I've worked where I work for a little over a year, pretty big office and building. One of the IT guys is married and had pictures of his kids outside his office, from what I knew. We barely spoke and when we did it wasn't very interesting or engaging, tho I always found something about him attractive. He's not that much older than me.
The last couple days we've worked together more than I've probably seen him for the past year! And something just clicked. We were chatting, smiling at each other, and he even rested his thigh against mine at one point. Not something you do with a co-worker or even most friends. He's also winked at me and rested his hand on my shoulder, when previously things just weren't clicking for us. Reached across me to access my computer, invading any normal person's personal space. it was all very sudden.
I was confused because I had been told by those who knew him that he was married, and I saw pics of kids outside his cube, he he seems to be flirting with me, or am I just reading too much into this? I have not seen a wedding ring on his finger for the past number of days.