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    Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Ok, so I am sitting in the break room at work and someone mentions an arena in the Detroit area, another guy says he hates the men's rooms.
    I ask why and am told that they have troughs and no privacy, others chime in with comments such as "I don't want anyone looking at my dick" or "I don't want to see another guys cock"

    This seemed odd to me, perhaps grade school kids would think this way, but adults?
    If "it" is seen, what happens? Does it fall off?
    If you see one (and you are str8) will you suddenly have a craving for a penis?

    Is this an American hang up or does it exist elsewhere as well?

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    They are terrified that the sight of cock will make them drop to their knees and start sucking the guy next to them. they just can't trust themselves.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I think they're afraid the other guy will have a bigger one.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Pretty much, it is a generally US societal thing. However, truth be told I wouldn't feel comfortable myself around some men in the restrooms. Many men don't respect others personal space when they are left in an open environment like an urinal through. I can only speak for myself.

    Otherwise, I don't have a problem with pissing in open restroom environments like a row of individual urinals lacking partitions between them wouldn't bother me...

    I know I have an indescribable fear of seeing another man's penis or mine. I know I have an above average penis, but then again I don't care what others about my private area except my dude...
    Last edited by kayman23; December 24th, 2013 at 09:28 AM.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    I think they're afraid the other guy will have a bigger one.
    This right here.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    They've been brainwashed by society into thinking

    A. cocks are something to keep hidden
    B. cock size relates to masculinity which relates to self-worth

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    They've been brainwashed by society into thinking

    A. cocks are something to keep hidden
    B. cock size relates to masculinity which relates to self-worth

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    On top of this maybe they think if they look at another guys dick or another guy looks at theirs it = gay.

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    masculinity flaw..

    nuff said -_-

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by MakeDigitalLove View Post
    On top of this maybe they think if they look at another guys dick or another guy looks at theirs it = gay.
    It's related to the first one, I think. If you're not keeping your cock hidden, or you're looking at something that's "supposed" to remain hidden, there's something wrong with you.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    It's usually creepy uncle fester looking guys who smell of cigarettes that stare while I'm pissing. And they are straight. So what they say in the break room versus what they do in the restroom obviously conflicts.
    Rejoice and Behold the pungency of my nuts for I have arrived!

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Because there are a lot of freaks and creeps. I have a straight friend and can't stand sitting with him at a bar as he intensely stares down a gal with eyes & facial expressions of rape and shit and he doesn't flinch after a cpl drinks in this stare down. Its embarrassing for me and uncomfortable because he is a creep and the female victim of his bar assault is wiggling about trying to clear out. I don't hang out with him anymore because of this shit.
    Its not always guys are modest but my friend is mild compared to some of weirdo-s and pushy bs I've encountered at these sort of trough pissers. Now for taking a dump man I need a private stall unless I'm busted in jail then there is no choice.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    There have been enough posts in Hot Topics about some guys here perving on the straight or gay guys in restrooms and locker rooms. It doesn't make it all that common, but that it happens at all surely leads to some elevated homophobia.

    Quote Originally Posted by peeonme
    Ok, so I am sitting in the break room at work and someone mentions an arena in the Detroit area, another guy says he hates the men's rooms.
    Quote Originally Posted by Kane
    It's usually creepy uncle fester looking guys who smell of cigarettes that stare while I'm pissing. And they are straight. So what they say in the break room versus what they do in the restroom obviously conflicts.
    Oh look -- Kane must work the same company as the OP, else his comments about supposed "Uncle Festers" would just be a load of putdown shit, and we know he's not that way, is he?

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    So another topic about the prudishness and close-mindedness of American heterosexual men...

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by Vitamin View Post
    I think they're afraid the other guy will have a bigger one.
    Quote Originally Posted by gsdx View Post
    This right here.
    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    They've been brainwashed by society into thinking

    A. cocks are something to keep hidden
    B. cock size relates to masculinity which relates to self-worth

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by peeonme View Post
    Ok, so I am sitting in the break room at work and someone mentions an arena in the Detroit area, another guy says he hates the men's rooms.
    I ask why and am told that they have troughs and no privacy, others chime in with comments such as "I don't want anyone looking at my dick" or "I don't want to see another guys cock"

    This seemed odd to me, perhaps grade school kids would think this way, but adults?
    If "it" is seen, what happens? Does it fall off?
    If you see one (and you are str8) will you suddenly have a craving for a penis?

    Is this an American hang up or does it exist elsewhere as well?
    It exist everywhere.
    In poor country where there are no toilet or shower even worst.
    They bath in the river or near the wells but you will never see their dicks.


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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I like my privacy as well. There are places I am cool with men seeing my dick. The bathroom while I'm taking a piss is not one of them.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    The trough urinals are gross for reasons going way beyond anyone's discomfort with nudity or sexuality anyway. The first time you're hit with someone else's backsplash is the last time you'll have anything good to say about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbuzzerx View Post
    The trough urinals are gross backsplash...
    Yes we do it outside on the grass.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Trough urinals are fucking gross.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasoncrew03 View Post
    Trough urinals are fucking gross.
    Are you grossed-out by their splashback or your penis?

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    The splashback, the smell, the drainage always seems insufficient and people always through garbage in them.

    I was at a bar once and some wasted guy walked into the bathroom and tripped into the trough. That was pretty much the final nail in the coffin.

    I couldn't really give a shit if someone can see my dick while I'm peeing at a urinal.
    Last edited by jasoncrew03; December 24th, 2013 at 02:14 PM.

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    ^ Fair enough.

    Brave New World mentions alternatives to urinals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xboxfan34 View Post
    So another topic about the prudishness and close-mindedness of American heterosexual men...
    I don't believe this is true anymore. Just look around xtube....every 3rd video involves a straight guy. It is so easy to meet straight guys and convince to fuck them that one has to wonder where did our prudishness disappear.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I don't want my cock to be seen, or especially be seen totally nude. I have much problem with body image, and I do have a small penis. I'd rather not be laughed at again. Other guys pointed and laughed at me in school over my small penis. I didn't know I was small, or that there were different sizes, I had never thought about such up to that time. The ridicule was very hurtful, and traumatic for me. They didn't stop with that one time, it turned kind of malicious afterwards. I'm still very insecure about my penis size today, and the rest of my body as well. I wouldn't be caught dead nude in any kind of public situation. I have not seen a trough urinal since grade school. I really don't know how I would handle that if the situation were to occur.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaKroma View Post
    I don't believe this is true anymore. Just look around xtube....every 3rd video involves a straight guy. It is so easy to meet straight guys and convince to fuck them that one has to wonder where did our prudishness disappear.
    Honestly, I believe that most gay4pay pornstars that say that they are straight are really gay. They just say that they're " straight boys tired of women" and "curious of how it feels to have something shoved in their ass" because they know that it'll get them more views.

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    Quote Originally Posted by birddog7 View Post
    I don't want my cock to be seen, or especially be seen totally nude. I have much problem with body image, and I do have a small penis. I'd rather not be laughed at again. Other guys pointed and laughed at me in school over my small penis. I didn't know I was small, or that there were different sizes, I had never thought about such up to that time. The ridicule was very hurtful, and traumatic for me. They didn't stop with that one time, it turned kind of malicious afterwards. I'm still very insecure about my penis size today, and the rest of my body as well. I wouldn't be caught dead nude in any kind of public situation. I have not seen a trough urinal since grade school. I really don't know how I would handle that if the situation were to occur.
    Just blow the bastards off. Say something like "Yeah, I have a small dick, but I'm probably a better fuck than you."

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by kayman23 View Post
    I know I have an indescribable fear of seeing another man's penis or mine.
    Fear, really? Not you don't like seeing or being seen, you have a fear?

    I'm genuinely curious.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by -Kane- View Post
    It's usually creepy uncle fester looking guys who smell of cigarettes that stare while I'm pissing. And they are straight.
    I've only had one guy blatantly check out my cock while I was urinating. As in, he folded his arms over the divider, leaned over and took a really good look. And he was gay.

    Did he enjoy the show? My guess is not - I didn't hear from him again.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Birddog7
    How about in the New Year, you don't post in penis related threads. Anything but those threads
    Change it up. Be unpredictable
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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I cannot agree with most of the comments here even though they're probably made in jest.

    How about the simple reason that some men are uncomfortable about their private area being seen by others. Imagine if you're a girl and would you want other people to see your vagina? About seeing other people's penises, I even though am gay do not want to see other men's penises (it's just my nature and maybe the fact that I don't find penises sexy as other body parts) so straight men not wanting to see is totally understandable.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by carey579 View Post
    I cannot agree with most of the comments here even though they're probably made in jest.

    How about the simple reason that some men are uncomfortable about their private area being seen by others. Imagine if you're a girl and would you want other people to see your vagina? About seeing other people's penises, I even though am gay do not want to see other men's penises (it's just my nature and maybe the fact that I don't find penises sexy as other body parts) so straight men not wanting to see is totally understandable.
    I think that's most of it. I don't think all that many men who need to pee are actively worrying about whether or not they'll be seen as gay by someone else in the bathroom. I think they just feel naked and exposed and insecure having their private parts out in plain view.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I don't use urinals, mainly because they only ones I see are in clubs and drunk guys have bad aim. Spend a night at the club with a damp pants leg from someone who was too busy trying to talk to someone else than to watch where he was aiming his dick and tell me if you'd use one again.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by ravenstar View Post
    I don't use urinals, mainly because they only ones I see are in clubs and drunk guys have bad aim. Spend a night at the club with a damp pants leg from someone who was too busy trying to talk to someone else than to watch where he was aiming his dick and tell me if you'd use one again.
    To say only men have bad aim is a falsehood. I have had a female pee all over my shower curtain before.

    That said, I have reached the general conclusion that men, in particular gay men, definitely over-exaggerate their cock size.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxpowr9 View Post
    To say only men have bad aim is a falsehood. I have had a female pee all over my shower curtain before.

    That said, I have reached the general conclusion that men, in particular gay men, definitely over-exaggerate their cock size.
    Well it wasn't a drunk female who pissed on the leg of my jeans one night at the Midnight Shift Max, so I'm sticking to my reason for not using a urinal.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by peeonme View Post
    Ok, so I am sitting in the break room at work and someone mentions an arena in the Detroit area, another guy says he hates the men's rooms.
    I ask why and am told that they have troughs and no privacy,
    I can't pee in front of other people so I can understand that

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    ^ Yeah, I have a bit of an issue with shy kidneys as well... as the saying goes.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Dr. Brown says pee-shy guys have size "issues".

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I think it's because it's so private and sexual... I'm not really too wild about my dick being seen by a lot of people either. For me, it's not a shame thing... I have a nice dick if I do say so myself

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    I can pee on command.

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    What I find more weird than them wanting their privacy, is someone else being so upset by it. Whenever these topics come up here, I'm perplexed.

    Their dick is theirs to be seen by who they'd like to show it to. Problem?

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    What I find more weird than them wanting their privacy, is someone else being so upset by it. Whenever these topics come up here, I'm perplexed.

    Their dick is theirs to be seen by who they'd like to show it to. Problem?
    It's because they want to see more dicks. Perhaps they know a few hot guys who are too shy to whip it out?
    I gotta remind myself that... I think, "Wouldn't it be nice if X person wasn't afraid to get naked and show off what he's got?", but then I think that they're probably as shy about taking off their clothes as I am, even if they're the sexiest guys alive

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    Quote Originally Posted by m1thousand View Post
    Birddog7 How about in the New Year, you don't post in penis related threads. Anything but those threads Change it up. Be unpredictable
    How about I never type another word on here, about anything, New Year, or any other time, period...

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    Birddog that wasn't his point and you know it. His suggestion to stay out of threads about penis size is a good one. Not one you'll take because you refuse to see the worth you have beyond your dick. Hell, even the compliments you've received on here when you posted it did nothing for you.

    My grandmother used to say "if you keep picking at a scab it will never heal". Every time you compare yourself unfavourably to another guy you reinforce your low self esteem. In the years you've been on here you've never once said a positive thing about yourself. Why don't you do that now? Forget the dick size and post just 1 positive thing about you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by purina View Post
    Dr. Brown says pee-shy guys have size "issues".
    That's either a myth or maybe I'm an exception. I've always been "pee shy" and have an above average size cock. (not bragging, just sayin) I'm just very uncomfortable peeing in front of anyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carey579 View Post
    I cannot agree with most of the comments here even though they're probably made in jest.

    How about the simple reason that some men are uncomfortable about their private area being seen by others. Imagine if you're a girl and would you want other people to see your vagina? About seeing other people's penises, I even though am gay do not want to see other men's penises (it's just my nature and maybe the fact that I don't find penises sexy as other body parts) so straight men not wanting to see is totally understandable.
    But why ARE they uncomfortable about having their sexual areas viewed? Why ARE their "private parts" private? Why isn't the elbow a "private area"? Because we've been trained to think that way. Not saying it's wrong - just saying that's how it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    But why ARE they uncomfortable about having their sexual areas viewed? Why ARE their "private parts" private? Why isn't the elbow a "private area"? Because we've been trained to think that way. Not saying it's wrong - just saying that's how it is.

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    I have a bit of a different "problem"...I hate using urinals (I avoid them whenever possible) because I have somewhat of a fear that any guy(s) around may think I'm trying to check out their package. So...when I have to use urinals, I do it as quickly as possible...I never make eye contact with anyone, and I just generally feel nervous and strange. Come to think of it...I feel nervous whenever I encounter other men in the restroom (again...fear that I'll be accused or suspected of checking someone out). I don't know...there's some deep subconscious stuff there that I feel goes back to my childhood of dealing with homophobes on a daily basis or something.
    I like to watch...

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    I don't want people seeing my 'private parts' .. other than saying it'd make me uncomfortable , i don't know how to say...

    If there's no partitions between urinals I'll generally go use one of the stalls.


    Quote Originally Posted by birddog7
    I wouldn't be caught dead nude in any kind of public situation.
    Same for me there, its more than just the 'private parts'. I really wouldn't care if someone saw me without a shirt....but anything below than deff not.


    Quote Originally Posted by Gentleheart
    Come to think of it...I feel nervous whenever I encounter other men in the restroom
    That is so me as well...
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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    " The Greek tradition of athletic nudity (gymnos)[24] was introduced in 720 BC, either by the Spartans or by the Megarian Orsippus, and this was adopted early in the Olympics as well." from Wikipedia

    When we read history I think that it might show that man kind has changed drastically from ancient times until now, if it were a built in condition that man should not have his genitals viewed by others I think that history might bear that out, I do believe religion has had a huge impact on us thinking that we should be ashamed of our bodies.

    Taking a piss is as natural as breathing, men doing it together is nothing new. What I think is kind of new is the fear that modern man has.

    I think Lex has a good handle on this, it is what we are taught, hide your naughty body, little boy.

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    Re: Why are dudes so shy about their cocks being seen?

    We don't have to go back, All that Far, to Ancient Times when men's bodies were simply men's bodies.

    I was born in 1950, and was indeed taught to hide my naughty body, butt not when I was around All guys. We were SUPPOSED to get naked in the open locker rooms, showers, pools, etc., etc. You were considered ODD if you didn't! I think they were getting us ready for the Army, or something.

    I can remember in Jr. High standing Naked, side-by-side, feet nearly touching, hands behind our backs, while peeing into the big down-to-the-floor urinals in the Field House. And those were lined up, at a right angle, across the hall from the coach's office, that had a big window. Coach got to see All of Us, and I do mean ALL of Us, on a daily basis.

    The hands behind the back "thing" wasn't mandatory, butt it was an unspoken "standard", kind of a "right of passage", handed down from the upper classmen. And, EVERYBODY did it! We didn't really have a Choice.

    I also remember times of being out with my buds, fellow scouts, or whoever, and if the urge hit, we'd just find a spot, whip it out, and take a leak, sometimes even "crossing streams". Peeing was Totally Natural, and No Big Deal. We'd likely already seen each other completely Naked, anyway.

    Weird thing is, after living through things like that, I got "pee shy" sometime in my late twenties. And, it wasn't about anyone seeing my dick, it was more a "performance anxiety" issue. Not sure why. Maybe it was some unfounded idea that Everyone else was watching me, and keeping track. It was even worse if there were guys waiting for an open spot. Even if I was in a closed, locked, stall, if the bathroom was Busy, I felt as through I was being timed, and judged. Thank Goodness I eventually got over that!

    So ... Why, and when, did things change, and Modesty become SO prevalent in Today's Society among Guys?

    I think it happened with the advent of the Openly "Out" Gay Rights Movement in the 60s and 70s. Unlike the "innocent" Times before, there arose a general realization that Males could be "Sexual Prey", too! "Suddenly", that Dude over there might be scoping You out for reasons other than mere Curiosity/Comparison!

    In addition, here in the U.S., "Madison Avenue" had always been pushing the envelope with "Sex Sells". Mere Nudity became equated with Sexuality, and now Guys were included, and Vulnerable, too!

    Interestingly, with the advent if the Internet, the "Old Comradery" of those Open locker rooms could now be achieved, in the "Privacy" of your own home, without the "New Danger" of "In Person" physicality.

    As Times have changed, we've lost a lot, and gained a lot. Uneasy being SEEN in "Public"? Now you can go home, get Naked with the Entire World, and still maintain a sense of "security".

    Good Luck with the Real public thing, though!

    Just many more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

    Keep Smilin'!!
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