Ok so there's this guy I really like. But I don't know whether he's gay. Let me start from the beginning.
We're both college students and we live in the same dorm. I meet him last year but just had mutual friends, so we didn't talk much. This year I've made it a point to talk to him and stuff. He's kinda a shy guy until he warms up to you.
If he is gay, he is probably kinda closeted. I've been in group conversations with him if someone asks him if he thinks a woman or girl is attractive he will avoid the question. He knows that I'm gay for sure.
I've eaten with him a few times and I've gotten coffee with him but they were all spur of the moment things so I don't really consider them dates. Every time he sees me her makes it a point to talk to me even I don't see him. He's asked me to go eat with him a few times but like i said they were spur of the moment things.
Also one time after we finished eating he asked me to text him so we could hang out later on. Later on I was doing group work with some classmates so i was too busy to hang out. He was with his roommate and saw us. About thirty minutes later he comes in and sits next to me and pulls out his own homework. He was the even after all my classmates left and i think he finished his homework. He stayed till about 1am but then he had to go to bed.
we've also hung out in each others rooms by ourselves just talking.
Oh and another thing is the fact that he didn't mind me touching him. I've done small stuff like grab his shoulder or arm occasionally. he lets me play with his hair. I've even touched his upper thigh to demonstrate something and he didn't even blink.
What do you guys think? Is he gay from what you can tell?
I've made the mistake of thinking guys were gay when they weren't before.