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    Mixed signals

    Hey guys, I need some advice about my problem.

    So there's is this guy who I sort of have an attraction to but I've been trying to just ignore it since we don't have much in common. However there are times where I feel like he also has an attraction towards me but I've been trying to just think that maybe its all just in my head.

    For example, he sometimes text me saying that our mutual friends miss seeing me because I've haven't been out much as of lately. A part of me thinks that he's just being friendly and expressing that our friends miss me but another part of me thinks that if our friends did actually miss me, they would had text me themselves and he only text me because he wants to see me. And whenever he sees me or one of us leaves, he usually hugs me.

    Is this all in my head? Am I reading the wrong signals? If it is, how do I stop being overly paranoid about it?

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    Re: Mixed signals

    Instead of spending all this time and energy trying to interpret his signals, just ask him. Take him out on a strictly casual lunch or dinner and bring it up with him. It's OK to not feel an attraction to him, but if he is harboring feelings for you, it's best for you to let him know that you're not interested in dating him so that he can focus his feelings on other people who may return his advances.
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    Well, in my opinion, not having a lot in common isn't really a great reason not to date someone if you're attracted to them and the feeling is mutual. As Astare said, maybe do a one-on-one casual thing and see if he really is interested. Then just take it from there. If you decide that you're not interested after that, then let him down gently, or if he turns out not to be all that into you, then hey, it was worth a shot. Move on. But you never know unless you try.

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    I'd ask him out if I were you.
    You're obviously into him, since you're spending so much time overthinking things.
    As for him... well, ask him out, and you'll know, right?

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    Re: Mixed signals

    Go on that causal outing and get to know him better. What you may think you do not have in common may surprise you. Perhaps some of the things he is into you could find very interesting. Vice versa. It could be a way of expanding your experience of life. Whether there are attractions on either side won't be known until you pose the question. Good Luck!

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