Ok so I have been seeing this guy for quite a while now, we aren't too serious but we have agreed not to see other people.
Basically, we were talking about going to see fireworks for Bonfire Night and he said he was going with friends but I could come too. I agreed and we agreed it would be nice....we were then chatting about how there are so many events coming up at this time of year and I said it's nice to be able to go to these things with a partner and not be the awkward single one. He then told me that when we go and see the fireworks we will have no just pretend to be friends, not because of his friends because they're fine with it, but because his family will be in the area and they are pretty homophobic and don't know he's seeing someone. I then told him I aren't prepared to do the whole 'acting like a friend' thing and that I probably won't be going to many events with him if I have to lie about who I am.
Now I am confused if I was acting irrationally?? Should I go as a friend or should I hold my ground and stay away?