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    Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I was talking with someone who was surprised that I do. I would have thought most people would. Perhaps, it is because I am quite selective about who I even meet so they already meet my physical criteria. (Please spare me the lectures that on superficiality and overriding importance of emotional connection that infiltrate seemingly every thread. My first sort is on looks-my apologies to those who do things differently).
    I must be grumpy tonight

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Well, i'm sure everyone want an ideal guy.
    It doesn't matter if you meet only once or more.


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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    "Something"...........Something covers alot of ground. It could be anything from fucking to fixing a bicycle. But I don't think I could fall for someone that quickly, nothing wrong with it I guess. I don't know that there's a "correct' amount of time.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    If you mean fooling around, yes.
    There are TWO kinds of people in the world -- the kind who believe there are two kinds of people, and the kind who don't.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I could and I have.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    'Falling' for someone no, but I have become significantly interested in someone after meeting them once. I was invited to the movies by a friend and he invited another friend of his that I didn't know and he was gorgeous. I was so unexpectedly attracted to him that I was almost uncomfortable. I think that's just lust, though. It's not falling for him.


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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I didn't phrase that question well at all. I did mean fooling around. I tend to regard someone as an instant friend, obviously from my point of view. I guess it's kind of like if you give a dog a bone, you probably just made a friend Couldn't expect the same from them.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Happened to me only once... I met him through friends at a party and he came sleeping at my house the same night because it was to late for him to go home and their was no room for him in our friend's. He was not my type at all but he had a great sens of humor so we got along well for the evening and he was straight (of course). Well at some time I told him that as we were not alone in my apartment the only places hi could sleep were the couch in the living or my king size bed. I let you guess what he chose so I told him not to be scared I was not about o rape him. When we went to bed we kept on talking for a while and I don't remember how but he ended up kissing me. Then we made love, you know not like we fucked like horny beasts, but we truly made love, when he touched me the first time I felt like I had been knowing him forever and that he was just the right guy to touch me. It was so magical that I instantly fell in love with him. We came at the same time then we felt asleep entwined and when we woke up we hadn't moved at all, it was just like in a movie... Then we took breakfast then I accompanied him to the door he had to go for work he kissed me on the threshold (tell you a movie) I was in heaven. And then the "straight guy shit" began. He was feeling guilty blablabla and he told me things that I'm not gonna forget for a long time..... Well all that to say that it was one f my best and one of my worst experience ever...
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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Sounds like some mental detachment and shallowness along with some needing something to fill a void that's been festering in the wells of your heart. To each their own I guess, but what will happen when no one's interested in you anymore? For me, I'd REALLY have to get to know someone a lot before I'd sleep with them, but that's just me. I mean, if the person was great and we clicked on certain levels, then I guess we could "do it", but I'm not one to jump and fuck every guy I see to fill some endless hunger. Destruction, baby, destruction.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Yes.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I fall for anyone I do something with, even something only marginally sexual. A straight friend left his girlfriend and discussed masturbation with me. I fell in love! He did agree to come into my bed to fool around and I was head over heels in love. He cruelly tormented me about it for years!

    Another straight guy was on a health regime with me. Naked in the sauna and showers, I fell deeply for him. It was unrequited, but I always felt he enjoyed showing his soft cock to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DragononFire View Post
    Sounds like some mental detachment and shallowness along with some needing something to fill a void that's been festering in the wells of your heart...
    You put the what in the where?

    Some people strike up friendships and bonds faster than others. There's nothing particularly more worthy about taking longer to come to a conclusion about someone. Some people are just more open than others.
    Blah blah blah, something enigmatic sounding...

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Well, it does sound uncommon, especially because relationships tend to be built on something more solid than one single sexual encounter, but I guess that it might happen. Still, since you mention that your criteria are very high, could it be that you feel lonely and, as soon as you find someone you are attracted to, place an excessive deal of importance on every interaction that you have with them, to the point of "falling in love" very quickly?

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Yes, Yes, Yes.....but Im like that. Im really quick to fall.
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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    90% of the time. Silly I know but I couldn't help it.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Do something? I fell in love with him at first sight and didn't even know him. I was 17 and my first weekend in college at our 2nd floor dorm party. I walked in and saw him sitting across the room and stopped dead in my tracks. My legs got weak and I couldn't move. He was the most beautiful boy I had ever seen, well, at least to me. Somehow I knew then and there that I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I made my way over there and struck up a conversation with him. We stayed up all night talking and spent the next 2 weeks together when we were not in class. That weekend, after 2 weeks, our roomates had gone home for the weekend. Nothing had been mentioned about our attraction to each other up to this point. We returned to my room after dinner at the dining hall. I walked in first and he followed me. After the door shut, he grabbed my arm, spun me around and kissed me. That was it. We spent the weekend in bed together and the next 34 yrs. by each others side. I know most people don't believe in love at first sight. All I know is that it happened to me.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adrusek81 View Post
    Well, it does sound uncommon, especially because relationships tend to be built on something more solid than one single sexual encounter, but I guess that it might happen. Still, since you mention that your criteria are very high, could it be that you feel lonely and, as soon as you find someone you are attracted to, place an excessive deal of importance on every interaction that you have with them, to the point of "falling in love" very quickly?
    Apparently, not so uncommon based on the responses. I think "falling in love" is too strong and I misspoke in the original post when I used the word "falling" which can be misleading. But I definitely feel a strong bond. Not enough to make me think I want to leave my gf. Would be interesting to know if the divergence in responses is correlated with how many partners a guy has had. Perhaps quantity reduces the attachment or perhaps indiscriminate hook-ups just means you weren't so thrilled with whoever you picked up.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Become more interested? yes.

    "fall for" them? not quite. that takes some time.
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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Sounds creepy...

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    Never ever ever.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Nope. My last one took a few hangouts, the 1st and 2nd meetups being 10 months apart, before I fell for him.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Well fall for someone sure but it never lasts. Kinda like a lolly ...you lick and lick and eventually get to the centre and crunch it....POOF.
    Your post comments are forwarded to the CIA.

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    Yes, I have! It's the way he sucked my dick.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Quote Originally Posted by DragononFire View Post
    Sounds like some mental detachment and shallowness along with some needing something to fill a void that's been festering in the wells of your heart.
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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    YEs...I knew immediately when I met the guy I am with today....before we ever did a thing. I knew the minute I met him though part of me wasn't very happy about it...I liked being single ....but what are you gonna do.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I develop crushes and infatuations quite easily, I always have and fear I always will.

    One such example is the Purolator delivery guy who comes to our office; don't know fully what it is, but man does my day perk up when he comes by. The bf gives me a good ribbing about this little infatuation, and it's become something of a joke between us.

    I'm sorry to have kept you waiting, but I'm afraid my walk has become rather sillier recently...

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    YES, with very few exceptions.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I agree, there may be a few exceptions when I don't, but usually I can fall for someone very easily.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Never dated anyone or anything (so I can't say this for sure)...but I really believe I could fall for someone far too easily, it pretty much scares me LOL
    Wouldn't have to to do 'something'(if by something you mean sex) hell all they'd probably have to do is kiss me...or just be friendly and look me deep in the eyes / a love at first sight type thing

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Hey 72-Jay,
    Look deep into my eyes...



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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Quote Originally Posted by ibill1
    I fell in love with him at first sight and didn't even know him.
    The entire post is. .WoW. you had a truly great story there such a lucky guy


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    My last post....
    How? .. It ended up before the one I replied to? .. WTF??
    Last edited by 72-Jay; December 21st, 2013 at 08:05 PM.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Umm.. never mind on the 'edit' of the previous post.... the post i was referring to should have read. coulda sworn I posted it, but maybe I didn't?:


    That is one creepy critter HunterM. eek
    I know I've seen that pic somewhere before? From Lord Of The Rings or something? (didn't ever watch)

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I fall easily.. 3 times I've falling for somebody quickly. Two didn't work out.. Looking back, yes I loved them but thankfully we grew apart. The third I'm currently in love with and very happy.

    In my teens I thought I fell for a friend and it lasted years.. One New Years something just clicked that I was attracted to him and wanted him.. But after falling in love for real, I realized it was just a passionate crush that went nowhere.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Yeah, and it happened just recently with some guy I met off Craigslist. The sex is lousy/non-existent, he's getting married in March, I'm 20 years old than he is, he's across the country, yet there's still something special between us -- and I've confirmed it's mutual too.

    What can you do? Shit like that happens.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Quote Originally Posted by ibill1 View Post
    Do something? I fell in love with him at first sight and didn't even know him. I was 17 and my first weekend in college at our 2nd floor dorm party. I walked in and saw him sitting across the room and stopped dead in my tracks. My legs got weak and I couldn't move. He was the most beautiful boy I had ever seen, well, at least to me. Somehow I knew then and there that I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I made my way over there and struck up a conversation with him. We stayed up all night talking and spent the next 2 weeks together when we were not in class. That weekend, after 2 weeks, our roomates had gone home for the weekend. Nothing had been mentioned about our attraction to each other up to this point. We returned to my room after dinner at the dining hall. I walked in first and he followed me. After the door shut, he grabbed my arm, spun me around and kissed me. That was it. We spent the weekend in bed together and the next 34 yrs. by each others side. I know most people don't believe in love at first sight. All I know is that it happened to me.
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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I have fallen for one guy once after doing him once but he was my ideal man. Others I fell for way before we did something once, they were a little bi-curious guys who wouldn't ever commit to a guy.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I fell in love at first sight with his guy('s picture) and 2 years later I'm still in love

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Yes. Talked to a JUBber. And now he's forever in my mind. Oh to be in love!

    Oh also:

    Looked at a hot Morrisons guy. He's permanently in my mind.

    Looked at Tom Daley's hot body. And yep, you guessed it. I'm in love with him, too!


    The JUBber I fell in love with his personality. The other two their looks. But I can't have any of them.

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    Quote Originally Posted by johnfkennedy
    Yes. Talked to a JUBber. And now he's forever in my mind. Oh to be in love!
    I don't know if I could fall for someone simply online without meeting (just assuming you didn't actually meet the guy)
    Kind of a scary thought though.
    sure hopeing I couldn't LOL i'd have to permanently ban myself from all these forums somehow before it happened

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    Re: Do you fall for someone just from doing something with them once?

    I will say one thing: I'm ready to fall for ANYONE just from doing THIS one thing: looking for an apartment.

    I hit a horrifying realization, recently: That living in NYC becomes waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more affordable when you're sharing a one bedroom with a boyfriend. Two sets of coupled friends have taught me this. With studio prices up a whopping 40% over last year in Brooklyn., I'm about as relationship-ready NOW as I'll ever be.

    So maybe I'll have a fun story for this thread when my lease is up and I get tired of the roommates.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    Hey 72-Jay,
    Look deep into my eyes...


    You have beautiful eyes, just keep your mouth closed and rearrange that combover, and you'll be a keeper.


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