Here goes, I'll try to make this short
I'm an Indiana boy! I recently decided to quit taking antidepressants and sleeping pills and just fess up and be true to myself. I came out to family and close friends but left it at that. I'm a college student and after coming out I decided that I was going to live my life for me and not others. I'm in the process of transferring schools to Chicago where I can meet more people and have more opportunities. Since coming out I've dropped out of my frat, and now I basically have no friends, besides close ones who go to different schools. I've been trying to meet guys but its so damn hard. Everyone here is repressed, in denial, on the DL, or are typical fratboys.
I feel so isolated and alone. Is it really THIS hard to meet guys? The few I've talked to on apps always want to go to bars (I'm not 21 yet, only a couple months left). How do I meet guys?!?! I know I'm only here for a few more months (leaving in January) but I feel like I'm driving myself crazy being alone. I dont think I'm bad looking and I exercise and lift. I just want someone to talk to/ spend time with!!
When I'm in Chicago I usually go out and sneak into gay bars and meet guys but there isn't really anything like that here. I'm so clueless, I thought coming out was hard but it seems its only half the battle. I try to drop hints to random guys but I don't think they realize I'm gay, they usually think I'm just making jokes like all the other fratty guys.
any advise to meeting guys? or dealing with raging hormonal horniness/loneliness?