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    Friend With Benefits

    How would you go about getting a Friend With Benefits?

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    ask one of your friends to fuck you..

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    Craigslist

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    They usually start with a case of beer and porn.
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    Never easy No good starting with one of your friends to find some 'benefits' you most likely to loose the friendship. So the other approuch is to start with a hook up hoping friendship will develope but this can be a frustrating route since most hook ups dont want repeats ! Best of luck with your searching, if you find one let us know

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    Re: Friend With Benefits

    You typically start with a new friend and base an initial connection on physical attraction while finding things in common with each other. You go out for dinner, drinks, seeing a movie, hiking, etc. then go back to someone's place and have hot sex. Repeat.

    It's not easy though. You'll go through a few guys before one finally sticks. One way to keep a FWB longer is to wait awhile before consummating the sexual tension. Build a foundation with each other for a couple of meet-ups before getting wild and naked.

    Its rarer to have a FWB with an older friendship you're well established with.
    Last edited by Just_Believe18; September 7th, 2013 at 02:04 AM.
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    Re: Friend With Benefits

    Thanks! You guys provide good answers.

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    A FWB is nothing more than a hook up you want to hang with again. There is no arcane mystery to acquiring one, it's just a matter of clicking with a person sexually and in terms of personality, but without the romantic element.
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    Re: Friend With Benefits

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    They usually start with a case of beer and porn.
    Ain't it the truth....

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    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    They usually start with a case of beer and porn.
    Or ends with, "I like you but I don't think we're going to work out as boyfriends.... but since we're both still single..."

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    Re: Friend With Benefits

    Quote Originally Posted by Rolyo85 View Post
    A FWB is nothing more than a hook up you want to hang with again. There is no arcane mystery to acquiring one, it's just a matter of clicking with a person sexually and in terms of personality, but without the romantic element.
    That would be my definition but easier said than done. My experiences mirror BiMike's.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BiMike View Post
    Never easy No good starting with one of your friends to find some 'benefits' you most likely to loose the friendship. So the other approuch is to start with a hook up hoping friendship will develope but this can be a frustrating route since most hook ups dont want repeats ! Best of luck with your searching, if you find one let us know
    Do it right and they'll always be back for more ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scribe25 View Post
    That would be my definition but easier said than done. My experiences mirror BiMike's.
    Never said it was easy. This type of balance is rare. I was just saying that there's no secret to it.
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    Have a big dick or a nice ass. If not, it will be more NSA and not FWB.

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    ^ What kind of advice is that, max?
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    Painfully cynical I'd say...
    That we are capable only of being what we are, remains our unforgivable sin.
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    i find them on the net. basically i just hook up until i find one whos personality i like and with whom i have great sexual chemistry. i set up a 2nd date, to which hell agree if he feels the same way... and were off to the races. oh yeah, some talk about monogamy is probably due sometime around the 2nd or 3rd date. good luck!
    Last edited by hylas; September 9th, 2013 at 06:25 AM.

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    had one, back in my single days.

    we met on a gay dating site, but I was pretty up-front about what I was looking for... I was coming out of a bad breakup and couldn't really handle the emotional stress of dating and jumping into a new relationship, but I was looking for a friend who I could hang out/do activities with, with the option of keeping each other warm on those cold and lonely nights.

    likewise, he had no desire to enter into a relationship with anyone because of outside factors in his life (he was an foreign student who was going back to China after graduation) but still wanted something more substantial than NSA sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hylas View Post
    i find them on the net. basically i just hook up until i find one whos personality i like and with whom i have great sexual chemistry. i set up a 2nd date, to which hell agree if he feels the same way... and were off to the races. oh yeah, some talk about monogamy is probably due sometime around the 2nd or 3rd date. good luck!
    Um, I don't really get the monogamy talk. The point of the whole fwb thing is that you aren't committed to each other. Otherwise it's just crippled dating.
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    well, i dont usually say "hey! we should be fuckbuddies!". i just say that i want to see him again. and after seeing a guy a couple of times, i think its good to verbalize how i see things, and ask how he sees them, and just generally clarify what exactly it is were doing.

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    get this.....the other day i went out with one of my friends and one of his friends. we all know each other but i haven't met his friend officially or done anything with him before.

    he starts mackin on me hardcore while my friend is away!!!!

    we talk a little about cars, his girlfriend, his lack of buddies being new to the area, talking about how hes a dancer (hes 10 yrs younger than me and seemed surprised at my age, im 29). and this guy is muy caliente- muscles, tattoos, amazing hair and eyes, has so much game, i can believe it because its like this guy dropped out of heaven.

    i usually dont play along cuz i have a hard time getting close to ppl but i thought why not.

    anyways im sitting and he standing a couple feet away, he turns and is working his ass and body now so intensely!! hes clothed btw, it was dark outside.

    standing there showing me his incredible body with his back turned and a leg lifted like he was ready right there....then he grabs his ass!! i was dying!
    he puts his hands under his butt and pulls his cheeks up teasing me with his stunning teen ass ...my jaw dropped..

    then he quickly pulls his asscheeks apart like to show me his hole! of course hes wearing ass tight jeans.....

    im thinking wow..this dude is sooo coooool!

    later we leave, when i get out of the car he says bye with a huge grin on his face saying my name

    we have talked a couple times since then, wishing i wasnt so shy but so happy to have met this guy lol!


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    I met my current one in a gym locker room and we took it from there. Although it started as a couple of hook ups we have now been seeing each other for three years.

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    Forget the FWB, go for the fuckbuddy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TX-Beau View Post
    Forget the FWB, go for the fuckbuddy.
    Those are the same thing.
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    No they aren't, a FWB is a guy you go to a concert with, who nailed your ass yesterday, then wants to get pizza tomorrow, when he might or might not nail your ass if he's not chasing some other ass.

    You don't see a fuckbuddy at all unless someone is getting their ass nailed.
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    Fair. I have had both, now that you mention the difference.
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    i too use the terms as synonyms. its a semantics discussion.

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