I wasn't put off by having him watching us. I'm sure I was too worked up and horny to care.

    If I were among several guys watching a couple have sex, I think my natural tendency would be to "reach out" to someone, as topspin66 suggests, and stroke him, suck his dick, eat his ass, whatever we were up for. Doing that would seem more comfortable to me than just sitting, watching, and jacking myself off, oblivious to the other guys in the room.

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    Re: What do you think of exhibitionist couples?

    I actually had a str8 couple come to my house and fuck in front of me. It was so hot! I have a love swing right beside my bed, and they really loved that. I was laying right beside them jacking my cock, with a great view of the penetration. They were totally turned on by my watching, he kept telling her to look at my big cock, which I think turned her on even more (maybe him too, who knows, lol, he did bring it up...).

    I've had many 3 somes with married couples, but this was the first time I was a spectator.

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