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    Was I just hit on by a married guy?

    I've worked where I work for a little over a year, pretty big office and building. One of the IT guys is married and had pictures of his kids outside his office, from what I knew. We barely spoke and when we did it wasn't very interesting or engaging, tho I always found something about him attractive. He's not that much older than me.

    The last couple days we've worked together more than I've probably seen him for the past year! And something just clicked. We were chatting, smiling at each other, and he even rested his thigh against mine at one point. Not something you do with a co-worker or even most friends. He's also winked at me and rested his hand on my shoulder, when previously things just weren't clicking for us. Reached across me to access my computer, invading any normal person's personal space. it was all very sudden.

    I was confused because I had been told by those who knew him that he was married, and I saw pics of kids outside his cube, he he seems to be flirting with me, or am I just reading too much into this? I have not seen a wedding ring on his finger for the past number of days.
    Last edited by mucnittub; October 25th, 2013 at 07:55 PM.

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    Re: Was I just hit on by a married guy?

    you might be reading to much into this. because you two have been working close for a couple of days, he may see you as a friend.

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    He sounds like a guy who is just really comfortable with his own sexuality and maybe feels a plutonic "click" with you. Nothing wrong with that. If there's more to it, it will eventually be more obvious. For now, just enjoy and appreciate the friendship.

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    Re: Was I just hit on by a married guy?

    I agree with the posters above. Enjoy getting to know one another and see how it unfolds. Are you out at the office and does he know you're gay? Don't make any moves on him... but you could certainly suggest having lunch together or grabbing a beer after work if the friendship continues to develop. BTW: being married and having photos of the kids in the office doesn't mean squat!

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    Find someone single who is actually available. Leave married men alone.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Was I just hit on by a married guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Find someone single who is actually available. Leave married men alone.
    This. I don't think there is much that is positive (if anything) that could come from this situation.

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    Re: Was I just hit on by a married guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Find someone single who is actually available. Leave married men coworkers alone.
    ^Fixed (and QFT).

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    Re: Was I just hit on by a married guy?

    That's what straight men who are comfortable with each would do.

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