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    How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    I am always afraid of getting the wrong signals after I think I will be getting something they just need to pee or something I miss out on opportunities most likely. What is a good way to let them know that you are interested without being super overt!!! What does everyone think are the best techniques to picking up cute suited married silver haired daddies.... it seem impossible just about? I would appreciate any input to help a man in need here!
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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Oh ya..... and where do I go to find the best targets for some no strings attached sex

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Really illegal , though many guys with your tastes do find *cottaging* an answer . Though please be careful , remember , they are married /
    Plus if he was straight , then no luck , and imagine his anger .

    Good luck .

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    what do you mean it's illegal? no it's not! here in the states you can sleep with a married man, just not in public! because public indecency is illegal and that's it. Make sure they have eye contact with you and usually they will smile or give another hint. Way easy to pick up older men. and just ask them if they'd like to go to your house and fuck. If they don't accept then I doubt you'll ever see them again if you're living in a city.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhelixUtah View Post
    what do you mean it's illegal? no it's not! here in the states you can sleep with a married man, just not in public! because public indecency is illegal and that's it. Make sure they have eye contact with you and usually they will smile or give another hint. Way easy to pick up older men. and just ask them if they'd like to go to your house and fuck. If they don't accept then I doubt you'll ever see them again if you're living in a city.
    Cottaging is public sex at beats like public toilets. Perhaps not very dignified, but it was more popular as a sneaky rendezvous in pre-Internet days.
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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    I'm sure there are some bi married daddies here who will be happy to oblige you.

    BTW, OP, is your partner a bi married daddy?
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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Online websites like Silverdaddies. There are many chasers and admirers who find potential hook-ups there. Plus most large cities have at least one bar that caters to an older crowd... silver daddies, bears and the like. Your search will be more hit and miss in a more neutral, public setting, where you can easily misread body language or a polite smile if your gaydar fails you.

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Quote Originally Posted by PhelixUtah View Post
    what do you mean it's illegal? no it's not! here in the states you can sleep with a married man, just not in public! because public indecency is illegal and that's it. Make sure they have eye contact with you and usually they will smile or give another hint. Way easy to pick up older men. and just ask them if they'd like to go to your house and fuck. If they don't accept then I doubt you'll ever see them again if you're living in a city.
    I meant *Cottaging for sex* you idiot...............

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Quote Originally Posted by PhelixUtah View Post
    what do you mean it's illegal? no it's not! here in the states you can sleep with a married man, just not in public! because public indecency is illegal and that's it. Make sure they have eye contact with you and usually they will smile or give another hint. Way easy to pick up older men. and just ask them if they'd like to go to your house and fuck. If they don't accept then I doubt you'll ever see them again if you're living in a city.
    Cottaging is a slang term in the UK, it basically means meeting up in a bathroom/bathhouse (some in the UK look like cottages, hence the term) for anonymous sex. It's illegal in the UK, as I'm sure it is in other places. Medic1 didn't mean it was illegal to have sex with a married man, he meant that "cottaging" is illegal. Medic1 is from Scotland, remember not everyone here at JUB is (North)American. We have different slang words, and meanings. Cheers, PhelixUtah!

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    For washroom hook up I've found just leaving it out for a bit too long at the urinal will generally do the trick. If the guy looks over, stroke once or twice discreetly. If he leave his out and does the same there's your signal. If he zips up and leaves then you know he's not interested.

    If you're discreet about it, a straight guy not interested wouldn't really make much of it. Public sex is illegal and you could get busted. I've generally made eye contact after, started a conversation with them outside and gone from there. If they zip up and go wash just make casual eye contact and smile. If they're interested they'll usually linger outside of the washroom a bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WolfSC View Post
    Cottaging is a slang term in the UK, it basically means meeting up in a bathroom/bathhouse (some in the UK look like cottages, hence the term) for anonymous sex. It's illegal in the UK, as I'm sure it is in other places. Medic1 didn't mean it was illegal to have sex with a married man, he meant that "cottaging" is illegal. Medic1 is from Scotland, remember not everyone here at JUB is (North)American. We have different slang words, and meanings. Cheers, PhelixUtah!
    Is this where I get to say medic1 is "taking the mickey?" (Just learnt [UK/Can]//learned [US].)

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    @OP, offer to push their wheelchair.

    Seriously, I have found guys in elder bars are more interested in friends and scotch.

    I would check out weekday business hotel bars for the traveling exec.

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    Are many people sucking cocks in the toilet?
    I have never witnessed it before.


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    Are many people sucking cocks in the toilet?
    I have never witnessed it before.
    Yep...different libraries and college washrooms at my school, it happens. There's a website where you can hook up at such 'cruising' places.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Callum View Post
    Yep...different libraries and college washrooms at my school, it happens. There's a website where you can hook up at such 'cruising' places.
    But just imagine the smells ....


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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    Are many people sucking cocks in the toilet?
    I have never witnessed it before.
    Only because you have been on your knees , with your eyes closed............

    @Palbert , There you go mate...............

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    With me that is easy...just send me a message, say hi, whatever...

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Home Depot and Loews. Plenty of them there from 40something to death. I find being friendly and open to a conversation about..... oh... I don't know...... plumbing, does not hurt. That works for me and acting a bit dumb helps as well, but that's JUST me. Watch out for the ones that would NOT stop talking, guess their wives don't listen to them. They seem not to get the part. Best luck.

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    Home Depot/Lowes...as much as I'm in there...I never thought of that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by palbert View Post
    Is this where I get to say medic1 is "taking the mickey?" (Just learnt [UK/Can]//learned [US].)
    Sure...if you want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WolfSC View Post
    Home Depot/Lowes...as much as I'm in there...I never thought of that.
    [FONT=Georgia] Now you know. Not ALL of them are friendly and willing to "try" it with another guy, but some are more than happy to drop their pants and let you give it a go/blow. Lumber and Tools section, I find works most of the time, but that's me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by medic1 View Post
    I meant *Cottaging for sex* you idiot...............
    Cottaging is definitely not a word we use here in the USA LOLLLLLLLLLLLL So it made it sound like something completely different.

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    I love Businessmen and hotels what an awesome combo. I wish there was one that was really loaded with daddies.... hope that the staff doesn't catch on to what I am doing there.
    Excuse me you will have to leave our Hotel

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    Hmmm I will have to try that for sure

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    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    Are many people sucking cocks in the toilet?
    I have never witnessed it before.
    You're not meant to witness it, that's the point.

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    I'm having the same problem but at my job there's an older 59 year old guy at my job looks like he could be my dad even calls me "son" at times and there was one time when he was curious about my cock size and I told him and he told me his and he asked if I had pi s of it but I was too shy and ppl were around. Also he is separated lives alone and is about 10 mins walking distance away from me

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Quote Originally Posted by cosmicwolf13 View Post
    I'm having the same problem but at my job there's an older 59 year old guy at my job looks like he could be my dad even calls me "son" at times and there was one time when he was curious about my cock size and I told him and he told me his and he asked if I had pi s of it but I was too shy and ppl were around. Also he is separated lives alone and is about 10 mins walking distance away from me
    Hes interested.

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    U think so? I don't know how to advance the situation

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    Well, ask him if he want to grab some lunch with you or ask if he wants to grab a drink after work and take it from there.

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    Re: How is the best way to pick up straight/Bi old married daddies and know they are intersted?

    Quote Originally Posted by cosmicwolf13 View Post
    U think so? I don't know how to advance the situation
    A straight guy not interested in you wouldn't ask for your dick size but then also a picture of it.. Red Flag right there...

    Ask him out one night for dinner, or drinks or just grab a coffee with him or even just talk to him some more. Grow a friendship, then get some dick

    Or you could always just take a pic of your dick and say here's the pic you wanted lol

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