Please don't be judgmental of my situation. I've been with my fiance now for nearly four years.
At the start of the relationship he would jerk off on his own. Then it went from porn to caming to pic exchanges to texting an old hook up buddy in secret. Needless to say I found out about all of this. So I told him he could not jerk off alone anymore. That lasted about 3 years. Now he's gone back to getting back to "having the option to get off". He tells me he has not done anything solo. But when we go weeks without doing anything and the day we do the lube bottle was moved I started to wonder - its now been bugging me non stop for two days. My question is how do I get over this. Please help and I need real advice please and I need someone to understand where I am coming from so I know I am not crazy.
Thank you -