(I'm posting this in HT because I want a wider array of replies than CO&R would provide.)
My ex is coming to visit me soon (long story, but short version is we broke up amicably and are basically long-distance friends with benefits), and we've gotten to talking, and we want to focus more on making out instead of just fucking and sucking all the time. We both have issues with being too "business-like" in bed, which leads to issues with getting hard and staying hard for both of us, so we want to work on intimacy.
I'm absolutely awful with cuddling and just making out because nearly all of my sexual partners have been very blow-and-go, but I really want to work on it. So, guys, share your makeout tips, no matter how silly they may seem to you!