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    Relationship Advice

    Hi everyone, some advice or food for thought would be appreciated. Ill start with what I love about my boyfriend. Hes smart and ambitious. We share similar goals. He works on things. Hes sweet.

    Weve been together for 6 years, and weve gone through tough times and good times. Weve been working on some issues like him getting upset over small things, and were finding better ways to communicate. Still Ive been feeling frustrated. I feel like we arent connecting as much at that we think very differently. Hes much more right-brained and Im left-brained. That contrast is nice at times but it can be difficult to communicate other times. His energy can also be much more intense while mine is calmer. Then theres the sex. We still have sex, thank goodness. And I do get turned on a lot when we have sex, and I can cum very quickly and usually need to find ways to hold off. The problem is that its become a routine, and I need more variety, kink and playfulness to be fulfilled. A third person or persons is not an option for me. Ive talked about my sex concerns with him, and he says hes willing to try new things, but whenever we do try things he acts uncomfortable and awkward. I dont mind teaching and coaching him, but its not fun for me when he looks so uncomfortable. Also I dont always want be the one introducing new things or changing it up, I want it to come from him, but left to his own-devices we do the same thing over and over again!

    Im really frustrated, but I havent given up. I have some plans to try and get him to be more playful and adventurous in bed. Still Ive been wondering if Id be a lot happier with someone who is much more playful in bed and thinks more like I do.

    Thanks for taking the time to read this. Best Wishes!

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    Re: Relationship Advice

    I believe that unless there's physical or mental abuse relationships ought to be worked on rather than ended. Otherwise we just move on to change one set of problems for another.

    Tell him what you told us and be open to getting some couple's counseling.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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    Re: Relationship Advice

    I used to get the same responses. Im 24 and my man is double my age and he is the one claiming Im a lost freak and I could teach him stuff hehe.. I used to find different videos online, ask him to come look at this, haha, how funny, we should try it sometimes. It worked

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    Re: Relationship Advice

    What aaggii said. My ex was all vanilla for four years until he stated watching my porn while I was out. Then all of a sudden he wanted to try all kinds of stuff and later told me that was why.

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