I would like to ask for your opinion on a matter I'm not sure how to solve.
I'm in a LDR with my BF, and I'll be visiting him soon, after different months we haven't seen each other. I will be arriving on the weekend, and so far under the assumptions that he'll be free of work and whatever the whole weekend.
Recently though my bf asked me if it would be alright for him to participate in a sport event (he is just part of a university club, so nothing high league), that would take place the day after I arrive (considering though I'll be arriving at midnight the day before that).
His reasonings are acceptable, since he says that due to work he couldn't participate in any event so far, and this would be his only chance this semester (it's the only swim meet taking place at his university) and since it's just swimming for a couple of minutes every now and then, we would be spending the rest of the time together anyway.
I on the other hand was kind of annoyed by it (although I would like to tell him that "of course, it's fine. You can swim if you want"), since we haven't seen each other in a very long time, and I was expecting at least the first day to be a "just me and you" kind of thing.
Anyway, I told him that I'd prefer him not to, and although he wasn't really mad about it, he was kind of annoyed by it (he agreed not to do it more to make me happy, then because he thinks it would be bad to actually swim that day)
So what do you think? Am I being unreasonable, or is he?