I'm going to mess around with a man soon that has never done anything with a guy. He's had plenty of women in his life (he's 50), but never a guy. He's been curious about it now and then, but it's rare...just the occasional guy that caught his attention and made him think about it.
We actually talk a lot, and when we met in person we have really good chemistry. He likes my body and he's very interested in a gay experience with me (and I want it too, he's a hot dad), but I'm curious how it will pan out. He reminds me that a lot of things sound really hot in fantasy, but he's not sure how he'll react in person, especially with kissing. Kissing seems something he's really unsure about.
On the other hand, he says that gay porn is now about 50% of his porn consumption. He's show me some of the clips he likes and even I have trouble watching them (when it comes to men I'm very particular. I can't watch young 20-somethings have sex, they have to be older). One he thought was really hot because it, including the kissing, was so passionate, and yet he's not sure himself about kissing someone.
Has anyone out there taken a bi-curious man's gay-V-card? Do they end up letting loose and loving it? Or do some just completely back away and say "I can't do this"?