I few months ago i saw a very very good looking older man on a dating site. We chatted for a while. He was interested in me and i in him. So i asked to meet him. He told me we can do that but just a normal meet. No sex.
Maybe i should add that he is married with a woman and not looking for a relationship.
So when we met it was all good, he was very nice and very good looking . But i was a bit shy because i felt a bit uncomfortable going out with a man almost three times my age and talking about sex in public. We didnt talk very loud but it made me feel a bit unconfortable.
He told me he doesnt know when we could meet or even if we could meet. Not because he doesnt like me but because he doesnt know where and what he could tell his wife.
Later I asked him a couple of times if can meet but he always declined. The last time he told me its better if we never meet because he doesnt know how to do it.
I asked him to tell me directly if its because of me, if he thinks it just doesnt seem to fit. But he always told me it itsnt because of me.
I really want to meet him. What should i do? He sometimes wrote me "dirty" messages but i didnt really go into that dirty talk. Maybe he searches somebody who really is experienced in "men sex".
Should ill give it another try? How should i try to convince him to meet with me?