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    Need help with a friend

    I need some advice on what to do with a friend. I've been thinking a lot about hooking up with a friend of mine. I've had some experience with guys in the past and want to continue exploring. About a year ago I went to a party with my friend Sean, we got really drunk. As the night was ending we decided to go back to my place, since it would be a shorter cab ride. Once a my place we kept drinking and passed out on the couch. All of a sudden I felt a tickle on my arm. I woke up and realized Sean was passed out next to me and went back to sleep. At this point I was still drunk and half asleep. Next I felt something on my arm again so I didn't think much of it until I felt Sean grab my arm and putting my hand down him pants. I pulled my hand out but he grabbed it and pushed it down his pants again. To make a long story short he stuck his hand down my pants and we jerked each other off. I was surprised but ended up liking it. Since then we never talked about or mentioned it.

    Since that night I've been thinking about hooking up with him but don't know how to do it. We are both open-minded and outgoing but don't know how to initiate that conversation or how he would reacte. He has been my friend for two years and has been a friend that l can go to for help. So my issue is that I don't want to ruin that friendship.

    At this point should I bring up what happened the other night? Should I initiate going further? If so how? I have a million other questions but I'll leave it there for now. I thank everyone in advance for the help and can give more if needed. Thanks again!

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    Re: Need help with a friend

    How old are you and how good friends are you? Do you really know each other, as in you grew up together and are boyhood friends, or met in high school, college or some other social place. In other words, are you very close friends?

    If you aren't close, and this is just a buddy, more than a real friend, please clarify. Responses need to be based on knowledge of what you mean to each other. A boyhood friend is a seriously committed friendship, and not too many people want to lose that, even if they're squeamish about introducing a 'touchy' subject. (Pardon the pun)

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    Re: Need help with a friend

    Ask yourself what´s the worst that can happen: you go for it and ruin a friendship or don´t act on it and wonder ¨what if¨ for the rest of your life. You could go easy, ask him what would he think if a close friend would ask him on a date, for example. Or ask him about that night, because you have it on your mind and you´d like to clarify things and see where you two stand as friends or maybe more. you say he is a friend you can go to. Tell him that these thoughts won´t let you go and you are more than comfortable to be talking about it with him. And add some ass kissing too, not literally, tell him how much you appreciate this friendship and that you don´t want it to end, especially for just talking a bit.

    If you decide to do something, come back here and tell us the result!
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    Re: Need help with a friend

    We are both 25 years old. We've known each other for about two years. He's a close friend, we've both gotten comfortable in talking to each other about personal problems. Based on that I'm thinking that if I bring it up it might be ok but I don't want to make things awkward. When we are drunk together he does get a bit "touchy feely" with me. I'm not sure how to ease into hooking up with him. Do I ask him? Do I give subtle hints? If so how? I've tried to bring it up before about the events of our night together but he tends to shut down when he gets uncomfortable and thats the end of the conversation.

    His friendship is important to me and don't want to ruin it. At the same time I would like to take out friendship further. I'm not looking for a serious relationship just friends with benefits.

    We're going out bar hopping tonight with some friends we'll see how that goes. As a matter of fact a few of our friends have joked (I think there're joking) that we always look better when we're together. I've taken it as us being friends.

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    Re: Need help with a friend

    This happened only once and it was a year ago? It doesn't seem like either if you are pushing the envelope.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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