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    Hey guys,
    I need the JUB braintrust to act as my conscience for a minute. Every time I sign in to Grindr I get propositioned by this super cute guy who lives nearby. The only problem is I'm 27 and he's 18. Is it totally unethical for me to bang this kid? I know this sounds awful but I would really really like to do it and not feel bad about it.

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    As long as he is REALLY 18 than what is the problem? Absolutely nothing wrong with it what so ever. If you're questioning his age in the least have him prove his age. Other than that I say have some fun. Be honest its a nsa hook up. I've met guys with a larger age difference than that and we had a blast. It's not like He's underage. He's an adult and can decide if he wants to play or Not. Just verify his age and have fun.

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    You two are both mature and consenting adults.

    Nothing to feel bad about.

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    Unless the age of consent is unusually high in your area, I don't really understand what the issue is. If you were thinking of getting into a serious long term relationship, I would definitely advise you to take it slow and really look at the situation, but if it's just sex, age ain't nothin' but a number (as long as it's a legal number.)

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    Yeah, the important thing to be weary of is when some guys will say they're 18 and are actually not. Just report those guys. If they actually are, then by all means go for it.

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    Get at least 2 forms of Identification as proof, and make a copy.
    Then bang away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ALBiMale1975 View Post
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    Get at least 2 forms of Identification as proof, and make a copy.
    Then bang away.

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    He could be an ElderGay done up all pretty! Be careful.

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    Just a hunch...but maybe instinctively there is something else bothering you or giving you second thoughts because the age thing isn't a big deal IMO....you are both consenting adults.

    Are there any other red flags?

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    The way I see it is the gay world is a small world and it's not as easy to find someone your age so if you can find somebody you're compatible with who's legal then you should give it a try. Just make sure to check his license or i.d. so you won't end up on the sex offender list lol. I'm 30 and there is probably no way in hell I would want to date anyone that young but for just sex, sure.

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    You have a nice problem to have. Bang away boy. He's into you, what's the problem?

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    Avoid red flags. They're there for a reason.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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    YOU are the one that determines the "ethics" in a situation.

    If your question was, "Is it legal?" then that's something easy to find out. Ethics are subjective and vary from person. A consideration COULD be, if you have to ask if it's ethical, then YOU probably think it's not. So, what you are looking for is validation from someone else.

    You know what's right and wrong for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thesantos View Post
    If your question was, "Is it legal?" then that's something easy to find out.
    Maybe the other question is, "Is he legal?". The ones who claim to be 18 are often younger.
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    What matters, OP, is what you want. The rest follows from there.

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    Just make sure first and then unzip later. I'm your age, and I wouldn't mind having fun with an 18 year old.

    Have fun it's just sex.

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    I'm going to talk about whether it would be ethical (as opposed to whether it would be legal) for you to sleep with the guy.

    Here's the thing: I don't believe that a 17 yo kid is not mature enough to have sex with a 27 yo guy, but on his 18th birthday, he magically transforms to a fully formed adult, at the stroke of midnight, from one moment to the next.

    Personally, I had sex at a rather young age, with a much older man. At the time, I thought that's what I wanted. In retrospect, I regret it. I wasn't emotinally mature enough, although at the time, I thought I was.

    In my opinion, 18 is very young for a 27 yo guy. Is it too young? It depends on the 18 yo. He may be mature enough, he may not be.

    This is what I would do: Meet him at a café during daytime, tell him in advance that you're not going to have sex or even make out on that first date. Tell him to bring his ID (and bring yours, just to be fair). Verify his age that way, and chat with him for a while, have lunch or whatever. Then you'll be able to estimate whether or not it would be ethical to bang the kid on the second date.

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    On a technicality, in some states, the age of consent is much lower. Give the kid a break. He's into you. The worst thing that can happen is you'll never hook up with him again.

    So, what happened anyway?

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    Personally, I feel that 18 is too young for someone my age (and I am 24). Of course, I don't think it is morally wrong or anything like that, but it is a fair age difference. If you don't have any hangups about being with someone who is 18, then by all means. I've known couples who were that age apart (Roughly) and in my life I have been with guys who were about 30 years old (when I was 19-21ish), though not in a relationship of course, so I think its fine.
    Just for me personally, I would have some aprehensions dating someone who is over 30 or under 22. But then again, I am told I am very restrictive with the age range in which I would date.
    Anyway, if it feels right, go for it.

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    As long as there's not a Dateline NBC van somewhere I'm sure you'll be fine.

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    Re: Too Young?

    My partner and I met a guy on line came to our house a tight little hottie who no lie looked 15. He had a drivers license and another photo id then we fucked him a few times!

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    He's 18? Mentally competent? You have things in common you can talk about? You are not taking advantage of him? You treat each other good? Last question. What are your ethical problems, then?


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    Re: Too Young?

    The OP has not logged in since he made the post in October Guess he either has taken the plunge or moved !

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