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    Is my boss gay in the closet?

    Hello. First of all, I'm new here.

    So I have a boss who is about 20 years older than me but he is extremely sexy, fit and hot mature man/daddy, As far as I know he is married over 20 years and even has a few children, however...

    1. He doesn't sleep with his wife in the same bed for a long time.
    2. He shaves his legs.
    3. He wears quite a tight jeans. Oh that huge bulge and sweet ass...
    4. He has probably the softest hands I have ever touched, so I assume he takes care of them a lot. Even thought he works quite a physical work sometimes.
    5. I have never heard him telling any woman related joke, however I heard a couple of times telling dick jokes.
    6. He changes his clothes VERY often, I mean I barely can remember two sequence days that he would have been with the same shirt, sweater, etc.
    7. He doesn't think that women is the weaker sex. He thinks women should work harder than men.
    8. He is a very flammable man.
    9. There was a funny conversation/joking type dialog and one of co-worker somehow asked my boss if maybe he is gay and my boss didn't tell anything, but he looked a little bit confused and ashamed.

    So is my boss gay in the closet or am I just over imagining?
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    Welcome to JUB. I'm moving your thread to the Hot Topics forum because your question involves someone other than yourself.
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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    Quote Originally Posted by gregnude View Post
    Hello. First of all, I'm new here.

    So I have a boss who is about 20 years older than me but he is extremely sexy, fit and hot mature man/daddy, As far as I know he is married over 20 years and even has a few children, however...

    1. He doesn't sleep with his wife in the same bed for a long time.
    2. He shaves his legs.
    3. He wears quite a tight jeans. Oh that huge bulge and sweet ass...
    4. He has probably the softest hands I have ever touched, so I assume he takes care of them a lot. Even thought he works quite a physical work sometimes.
    5. I have never heard him telling any woman related joke, however I heard a couple of times telling dick jokes.
    6. He changes his clothes VERY often, I mean I barely can remember two sequence days that he would have been with the same shirt, sweater, etc.
    7. He doesn't think that women is the weaker sex. He thinks women should work harder than men.
    8. He is a very flammable man.
    9. There was a funny conversation/joking type dialog and one of co-worker somehow asked my boss if maybe he is gay and my boss didn't tell anything, but he looked a little bit confused and ashamed.

    So is my boss gay in the closet or am I just over imagining?
    8. He is a very flammable man.

    This could be a problem.

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    no he is not gay in the closet.

    maybe he is straight in the closet.

    aww who the hell knows and cares.




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    Only one way to find out.

    Blast "Let's Put The X in Sex" by KISS in his office and do a striptease. If he gets a boner, then he's yours for the taking!

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    Haha. Best to leave speculation and gossip about people's love life out of the office.
    Back to work, you!
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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    1. He doesn't sleep with his wife in the same bed for a long time.
    Maybe they're having marital problems. It could be sexual; maybe they find eachother sexually revolting, or maybe they simply don't like eachother anymore.

    2. He shaves his legs.
    A lot of guys these days shave their body hair, even straight guys.

    3. He wears quite a tight jeans. Oh that huge bulge and sweet ass...
    Some straight guys wear tight clothes, this isn't a sign that he's gay either. Just enjoy the goods

    4. He has probably the softest hands I have ever touched, so I assume he takes care of them a lot. Even thought he works quite a physical work sometimes.
    It doesn't make a guy gay if he takes care of himself. That's just something all guys should do!

    5. I have never heard him telling any woman related joke, however I heard a couple of times telling dick jokes.
    Ah, straight guys tell dick jokes all the time.

    6. He changes his clothes VERY often, I mean I barely can remember two sequence days that he would have been with the same shirt, sweater, etc.
    That just means he doesn't wear the same article of clothing day after day. Imagine if he came to work in the same wrinkled, stained shirt? That would be nasty.

    7. He doesn't think that women is the weaker sex. He thinks women should work harder than men.
    Not being a sexist doesn't mean he's gay.

    8. He is a very flammable man.
    Oh no! Keep him away from open flames!

    9. There was a funny conversation/joking type dialog and one of co-worker somehow asked my boss if maybe he is gay and my boss didn't tell anything, but he looked a little bit confused and ashamed.
    Straight people don't usually like it if you assume they're gay (Mind you, closeted guys don't react very well if someone figures they're gay either!)

    All in all, who knows if he's gay or not. There are so many closeted gay guys out there, it could be absolutely anyone, so who really knows for sure.

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    Yes. Because you want him to be, you want to get fucked by him, and - most importantly - he's flammable.

    And he changes his clothes a lot. Just got up 40 minutes ago, already on outfit #2.

    It's a gay thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    8. He is a very flammable man.

    This could be a problem.
    If he's on fire, smoking hot, or needs some hosing down, I'm sure the OP will manage to lend him a helping hand.


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    Suck his dick. If he gets hard, he's gay.
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    He's GAY!!! The daily changing of clothes is a dead giveaway.

    But keep your distance. Considering how flammable he is, he might just burst out and burn you.

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    He's gay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gregnude View Post
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    He may be a secret tranny, keep clear.
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    How do you know so much about your boss' personal life? Has he confided in you that he doesn't sleep with his wife?

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    Obviously TC is in the closet if he's fantasizing about straight men.

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    I don't think those 9 points are relevant to his sexual orientation. Stop imagining things. However, if something naughty happened between the both of you, have fun!
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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    A. You can't really know sexuality from a collection of factoids you assemble to support your crush.

    B. Your misuse of English suggests you are either living in an Asian country or are perhaps living in a Western country as an immigrant or son of immigrants. If either is true, then the cultural setting becomes relevant, as closeted behaviors (including straight marriages) vary as the norm. It may also be relevant if you are viewing your boss across a cultural divide (he is English, you Thai, for example.)

    C. Welcome to JUB. Share a little about your own life and you'll make lots of friends here.


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    Maybe he has a second job as a tranny clown. Just suggesting.
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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    Why don't you all go out as a work group someplace then have one of your friends do a gaydar sensing to see if he's a gay? Or if you have a gay friend have them hit on him when you go out and see what happens to see if he's a gay.

    Just some ideas...

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    If he crosses his feet when he sits in a chair he is gay, otherwise...no
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    4. He has probably the softest hands I have ever touched, so I assume he takes care of them a lot. Even thought he works quite a physical work sometimes.

    Do the two of you hold hands? Yeah...GAY.
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    I discovered my boss is gay in a funny way. One day, he had to go home, to get a jacket, because it was going to be a very cold night. Me and my colleague were at work, and he had left his laptop behind, playing music at the bar. We tought it would be fun to see what porn he was into. Well, when searching for porn in his computer, I've seen many gay sites and videos (and some of them were familiar :P ). It was a shock, but we haven't told him anything about his secret stash, and we plan to keep it that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FPNY View Post
    If he crosses his feet when he sits in a chair he is gay, otherwise...no
    This doesn't hold up. My partner is quite gay but he doesn't cross his feet. And I know a few straight guys who do.
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    Over-imagining. Obsess over someone who can actually reciprocate your affections. Download some gay social apps, start a profile on a website, or connect to some new people through gay friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Closet4Ever View Post
    We thought it would be fun to see what porn he was into.
    Have some integrity. What a shitty thing to do. Respect privacy.

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    The only true way to know is for you to drop your pants and see if he fucks you.


    Let us know how that works out.

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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    If the OP or anybody else in this ridiculous situation want to keep their job - they'll just forget about it.

    If the guy fires him for spreading rumors or doing anything I wouldn't blame him at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nafhoosier View Post
    If the OP or anybody else in this ridiculous situation want to keep their job - they'll just forget about it.

    If the guy fires him for spreading rumors or doing anything I wouldn't blame him at all.
    ^ 200% correct. It's work time.
    Blah blah blah, something enigmatic sounding...

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    Quote Originally Posted by xboxfan34 View Post
    Only one way to find out.

    Blast "Let's Put The X in Sex" by KISS in his office and do a striptease. If he gets a boner, then he's yours for the taking!
    lol....love kiss but that was one of their worst....love the idea though

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    Quote Originally Posted by Closet4Ever View Post
    I discovered my boss is gay in a funny way. One day, he had to go home, to get a jacket, because it was going to be a very cold night. Me and my colleague were at work, and he had left his laptop behind, playing music at the bar. We tought it would be fun to see what porn he was into. Well, when searching for porn in his computer, I've seen many gay sites and videos (and some of them were familiar :P ). It was a shock, but we haven't told him anything about his secret stash, and we plan to keep it that way.
    not cool if this did happen.

    and not cool if you out him.

    grow up.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Closet4Ever View Post
    I discovered my boss is gay in a funny way. One day, he had to go home, to get a jacket, because it was going to be a very cold night. Me and my colleague were at work, and he had left his laptop behind, playing music at the bar. We tought it would be fun to see what porn he was into. Well, when searching for porn in his computer, I've seen many gay sites and videos (and some of them were familiar :P ). It was a shock, but we haven't told him anything about his secret stash, and we plan to keep it that way.
    This is disgusting.

    I have no idea why you even made this thread.

    And given this 'new' information....why would you waste our time asking us to speculate.

    Grow the Fuck up. and I don't care if you are in some second or third world country where you think this is acceptable behaviour. It isn't.

    And never. ever. spy on your boss again. If I were him and I found out, I'd fire you in a heartbeat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Closet4Ever View Post
    I discovered my boss is gay in a criminal way.
    There, fixed it for truth.

    One day, he had to go home, to get a jacket, because it was going to be a very cold night. Me and my colleague were at work, and he had left his laptop behind, playing music at the bar. We tought it would be fun to see what porn he was into. Well, when searching for porn in his computer, I've seen many gay sites and videos (and some of them were familiar :P ). It was a shock, but we haven't told him anything about his secret stash, and we plan to keep it that way.
    Of course you haven't. You had no right to search his computer, you wouldn't want to admit your crime. You'd get fired at the least, prosecuted at best.

    I hope your boss reads this and you get what you deserve.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    This is disgusting.



    Grow the Fuck up.

    And never. ever. spy on your boss again. If I were him and I found out, I'd fire you in a heartbeat.
    It was brought to my attention that Closet4ever and Gregnude are not the same poster. My apologies to Gregnude for this. As for Closet4ever...see the key messages in my post.

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    Wouldn't the world be just perfect if gays had a physical aspect that identified them immediately as being homosexual; a halo or perhaps green ears.

    We would all then know who we could flirt with and who was "off limits".

    Until then our personal obsessions and fantasies will lead us forever into the fairy tale world of believing that every guy we fancy must be gay.
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    Can flirt with anybody. There is nothing wrong with simple flirting, as long as one accepts a 'no' if it is given. Beyond that is sexual harassment, no matter what the orientation of either/both parties.

    As for physical identifiers.... That's been tried before, earrings in the right ear/watch on right wrist. The problem is some individuals who don't know what it means take it on as a fashion statement. Then again, the watch part was doomed to fail as left handers wear their watches on their right wrist anyway, to cut down the "dumping your coffee on yourself" mistake when someone asks the time.
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    At the time, it didn't seem like such a big deal. We were just curious to see if he had something in his computer. We weren't really "spying" on him. In fact, believe it or not, he once did the same in my laptop, just for the kicks, but it was in front of me, not on my back. In front of me and a bunch of co-workers. He did exactly what we have done. Just opened the search bar, and typed "porn" in it. Nothing else. I'm glad I don't have anything on my computer, or that would have been a critical moment.
    The way we all "hang" around eachother doesn't really make this situation sound as bad as it may sound to you, believe me.
    But now that I see your point of view, I guess it was an invasion of property, and I will not do it again...
    Anyways, it was strange finding that out, as he always makes fun of homosexuality, and even some comments about myself, saying I act like a queer now and then. Now, I know when he says it, it's not in a harmfull way, but still...making fun of something like this, being one himself is a little odd, wouldn't you agree?

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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    A few things should be clarified.

    Why do you allege entering your boss' computer in his absence would not be "spying" on him? What else would it be?

    When he accessed your laptop in front of you, did he do it as humor? Does he own the computer? Was he demonstrating to those looking on that your internet browsing is information subject to the company's review? What was happening when he did it?

    Why would it have been a critical moment? In what way?

    To be clear, your search wasn't an invasion of property, but an invasion of privacy. A person has a right to a private life. It's not about the property.

    Do you know for a fact that your boss is gay, or is he possibly bi-curious. That would be different from being gay.

    If he is not using queer derisively, is he using it humorously? You are leaving relevant details out.

    We make fun of ourselves every day. If he is actually closeted, then your point is valid, but you haven't really established that.

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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    Oh, he's homophobic - I guess it's OK then.

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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    Quote Originally Posted by Closet4Ever View Post
    At the time, it didn't seem like such a big deal. We were just curious to see if he had something in his computer. We weren't really "spying" on him.
    At the time invading someone's privacy didn't seem like such a big deal....... OK.
    You were just curious to see if he had something on his computer, but were afraid to simply ask him so you snuck around behind his back at a time when he trusted you.
    You weren't really "spying" on him but you did exactly that in an extremely cowardly way.

    And you idiotically try to brush it away as if its nothing..... How's your "open" relationship? Been "not spying" on your better half lately?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    A few things should be clarified.

    Why do you allege entering your boss' computer in his absence would not be "spying" on him? What else would it be?

    When he accessed your laptop in front of you, did he do it as humor? Does he own the computer? Was he demonstrating to those looking on that your internet browsing is information subject to the company's review? What was happening when he did it?

    Why would it have been a critical moment? In what way?

    To be clear, your search wasn't an invasion of property, but an invasion of privacy. A person has a right to a private life. It's not about the property.

    Do you know for a fact that your boss is gay, or is he possibly bi-curious. That would be different from being gay.

    If he is not using queer derisively, is he using it humorously? You are leaving relevant details out.

    We make fun of ourselves every day. If he is actually closeted, then your point is valid, but you haven't really established that.
    I think it can be considered spying, it's true, but it wasn't supposed to be at such a bigger scale. We were just joking around, me and my colleague, and it just came up "Hey, let's see what we find when we type "porn" in his computer. That was just it. We didn't go through the files. We just saw what came up on the search bar.

    Yes. When he accessed my laptop, was one day we were all having dinner in our workplace, sort of a comemoration when summer season ended. I lent him the computer so he could find some music to add to his library. Then, just for the kicks, when he had the laptop on his hands, he was like "Hey, let's see what porn this guy has on his computer", in front of basically all my work colleagues. I knew I had nothing to hide, so I just sat there while he was trying to make a fool out of me. Not making a fool out of me, just trying to embarass me, but as a joke, not in a harmfull way.

    I say it would have been a critical moment, because I'm not out of the closet. I can't imagine what would happen if I really had something in my computer, other than naked women. If it were women, probably we would all joke about it. If I had men in my computer, things would have turned a lot different.

    Yeah, when he calls me a queer, it is humorously, but sometimes he really insists in his jokes. He doesn't make those jokes when we are alone, just when more people are in the same room, so they all hear.

    And yeah, to your final question, as far as I know he's in the closet.


    Quote Originally Posted by Willie Boy View Post
    At the time invading someone's privacy didn't seem like such a big deal....... OK.
    You were just curious to see if he had something on his computer, but were afraid to simply ask him so you snuck around behind his back at a time when he trusted you.
    You weren't really "spying" on him but you did exactly that in an extremely cowardly way.

    And you idiotically try to brush it away as if its nothing..... How's your "open" relationship? Been "not spying" on your better half lately?

    Believe me, I'm not trying to brush what I did. I'm just trying to explain my point of view. I now realize it was a bad thing to do. If I could turn back in time, believe me when I say I wouldn't do it again. It was just something spontaneous, that didn't seem like such a big deal back then.
    In the other hand, if we had found straight porn, maybe we would have made some jokes at the time he got back to work again, in a friendly way, we would have laughed it out, and maybe I wouldn't have this weight on my consciesness anymore. Untill today, only me and my colleague know what we saw. We didn't tell anyone about it, and plan to keep it that way. Like you guys said, it's his personal life, and we have nothing to do with it. We were just unfortunate to have found it out in a bad way.

    And about the open relationship comment...Please believe me that this isn't a usual thing that I do everyday. I don't wake up thinking "Hey, let's search for other people's secrets in their personal stuff!"
    It happened once, I learned my lesson, and it won't happen again.

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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    Surely, if you type 'porn' in a search engine on any computer that is not programmed to avoid it, you will get just that - need not mean that the boss had been looking for it unless his search engine history tells you so?

    Why not approach him and say, 'There is a query going around the office about your sexuality, I reckon you are 100% straight but the betting is that you are gay or bi. Can you settle the argument once and for all?

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    Hello. First of all, I'm new here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Closet4Ever View Post
    I think it can be considered spying, it's true, but it wasn't supposed to be at such a bigger scale.
    First, there's NO can be about it. It was EXACTLY spying.

    We were just joking around, me and my colleague, and it just came up "Hey, let's see what we find when we type "porn" in his computer. That was just it. We didn't go through the files. We just saw what came up on the search bar.
    You just wanted information of a private and personal nature that can very easily be used to harm, but you were too cowardly to get his permission.

    Yes. When he accessed my laptop, was one day we were all having dinner in our workplace, sort of a comemoration when summer season ended. I lent him the computer so he could find some music to add to his library. Then, just for the kicks, when he had the laptop on his hands, he was like "Hey, let's see what porn this guy has on his computer", in front of basically all my work colleagues. I knew I had nothing to hide, so I just sat there while he was trying to make a fool out of me. Not making a fool out of me, just trying to embarass me, but as a joke, not in a harmfull way.
    So you are using the time when he had your FULL PERMISSION to access your laptop and you knew exactly what he was doing and allowed it to make your despicable spying moment acceptable? You still don't get that you embarked on a criminal act and invaded his privacy. Are you really that dumb that you can't see such a simple fact?

    Believe me, I'm not trying to brush what I did. I'm just trying to explain my point of view.
    Your point of view is that it is OK to engage in criminal activity and abuse the trust of your employer on a personal whim. Because that is what you are saying. You committed a heinous act and, despite you suggestion otherwise, brush it off as no big deal.

    I now realize it was a bad thing to do. If I could turn back in time, believe me when I say I wouldn't do it again.
    Sorry, but I don't see any reason why anybody should even consider trusting you. You continue to excuse your criminal behavior and expect us to believe you wouldn't do it again? You still don't accept that you did anything wrong. How can we believe you?

    It was just something spontaneous, that didn't seem like such a big deal back then.
    Be thankful your boss doesn't know what you did. You would be fired quicker'n a bullet from a gun and don't expect any reference from him as you have proven yourself untrustworthy.

    In the other hand, if we had found straight porn, maybe we would have made some jokes at the time he got back to work again, in a friendly way, we would have laughed it out,
    Why not do that anyway? Or are you afraid to let the boss know what you did because you actually DO realize how wrong it was, despite your attempts to brush it off as nothing?

    maybe I wouldn't have this weight on my consciousness anymore. Untill today, only me and my colleague know what we saw. We didn't tell anyone about it, and plan to keep it that way. Like you guys said, it's his personal life, and we have nothing to do with it. We were just unfortunate to have found it out in a bad way.
    You acted the coward in your spying, and continue to act the coward in your fear to admit to your boss what you've done.

    And about the open relationship comment...Please believe me that this isn't a usual thing that I do everyday. I don't wake up thinking "Hey, let's search for other people's secrets in their personal stuff!"
    It happened once, I learned my lesson, and it won't happen again.
    And yet you continued to brush it off as nothing. You've lied so much, how can we believe that this sudden contrite feeling is actually true, and not some new "game" to be played at our expense. I hope the person you are in an "open relationship" with reads all your shit here, best he learns what he's risking so he can get away before you actually do cause him harm.

    Your words and actions prove you are not even worth shit so I am through trying to communicate with you. Just a waste of my time as you have no redeeming qualities, so I'm done with you.
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    Re: Is my boss gay in the closet?

    I am more curious as to how your boss being gay or otherwise affects you in your job.

    Why is it that you are so interested in your boss's personal life and sexual preferences? What is it to you?

    How has your observations of your boss's personal behaviour and personal practices come about? Was it during your working hours? I hope not, because this would mean you were not fully committing to doing what you were paid for.

    Finally, what do you expect to achieve from knowing the answer?

    Would you be quite happy working in the same place if your boss were to observe you the way you observe him and wonder about your sexual preferences?

    I would just let matters rest.

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