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    What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    I'm going to mess around with a man soon that has never done anything with a guy. He's had plenty of women in his life (he's 50), but never a guy. He's been curious about it now and then, but it's rare...just the occasional guy that caught his attention and made him think about it.

    We actually talk a lot, and when we met in person we have really good chemistry. He likes my body and he's very interested in a gay experience with me (and I want it too, he's a hot dad), but I'm curious how it will pan out. He reminds me that a lot of things sound really hot in fantasy, but he's not sure how he'll react in person, especially with kissing. Kissing seems something he's really unsure about.

    On the other hand, he says that gay porn is now about 50% of his porn consumption. He's show me some of the clips he likes and even I have trouble watching them (when it comes to men I'm very particular. I can't watch young 20-somethings have sex, they have to be older). One he thought was really hot because it, including the kissing, was so passionate, and yet he's not sure himself about kissing someone.


    Has anyone out there taken a bi-curious man's gay-V-card? Do they end up letting loose and loving it? Or do some just completely back away and say "I can't do this"?

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Oh they definitely can do it depending on how much they're curious about it. It's the after part which can be "OMG why the hell have I done this ?!2 or "hell yeah let's do this again !"

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Just be prepared for the huge guilt trip .

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pickwick View Post
    Oh they definitely can do it depending on how much they're curious about it. It's the after part which can be "OMG why the hell have I done this ?!2 or "hell yeah let's do this again !"
    I sort of feel that first way with any m4m experience I have. The lust is there...then after I'm like...hmmmm

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    Quote Originally Posted by medic1 View Post
    Just be prepared for the huge guilt trip .
    What from?

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    ^^ sometimes the person will feel guilty for having sex with another man. The first time i had sex with a guy it hit me. It felt like i had done something wrong, this was'nt for me. It took me awhile but i got over it. And the person and i had a three month fling
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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Quote Originally Posted by 62624rd View Post
    ^^ sometimes the person will feel guilty for having sex with another man. The first time i had sex with a guy it hit me. It felt like i had done something wrong, this was'nt for me. It took me awhile but i got over it.
    I guess it's the same for everyone...

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Quote Originally Posted by 62624rd View Post
    ^^ sometimes the person will feel guilty for having sex with another man. The first time i had sex with a guy it hit me. It felt like i had done something wrong, this was'nt for me. It took me awhile but i got over it. And the person and i had a three month fling
    ^From this , you mention that he is a 50 year old and has never had any sexual conduct with a man before .
    You both may have a great time , though afterwards , once he is drained , he may start to feel ashamed . Don`t let this get too you.
    It can be very common , plus i believe that you made it plain that the choice was his ?
    Whatever you both decide to do , i wish you a great time.....

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Yes, I've asked multiple times if he's sure he wants to do it. He says "yes, definitely"

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    I haven't done anything yet ... lol, YET! I live a half-mile away from a casino, so I semi-frequent there. There's an older gentleman, 42 that is quite attractive and funny, but he smokes cigarettes AND chews tobacco (major turn off), but we playfully joke and flirt with one another. I've noticed that the past few times I went to the rest room to urinate, he always followed and peed next to me always calling attention to his penis. Lol ... I did compliment him last night saying, "yeah, it is a nice penis." He said I should see it hard and it tastes even better.

    He is married with children, so that's what stopped me from dropping to my knees then and there, lol ... not really, but maybe, ha ha, idk ... but he's got a killer bod, model feet, hairy legs, beautiful cut cock, and he is constantly touching, rubbing me.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    My experiences have been mixed - one decided during foreplay that he just couldn't deal with it (no harm, no foul, we shook hands and moved on); a couple have liked it enough to come back and play again a couple more times before drifting out of contact; one gave it a try, seemed to enjoy himself and was conflicted about wanting to do it again, but then went all Jesus freak on me and became very self-righteous/dismissive. It's really going to depend on the specific guy.
    Last edited by MatttheBruinsfan; August 24th, 2013 at 12:39 PM.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    I've had some wonderful experiences with guys who were willing to live in the moment and give in to their curiosity. A few are more reserved and vanilla; others really let go and want to try everything! Just don't get emotionally involved. He's not leaving his wife and kids but perhaps he may want another encounter in the near future. It is what it is.

    With any luck he won't be consumed with guilt the next day and let that rob him of the pleasure that remembering his hot first encounter with a guy will provide. As others have posted, the guilt thing is pretty common.

    Don't worry too much about things like kissing. A lot of gay guys don't kiss. Play it by ear. There appears to be mutual chemistry so that's a good start.

    I'm sure there will be preachy posts from some, calling you a homewrecker, a slut and other lovely epithets. The reality is there are always temptations that may lead us to stray. This guy didn't suddenly want to suck dick because he met you. If he didn't hook up with you he would be doing so with someone else. You're both adults and he needs to go into this with his eyes open.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Generally bi men more submissive i find, shame for me i like to be bottom but like to take control of their cock.
    Dont judge, everyone to their own.
    If they love cock and pussy good luck, no issues for me as long as they can keep hard and shoot lots of cum in my mouth and on face and let me clean their cock clean, mmmm
    Feeling thirsty now.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    If he lets me suck his cock that's fine, guys with live in girlfriends have even fucked me. I'd go to meet him, and he tells his girlfriend were going to play pool, but we end up at my place having sex. I just enjoy it while it lasts, and try not to expect more than sex, even though sometimes I feel so close him when were together. I'm in one of those now, it's been two months, and he's so sweet to me, I know what's coming but I can't resist. Good Luck, and hope you don't get hurt.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    I've had almost exclusively positive experiences. I recall some wonderful times with straight guys especially during our college years. I guess that college life lends itself to questioning and experimenting.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    In college I had a bi-curious roommate; he fucked me much more often than he fucked his girl. He said he liked that my ass was tighter than his girl's pussy and that he could fuck me harder (which I loved). He wouldn't kiss me at first, but I insisted and eventually he loved it. Kissing is a part of the deal; if you can't kiss me, then you can't fuck me. As an adult, I've fucked more than a few married or attached guys. They all have said the same thing as my college roommate. I've had more than a few get attached to me, and it was all good. All have been great experiences. Although one has to wonder, can you legitimately call yourself bi if you're fucking me more than your girl or wife?

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Quote Originally Posted by 62624rd View Post
    ^^ sometimes the person will feel guilty for having sex with another man. The first time i had sex with a guy it hit me. It felt like i had done something wrong, this was'nt for me. It took me awhile but i got over it. And the person and i had a three month fling
    For me, it was quite the opposite. After having sex with a few girls during high school, but always feeling an attraction to guys, I finally had the opportunity to experiment with a close male friend. It was amazing and felt so comfortable, so natural. I was much more excited wrapping my lips around his cock than I'd ever felt fucking a girl or exploring her body. He felt the same way about sex with me. Such an important wake-up call for us both. We played regularly through that last year of high school and into college until a job offer for him took him to Europe. Such a relief, in hindsight, to know that *I* didn't have those feelings of shame and guilt after our sessions.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_taboo View Post
    In college I had a bi-curious roommate; he fucked me much more often than he fucked his girl. He said he liked that my ass was tighter than his girl's pussy and that he could fuck me harder (which I loved). He wouldn't kiss me at first, but I insisted and eventually he loved it. Kissing is a part of the deal; if you can't kiss me, then you can't fuck me. As an adult, I've fucked more than a few married or attached guys. They all have said the same thing as my college roommate. I've had more than a few get attached to me, and it was all good. All have been great experiences. Although one has to wonder, can you legitimately call yourself bi if you're fucking me more than your girl or wife?
    Great post, sweet_taboo! Love the "no kissingmeans no fucking" policy. For me, the frustration of playing with "bi-curious" guys can be their chronic state of denial. There was a married guy I hooked up with a couple of times some years ago who always trolled the phone lines but in the "bi-curious" category. I bumped into him a few years after we'd last played and I asked him hadn't the statute of limitations run out on his "bi curious" status? "You love to suck cock and you're past curious. At the very least, shouldn't you drop the 'curious' part?" He laughed but I'm sure will go on calling himself "bi curious" forever. Somehow that must sound less committed, less guilty when he thinks about his wife and kids... which is the day AFTER he happily takes it up the ass.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    In my experiences it has been about satisfying the desire of being with a man. Don't expect kissing and get them buzzed and rim them well and you will pop their cherry and not hear from them for a few days until you get the drunk text where they show up and want it again..to me it is fucking hot. Many are dominant and in control in their jobs or home life and love to give that up in a safe environment.

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    Not too good! He wanted to fight me and beat me up after we fucked. He started calling me a faggot. I was almost scared for my life!!

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    Holy Prostate Exam Batman! That was AMAZING!!

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    Re: What has been your experience experimenting with bi-curious men?

    They can be fickle with what they really want, too many hang-ups, some don't even kiss! I don't know how they live their lives, I'm just glad I'm not in it!
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