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    Crush Exposed Online!

    So I'll start this by saying I haven't been on JUB in a bit so hey everyone! I'm currently in my last year of school, not out, but working on it shortly.

    I was going through some tumblr sites of exposed men, which I now feel guilty for viewing, when I saw non other then one of my top 5 crushes at my school! The funny thing is that I can't get sexually excited about the pics because I feel so guilty and embarrassed for him. I don't think he knows, and the site said the pics were obtained by a fake female account/impostor. Before I ask you advice I want you to know that this experience has really taught me a few things.
    1. Seeing the object of your desire truly isn't all that great when it can lead to personal humiliation.
    2. I knew what was happening on those tumblrs are bad, but the pics/vids are hot to view so I didn't care.
    3. I think my enjoyment of these sites has decreased.
    4. I know I am a hypocrite.
    5. I know I must do something but I'm also intrigued by the supposed dirty videos he made. While I'd love to see them I have too much guilt to stay quiet.

    Besides contacting the tumblr account, how should I tell him? Should I keep quite? Please remember that I'm not out so I don't feel comfortable disclosing how I found them.

    If I can't get them off the site, now linked to over 600 pages, should I just write him an anonymous letter or would that make it worse. I feel guilty, even though he gave the pics/vids to a stranger, but I feel that I must do something for a friend. BTW we aren't supper close, but still friends.

    I appreciate any advice you can give me.

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    Re: Crush Exposed Online!

    Advice would be to be upfront and tell him, however I can see that you fear being outed at this very stage.

    However how do you feel he'd react if you told him you were gay? Were the pics and videos homoerotic? There may be some potential here for other things. But probably not something you'd want to do right now.

    Your letter may be a good idea, with a direct link to the website and pictures/videos in question.

    Now on the subject of feeling guilty. Dont. It is not your fault the pictures are there, and it isn't your fault that they were somewhat arousing/piqued your interest. Nor should you feel guilty about being curious about his videos that may be online. You're a young horny guy who just found naughty pics of his crush online, of course you're going to be curious to see if he stacks up to your mental images or not.

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    Re: Crush Exposed Online!

    I wouldn't do anything. It's the 21st century. Young people feel comfortable exposing themselves on the internet.
    Besides, if his image is posted online it means he's either really good looking or has a big big dick, or both Hell, if I had a 12 inch dick, I'd post it myself rofl
    Don't feel guilty. Get over it. It's not your fault he's attractive to you. Got a link? lol

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    Re: Crush Exposed Online!

    tell him yourself if you do anything. I found some pics of a guy I knew on other sites and I told him. His response was, "I don't care". He might even be aware they are on there.

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    Re: Crush Exposed Online!

    Stop feeling guilty. What if you'd somehow walked in on him having sex or jerking off? This is far less personal and intrusive. He's a big boy and it doesn't sound like you are close friends. He may even be aware of the situation.

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    Re: Crush Exposed Online!

    Thanks for the awesome responses. After a moment of thinking it over you are all right, he's a big boy (in more than one way ) so he should be able to handle this himself. I no longer feel guilty, I guess that was just my initial shock. Despite the fact he was fingering himself in one of the pics (which doesn't make you gay) I doubt anything sexual would happen between us if I told him face to face. I think I'll stick with the anonymous note. If he knows about it no harm, if not, he should get the chance to fix this before more people from our small school find out.

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