I have dealt with a lot of it from people and I'm sure you have too.
Today I yet again dealt with another oddball. On another social site, a lot of people on there like to use the app called Kik (spelling?). This one gay guy from Indiana (where I live) was asking if anyone would like to talk to him on Kik, but I don't have that app, so I asked if I could talk to him anyways since I was bored. I look on his status a short while later and he deleted my comment. I was a little thrown off, but wasn't terribly bothered. I messaged him asking if it was ok to add him and talk to him. He read my message but didn't reply back to it. I went to add him and then I find out he blocked me for some odd, unknown reason. Was it something I said? Is it how I looked in my profile picture that made him think I was unattractive and not worthy of talking to? How would he even know what I am like and what I might say if he didn't respond back to me? I really don't get it when people act like that. They say they want to talk but then they don't say anything upon talking to them.
I've also come to know that some will only reply to you when they "need" something or when negativity shows its ugly face. There was a teacher at my high school a little older than me that I wanted to hang out with, and this was years after I graduated. He never responded back to me when I asked if we could hang out yet he replied when I was horny once and sent him a picture of my cock and ended up blocking me (yeah, that was my fault). How come some only respond to the negative and never anything positive like just wanting to chat and/or hang out? I don't get it. Come to find out, he is indeed anti-social according to his profile. I don't see how you can be a teacher and be anti-social at the same time?
A former friend of mine is also the same way. He says he'll hang out with you but never follows through ever with doing so. I had made plans with him and he never once made the effort to hang out with me ever again after I moved away from his neighborhood. It's a pity that he became both an alcoholic and a homophobe years after I moved away, he used to be a decent guy but now all he thinks about is beer this and beer that and saying that being gay is a sin. I found out how anti-gay he is when I made the mistake of sending racy pics of me to him, wanting to relive the flirtation we did back then. It was a crappy way to find out how much he'd changed for the worst and I feel pitiful for that.
Another thing I hate is when I want the most to be social yet there is no one around to be social with. It's disheartening when you like a person enough to want to be their friend and hang out but they close themselves off from the world and other people. It spoils it for people like myself who just want some friendship and company.
Anyways, one of my pet peeves is when people don't reply back to their messages you've sent them. Forgive me if this sounds crass, but you can't be that busy if you're taking the time to surf social networking sites. I don't know what's worse, finding out that someone hasn't read your message yet or has read your message but never replied to it. Here's one of my mottoes: "If you're not going to be social on a social networking site, then leave".