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    Alright, I'm Back....

    Okay, It's me. Derek - Formerly Effortless_Pro

    I see there's some familiar faces, and some new faces... and some new rules?

    So what's new? Who missed me? Did anyone even know why I was gone?


    I quietly deleted my account, last year. For reasons that I thought were my own, but they weren't.

    I ended up getting involved with someone who was very controlling, and very good at manipulating me. Sadly I let it go on for almost a year; mentally it was abusive and I am mad at myself for sticking around as long as I did.

    I should have ended it months and months ago; he would get overly jealous an insecure and would go mental if he found out I had slept with someone prior to him, or if people had seen pictures of my dick... Which literally one of the first things I said was "Everyone's seen it"

    This website bothered him, so I deleted my account foolishly.

    There's so much, but the final straw was when he decided to go through my apartment, and my personal effects and my computer, which I knew he was doing... so he found stuff, stuff that I put there for him to find; so this time he couldn't deny that he did anything and make it about me...

    He went through my e-mail, responded to my ex (whom I am amicable with and was arranging to get my personal belongings back from Montreal), and an old fuck buddy who I am still friends with... Followed me to Toronto under the "pretenses" he made plans with a friend who lives there on the same day I was meeting up with the Fallen god for a book signing.

    Essentially I finally got the balls to tell buddy that whatever we were was over.
    For the longest time he refused to say we were in a relationship, and when things started to break down; and he realised he was going to lose me, and his control over me he suddenly wanted to get serious but by then I didn't; you can only be denied for so long, and know that this guy is on EVERY dating site possible; and every hook-up site, and then deny it to your face when your friends and even acquaintences have spoken to him; and then random bar friends freak out when they see him and he denies that it's him, yet it's his user name everywhere.

    I know I'm rambling, but it was so bad, it got so bad - all the little lies, the big lies, the fact he thought I was obligated to have sex with him; I got sick for a good month and he was more concerned about getting his dick sucked.

    Anyways, enough about that.
    I'm extremely happy now that he's gone. I have my own place, and it feels like mine, because someone isn't constantly "keeping tabs on me" by "hanging out with me"
    I missed you guys.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    I noticed you'd gone.

    And I'm glad you're back. And I hope things get back to normal for you.


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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Well, we are glad that you escaped. WE at JUB will help you de-program form this near miss. If Katie could do it after Tom...so can you!

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    I know I already said it, but welcome back.

    Sorry to hear you had a bad relationship.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Wow...what a mess. Glad to see you made it out alive!
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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    You were one of the lucky ones to finally admit to the truth and get out of what could have become a dangerous situation.

    Well done, and welcome back.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Welcome back effortless

    No new rules in here, same old shit really. It won't take long to re-assimilate.

    Now about those dick pictures


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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Oh, once in a while, a breakup is to be celebrated. Congratulations.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Welcome back

    Glad you made it out alive.
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Damn - that was a hell of a year :\

    Glad that chapter's over for you (make sure it stays that way). Welcome back.
    Blah blah blah, something enigmatic sounding...

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    Glad you're back, love the con shirt
    You show courage the brave dream of

    Gallop on my old warhorse

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    Welcome back

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    Welcome back ! You were clever to get out of this poisonous relationship in time. Good for you !
    Magna Veritas


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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    I'm afraid I don't remember you. An old avatar might jog my memory.

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    You're here, where it's safe.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    I joined JUB long after you left, so although I don't remember you, I'm still glad your back, and I'm even more glad that you took out the trash in the process (i.e. your ex-boyfriend). Good riddance to him, and I'm sure you're a million times better off without him.
    Last edited by Special K; October 18th, 2013 at 09:52 AM.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    I must be clairvoyant - see what I posted just ten days ago?

    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...=1#post9132844

    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    Whatever happened to the JUB twosome that were tiexgrr and Effortless_Pro? Remember them?

    About a year or two back they were here regularly and they met each other and posted vids of themselves (a little inebriated) and were as inseperable as anyone, but they've both fallen off the face of the planet and self-deleted.
    Welcome back!

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    I hope the other guy wasn't tiexgrr ?
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Thanks guys, it's good to see old familiar faces, and new ones!

    I missed this place; I really did.

    No, it wasn't tiexgrr who was the complicated psychopath, it was someone else, who I wouldn't be surprised would actually check this site to see if I joined back.

    Tyler and I became roommates the summer of last year; it was pretty good - but after awhile I think we realised we were very different people and not compatible to live together.

    I've learned that I do faaar better living on my own.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Quote Originally Posted by SordidPro View Post
    I wouldn't be surprised would actually check this site to see if I joined back.
    If so, then this is for him

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    You show courage the brave dream of

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    Welcome back!

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    Really glad to have you back!

    But did you have to take JUB down when you did it? LOL Just kidding! A sign of how much we missed you.

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    Jeez man - glad you escaped that hell un-scarred, and yeah, welcome back buddy!
    "Bleed your heart out,

    I said what's in it for me..."

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    welcome back! sorry about what happened

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Quote Originally Posted by SordidPro View Post
    Okay, It's me. Derek - Formerly Effortless_Pro

    I see there's some familiar faces, and some new faces... and some new rules?

    So what's new? Who missed me? Did anyone even know why I was gone?


    I quietly deleted my account, last year. For reasons that I thought were my own, but they weren't.

    I ended up getting involved with someone who was very controlling, and very good at manipulating me. Sadly I let it go on for almost a year; mentally it was abusive and I am mad at myself for sticking around as long as I did.

    I should have ended it months and months ago; he would get overly jealous an insecure and would go mental if he found out I had slept with someone prior to him, or if people had seen pictures of my dick... Which literally one of the first things I said was "Everyone's seen it"

    This website bothered him, so I deleted my account foolishly.

    There's so much, but the final straw was when he decided to go through my apartment, and my personal effects and my computer, which I knew he was doing... so he found stuff, stuff that I put there for him to find; so this time he couldn't deny that he did anything and make it about me...

    He went through my e-mail, responded to my ex (whom I am amicable with and was arranging to get my personal belongings back from Montreal), and an old fuck buddy who I am still friends with... Followed me to Toronto under the "pretenses" he made plans with a friend who lives there on the same day I was meeting up with the Fallen god for a book signing.

    Essentially I finally got the balls to tell buddy that whatever we were was over.
    For the longest time he refused to say we were in a relationship, and when things started to break down; and he realised he was going to lose me, and his control over me he suddenly wanted to get serious but by then I didn't; you can only be denied for so long, and know that this guy is on EVERY dating site possible; and every hook-up site, and then deny it to your face when your friends and even acquaintences have spoken to him; and then random bar friends freak out when they see him and he denies that it's him, yet it's his user name everywhere.

    I know I'm rambling, but it was so bad, it got so bad - all the little lies, the big lies, the fact he thought I was obligated to have sex with him; I got sick for a good month and he was more concerned about getting his dick sucked.

    Anyways, enough about that.
    I'm extremely happy now that he's gone. I have my own place, and it feels like mine, because someone isn't constantly "keeping tabs on me" by "hanging out with me"
    I missed you guys.
    Stop whining! Know your place!!!

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    Here's looking at you kid
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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Yeah...I missed you. Glad that you are back with us at JUB.



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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    He was controlling manipulating and abusive; but did you marry him?

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    Welcome back Derek. You were missed and it's good to see you back. You were always one of the "good people " here

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    Hey, cutie. Welcome back.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    Well i can give you the Eldergay version of a welcome back....



    Listen to the words... it is completely apt...... glad your doing better.
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    I do remember you. Welcome Back!

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    Welcome back.

    Life is full of lessons.

    BTW, I was formerly Hard-up1.

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    Re: Alright, I'm Back....

    What a flustered story. Glad you decided to instigate something about it.

    And welcome back you are missed

    My, so many old members self-deleting themselves then resurrect it's almost like a un-suicide pact.
    come now, my child. if we were planning to harm you, do you think
    we'd be lurking here beside the path in the darkest part of the forest?

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    Welcome back! Now show us your tits!
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    Glad you're back, Derek and doing well.. also glad you made the move to take control of your life. If you can't be happy in a relationship because you're living under the thumb of a very possessive and dominating figure, it also has to take a great toll psychologically. Sometimes it does take awhile but it's good that you enjoy being part of this community and are now living your life for yourself!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilBit View Post
    Welcome back! Now show us your tits!
    As I said, nice to see your back.

    And in your pics gallery, it is great to see your front bits as well.

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    Yay! Glad you're alright


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    Hi, I'm the new sheriff in town. By protocol, I'll have to check you for bite marks. We don't want another outbreak of the zombie virus here again. Please take off all your clothes and take pictures of yourself thoroughly. Submit the pictures to me. If I see the need to, I may request further pictures of you performing certain functions to make sure you're not a zombie.

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    I don't know who you are but Welcome back!
    "... You think the only people who are people
    Are the people who look and think like you ..." - Colours of the Wind by Vanessa Williams

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    It is good to see people returning after an absence; it proves how much JUB is a part of life; how switching on the computer can put you in contact with people who make you laugh, educate you, piss you off, give you an instantaneous erection, etc.

    Welcome back.
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