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    I met a good looking man...

    I few months ago i saw a very very good looking older man on a dating site. We chatted for a while. He was interested in me and i in him. So i asked to meet him. He told me we can do that but just a normal meet. No sex.
    Maybe i should add that he is married with a woman and not looking for a relationship.
    So when we met it was all good, he was very nice and very good looking . But i was a bit shy because i felt a bit uncomfortable going out with a man almost three times my age and talking about sex in public. We didnt talk very loud but it made me feel a bit unconfortable.

    He told me he doesnt know when we could meet or even if we could meet. Not because he doesnt like me but because he doesnt know where and what he could tell his wife.
    Later I asked him a couple of times if can meet but he always declined. The last time he told me its better if we never meet because he doesnt know how to do it.
    I asked him to tell me directly if its because of me, if he thinks it just doesnt seem to fit. But he always told me it itsnt because of me.

    I really want to meet him. What should i do? He sometimes wrote me "dirty" messages but i didnt really go into that dirty talk. Maybe he searches somebody who really is experienced in "men sex".
    Should ill give it another try? How should i try to convince him to meet with me?

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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    Married. Don't even bother. More trouble than its worth.
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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    Quote Originally Posted by coffeeorbeer View Post
    Married. Don't even bother. More trouble than its worth.
    It is trouble, but also a very hot fact that he is married. It seems to underline the appearance of a straight man.

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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    In my view he is just using you to satisfy his interest in sex with a younger guy but has no intention of taking it further. Dont waste your time with him. Look for a guy, preferable not married, to satisfy your own sexual interest. There is nothing wrong in you being interested in an older man but the interest to take it further must be mutual. Best of luck with your searches.

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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    Looks aren't everything especially with married men. Often times they just want some validation and that is it. It's not worth chasing after a married man anyway. If he was after you and wanted your D 24/7 then i would tell you to go for it . From what you said he is kind of testing the waters..don't be the first fish he reels in no matter how good the bait might be. Also, don't chase if it looks like he is regretting his choice. Why ruin a family for his momentary curiosity? It is better to move forward you will find someone with more than just good looks to offer someday. Good luck

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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    There are plenty of other guys out there Maturemenlover20, and this one sounds like he has a lot of baggage. not just being married and closeted - which is fine if everyone knows the the rules, but he also sounds inexperienced and flakey which will just mean hurt feelings for you further down the road.

    as Skills90 says, it sounds like he is testing the waters, seeing if he really wants sex with a man or is just happy with it as a fantasy. you know when you make pancakes, and the first one is usually a dud that you throw away or don't serve because the pan needs time to season and get into the swing of things? well you don't want to be that first pancake do you!

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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    I agree with everyone else here. Your story might as well have said "I met some guy who's completely unavailable. I'm into him but there's no way I'll ever be able to have him. Should I focus my energy and waste my time trying to get a man who I know I'll never actually be with, even though it'll damage my self esteem, keep me so focused on him that I don't notice or take advantage of other opportunities, and in the end result in me being heavily disappointed and heartbroken? I dunno, there's a really really really slim offshoot chance that I might get to see or even play with his cock once or twice in a situation so awkward they could make a sitcom episode about it. I dunno. Is it worth it?"

    Nope. Just.......no.

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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    Quote Originally Posted by spiderhead View Post
    I agree with everyone else here. Your story might as well have said "I met some guy who's completely unavailable. I'm into him but there's no way I'll ever be able to have him. Should I focus my energy and waste my time trying to get a man who I know I'll never actually be with, even though it'll damage my self esteem, keep me so focused on him that I don't notice or take advantage of other opportunities, and in the end result in me being heavily disappointed and heartbroken? I dunno, there's a really really really slim offshoot chance that I might get to see or even play with his cock once or twice in a situation so awkward they could make a sitcom episode about it. I dunno. Is it worth it?"

    Nope. Just.......no.
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    Re: I met a good looking man...

    He seems to be teasing you. You found him on a dating site but he appears to be totally ambivalent about meeting/not meeting, possibly wanting sex but then not knowing how he can make himself available, etc. Getting involved with a married guy or one with a boyfriend is precarious but usually the guy has decided he wants some action outside the relationship and he has a game plan in mind: looking for someone with their own place or else he's willing to pick up -- or split -- the cost of a motel room. Maybe he gets off on just being with a younger, gay guy so he can feel gay himself, now and then. Whatever his issues, I think he will frustrate you. Move on.

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