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    Gay relationship but craving pussy

    I'm in the predicament of being gay in a gay relationship, but recently really craving sex with women.

    I've always been openly gay since I was 16 and very proud and open about being gay; my family were very accepting and never wanted me any other way. I've always considered myself gay and was always put off by the idea of sex with women. I always much preferred the feeling of another guy pressed up against my hairy body, and as a versatile guy, enjoyed how "gay" I felt being fucked as well as how masculine I felt fucking another man.

    Yet since being in a committed three year gay relationship, I've suddenly felt really curious about sex with women, which I never thought I would. I'm even checking out girls on the street, and secretly jacking off to straight porn behind my boyfriend's back. I now rarely watch gay porn, mostly bi and straight stuff now. I'm really turned on by the idea of convincing my boyfriend to shag a girl with me.

    Are there any other gay guys in this situation? Does it turn you on to think of your boyfriend with a woman?

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    Sorry, no. The last time I had pussy was the time pussy had me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    I'm in the predicament of being gay in a gay relationship, but recently really craving sex with women.

    I've always been openly gay since I was 16 and very proud and open about being gay; my family were very accepting and never wanted me any other way. I've always considered myself gay and was always put off by the idea of sex with women. I always much preferred the feeling of another guy pressed up against my hairy body, and as a versatile guy, enjoyed how "gay" I felt being fucked as well as how masculine I felt fucking another man.

    Yet since being in a committed three year gay relationship, I've suddenly felt really curious about sex with women, which I never thought I would. I'm even checking out girls on the street, and secretly jacking off to straight porn behind my boyfriend's back. I now rarely watch gay porn, mostly bi and straight stuff now. I'm really turned on by the idea of convincing my boyfriend to shag a girl with me.

    Are there any other gay guys in this situation? Does it turn you on to think of your boyfriend with a woman?
    I'm the opposite. Never had sex with a guy until I was in my 40s. I started going to the gym, my body was looking good, guys came on to me, one invited me to his apartment, we had hot sex and I fucked a man for the first time. I was bi-curious, now I'm just bi.

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    How many times have you started this thread? Go have sex with a woman already and report back.

    I mean do you actually want to do this or are you just turned on by talking about it?

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    Well, first of all, does your boyfriend know about any of this? If he does, would he be willing to try it with you? That's the only way it's going to happen, unless you're willing to cheat, which is up to you.

    Don't get me wrong, I have a bit of a fetish for this sort if thing, but I certainly wouldn't advise cheating. Again, that's up to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jdbadboy View Post
    How many times have you started this thread? Go have sex with a woman already and report back.

    I mean do you actually want to do this or are you just turned on by talking about it?
    I like both. I'm just in a difficult situation because I'm in a relationship, makes it harder to act out. It's easier to chat about it with other like-minded guys. I don't know why people not into this sort of thing comment on these forums and act like haters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HappyMac View Post
    Well, first of all, does your boyfriend know about any of this? If he does, would he be willing to try it with you? That's the only way it's going to happen, unless you're willing to cheat, which is up to you.

    Don't get me wrong, I have a bit of a fetish for this sort if thing, but I certainly wouldn't advise cheating. Again, that's up to you.
    No he doesn't know, that's why I find it easier to talk on here. Why do you have a fetish for this sort of thing?

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    So here's another take on it...

    I'm a typically straight guy who occasionally likes guys. I've noticed that I tend to think more about guys than girls when I'm in a sexually unfulfilling relationship with a woman.

    So, is there something you're not getting at home? Are you unhappy with the frequency or quality of the sex? Or, after 3 years, is it just not exciting any more?

    Honestly I wonder if part of the reason I like sucking dick so much is just to prove, in a very passive aggressive way, that it's not that hard to do it well. And I tend to seek it out when I'm not getting good head at home.

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    Nah that is nothing like what I'm talking about.

    There are gay forums to talk about that sort of stuff. I wanted to hear from gay guys who are feeling curious about women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    I like both. I'm just in a difficult situation because I'm in a relationship, makes it harder to act out. It's easier to chat about it with other like-minded guys. I don't know why people not into this sort of thing comment on these forums and act like haters. - - - Updated - - - No he doesn't know, that's why I find it easier to talk on here. Why do you have a fetish for this sort of thing?
    Well, I say fetish because the thought of a gay guy 'turning' straight or having sex with a woman for the first time really turns me on. I'm pretty curious about it myself, but I don't think id have the guts to actually try it.

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    I don't know any bi guys who went from dating and having sex exclusively with men to becoming curious about sex with women. Let us know if you go through with it and do end up having sex with a woman. I am doubtful it would be with your partner's approval. Different from identifying yourself as bi or bi-curious at the time you guys first met. I think for most male partners that revelation would be much more threatening now.

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    i'm in the same boat as hairycub, like, word for word. Hmu, pm me, if this stuff gets you off, too. Would love to chat to some guys about it..

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    You need to try it that's why your obsessed with it. If you love cock like me you won't enjoy it, but ass-fucking her isn't bad, depending on the girl.

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    Lots of gay guy who have contacted me about this say they have a bit of a fantasy about watching their boyfriend with a girl. Any other guys feel that way? What is it that turns you on?

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    HairyCub91: Wishing you the best on your pussy search. Gay/partnered here to a hot man for 24 years. We've recently discussed the idea of trying a m/f/m-bi 3way. I'm a big voyeur, so turn on would be to see my man play with a woman and another guy at same time/DP, eating pussy while he gets fucked by the man, etc. No shame in exploring your desires. Check craigslist, plenty of ads where a bi male & female couple seek out a man like you. Good luck and contact me for more discussions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    Lots of gay guy who have contacted me about this say they have a bit of a fantasy about watching their boyfriend with a girl. Any other guys feel that way? What is it that turns you on?
    omg yes i got this cute guy that likes me to become bi leaning towards girls. he says its cuz my voice is sexy and seductive wen i dirty talk him about him fucking pussy xD now he actually loves thinking about it, but he's still very much infatuated with me

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    omg yes i got this cute guy that likes me to become bi leaning towards girls. he says its cuz my voice is sexy and seductive wen i dirty talk him about him fucking pussy xD now he actually loves thinking about it, but he's still very much infatuated with me
    So you're saying that you turned a gay guy bi? Do tell!

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    That's hot. Are you bi?

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    let's not let this thread die...

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    My first kiss was with a girl, I was 12, I guess, but that time I already know that I was gay. Well, I never did sex with a girl, through sometimes I masturbate think about girls, but when I think about, it's not the woman body who is attractive to me, I never had an erection for a girl, but for the erotic situation.

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    HairyCub, glad you posted on here. That is one of the things I like about JUB. Great forums with interesting topics from people who like to share.

    Interesting thing you have going on over there. I'm a gay guy who has been out for ages, but has also had sex with women when I was younger. It was fine, but clearly not my main attraction. I'm single, but could easily see myself having a threeway with another guy and a girl as it would be sporting fun to play around with both body parts so to speak. I'm pretty open sexually, but not interested in having a relationship with a woman as my romantic orientation is towards men.

    So, I say to you that it might be a nice experience for you to explore this "side" of you if I can call it that. But, do talk to your BF about it at some point when you are comfy with this topic. And by all means run your thoughts by us as there are some bright and thoughtful individuals mixed into the JUB orbit. Some goofballs too, but you'll know which ones to ignore over time.

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    [QUOTE=Agoateeguy;9070008]HairyCub, glad you posted on here. That is one of the things I like about JUB. Great forums with interesting topics from people who like to share.

    I couldn't agree more! Lots of stuff posted on various JUB threads that I'm not particularly into but the cross-section of ideas always thought-provoking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Agoateeguy View Post
    HairyCub, glad you posted on here. That is one of the things I like about JUB. Great forums with interesting topics from people who like to share.

    Interesting thing you have going on over there. I'm a gay guy who has been out for ages, but has also had sex with women when I was younger. It was fine, but clearly not my main attraction. I'm single, but could easily see myself having a threeway with another guy and a girl as it would be sporting fun to play around with both body parts so to speak. I'm pretty open sexually, but not interested in having a relationship with a woman as my romantic orientation is towards men.
    That's really cool that you definitely identify as gay, but think you could be open to persuasion. I think this is probably much more prevalent amongst gay men than the community wants to admit. I think it should be embraced. If straight men can be bi-curious, why can't gay men? I know I want to be with my guy relationship-wise, but that's not to say I don't want to experiment too.

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    Damn, then just do it already.
    And take pics.. lol

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    I can see why some of you are hesitating to go through with it. Watching it on tv is different from actually doing it. Most gay men i know fucked, or ate pussy before. I was a child when i ate a pussy. But never did it as an adult. So all of you will have a different experience than i did. It'l be hard to do if you're not at all attracted to women in any kind of way.

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    I'm 26, relatively toned, slim and very hairy. I think I could maybe pick-up a girl if i was brave enough but I'm in a same-sex relationship and I'm really turned on by the idea of a girl joining us. Perhaps because a woman in bed with us would be such a massive outsider...

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    Have you spoken to your partner about it? Afraid it'll freak him out?

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    I really like that you have this fantasy, although I knew that it wasn't impossible to believe such a thing existed. Like you said, it's more than likely to be what most gay men think about at least ONCE in their lifetime and it should definitely be embraced. Like others have said, it's very important that you talk to your partner and discuss it with him first before you start acting on that fantasy. The matter of trust is really what you have to watch out for in this "predicament". If your partner is open and accepting, the thought of he and/or you with a woman might not be that disconcerting, but only if he can trust that you won't do it without his knowledge.

    I'd also like to know what type of women you're interested in, or is it just the "pussy" only that you're interested in? What is it about women, other than pussy, that you crave?

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    I believe it's just the pussy. Have no other interest in woman at all. No physical attraction to the female form at all. Thats how it sounds for many of you. I guess you could say the woman is a human fleshlight.

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    I believe it's just the pussy. Have no other interest in woman at all. No physical attraction to the female form at all. Thats how it sounds for many of you. I guess you could say the woman is a human fleshlight, like if you can fuck pussy without it being attached to her

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    Quote Originally Posted by ass eater View Post
    I believe it's just the pussy. Have no other interest in woman at all. No physical attraction to the female form at all. Thats how it sounds for many of you. I guess you could say the woman is a human fleshlight, like if you can fuck pussy without it being attached to her
    Pretty much same here. It's weird isn't it? I just want the sex with her. So long as she isn't fat or ugly I don't care all that much what she looks like so long as her pussy is tight and shaved. I don't want to date a woman and I don't even look at women in the street.

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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    HairyCub:
    I'm in a similar situation and have posted a few threads on this topic ("For the Gay Guys Who are Str8 Curious" http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...e-Str8-Curious). I have explored a bit (My thread "Finally tried Pussy" http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...ly-Tried-Pussy). You will get a lot of negativity from the gay guys on here, but ironically, you will also find a lot of guys just like us. There are A LOT of gay men who are Str8 curious. You can also follow me on Tumblr http://bilatinfever.tumblr.com/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hot4Latinos View Post
    HairyCub:
    I'm in a similar situation and have posted a few threads on this topic ("For the Gay Guys Who are Str8 Curious" http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...e-Str8-Curious). I have explored a bit (My thread "Finally tried Pussy" http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thre...ly-Tried-Pussy). You will get a lot of negativity from the gay guys on here, but ironically, you will also find a lot of guys just like us. There are A LOT of gay men who are Str8 curious. You can also follow me on Tumblr http://bilatinfever.tumblr.com/
    Did you used to identify as gay? When did you convert to women?

    For me it is more than just the pussy. I want to experience a woman. I want to lick her tits, lick her out, fuck her like a real man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    Did you used to identify as gay? When did you convert to women?

    For me it is more than just the pussy. I want to experience a woman. I want to lick her tits, lick her out, fuck her like a real man.
    So basically you want to turn straight and fuck girls and feel like what you consider to be a real man?

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    Real man? So what, men who fuck other men are not REAL men?! What are you on about?

    If you just wanna fuck a pussy for your curiosity, fine. But don't go all "macho" about fucking a vagina to feel like a "real" man, whatever that means!
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    Quote Originally Posted by gooblaka View Post
    So basically you want to turn straight and fuck girls and feel like what you consider to be a real man?
    Not straight, but I'd like to be a gay guy who enjoys what real men enjoy, fucking pussy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    Nah that is nothing like what I'm talking about.

    There are gay forums to talk about that sort of stuff. I wanted to hear from gay guys who are feeling curious about women.
    I think it is fine for you to FEEL the way that you FEEL. I think some gay men are a bit hypocritical in the sense, we want society to be accepting of male homosexuality. However, when a gay man SUGGESTS he might be sexually attracted to women all hell breaks loose.

    Your story reminds me of a television show in the UK called Coronation Street, a character named Marcus he's gay, BUT he dumps his boyfriend, gets involved romantically with a woman Maria, and she might be pregnant for him.

    Marcus gay friends are actually NOT SUPPORTIVE, they are very negative about him they don't believe him that he's sexually attracted to women.

    Sexuality isn't black or white, for some people it is a shade of grey.

    If you want to have sex with a woman GO FOR IT, you only live ONCE!

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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    Not straight, but I'd like to be a gay guy who enjoys what real men enjoy, fucking pussy.
    Again, you seem to think gay men are not REAL men, which is completely ignorant.

    I mean I get your fantasy and I think it's hot, but if the reason behind that is "being gay" isn't "manly" enough for you, then there is something a lot deeper than just a sexual fantasy we're talking about.

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    I just really want to be fucked up the ass by my boyfriend while I fuck a hot girl. I don't really want to debate whether that is right or wrong, I just want to know if other guys find similar things hot, and if they've ever been in a similar situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MorrisseyX View Post

    Your story reminds me of a television show in the UK called Coronation Street, a character named Marcus he's gay, BUT he dumps his boyfriend, gets involved romantically with a woman Maria, and she might be pregnant for him.
    Thanks I agree, I wish there were more stories like this in the media.

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    Does anyone know any real life or erotic stories about this stuff?

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    Does anyone know any real life or erotic stories about this stuff?

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    "I just really want to be fucked up the ass by my boyfriend while I fuck a hot girl"

    Interesting but I prefer fuck a hot male while he fucks a hot girl
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    Quote Originally Posted by HairyCub91 View Post
    I just really want to be fucked up the ass by my boyfriend while I fuck a hot girl. I don't really want to debate whether that is right or wrong, I just want to know if other guys find similar things hot, and if they've ever been in a similar situation.
    I was actually in that exact situation about a month ago, bottoming for my boyfriend while fucking a girl. My boyfriend and I were actually seeing a woman on the weekends to fool around, anyway, that ended recently, it was fun for a while. He used to identify as gay, and much like you he was much too curious about women, since hew knew I am bi, we decided to try threesomes, we both consider ourselves bi now.

    I think what you're saying is controversial because you identify as gay as opposed to bi, the weird thing is that guys here identify as straight all the time, but still fool around with guys. I prefer to just let guys label themselves however they want, but most of the site is not like that, there is an old thread by Hot4Latinos where he was basically pressured to label himself bi, instead of gay. I suppose there is a point were people have to admit it is a real interest, not just a curiosity though. If you're interested in both men and women, then you would be technically bisexual though.

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    You're not gay then. You're confused. Always have.

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    AND PLEASE stop labeling yourself as "gay". You're just confused as all these other bi guys are. So, label yourself as "bi". You're just a shame to the REAL gay community. You're not one of us and I hope your "partner" finds out about this eventually. KARMA.
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    Re: Gay relationship but craving pussy

    I'd say that's quite normal. I imagine you are familiar with the Kinsey scale, so maybe you could be a 4 or a 5.

    But in the end it does not really matter

    If you were single, the best thing you could do was to try it out.
    Since you're in a relationship things are not so simple and it really depends on our partner's personality, for which you are the best judge.
    So if you think you could talk to your partner (frankly I personally think you should be able to, but I have no intent to judge) please do, and who knows, he might just be able to try it out as well, or to let you try it

    And don't worry to much about it

    This sort of thing is probably more normal than you believe, I myself have been in a somewhat similar position:
    Since very little only felt attracted to guys (ok very very rarely to girls, but I definetely saw myself as gay)
    and then I found myself sexually attracted to a particular girl, and later to some others.
    My conclusion was that I am mostly gay, in the sense that I think that I can only sustain a long-term relationship with a guy
    even though i casually feel attractd to women
    Yours might be different

    Does that make me bi or gay? I stopped caring since it was driving me crazy, and as you can see I have currently no label,
    though I usually present myself as gay, since in the end I'd rather look for guys.

    As you may have noticed i highlightes all "dont worry, dont care, doesnt matter" phrases, but it was just because i felt that I worried too much and that was quite unhealthy.
    By saying this, let me add - but don't ignore it - talk to your bf, but not in a "i've been mind.cheating on you with straight porn" but rather that "i've been curious about sex with a woman"
    You are in your full right to be curious, and it makes you in no way less devoted to your bf

    Ps. and gay men are just as real men as straight men....

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    Quote Originally Posted by BottmBoy View Post
    AND PLEASE stop labeling yourself as "gay". You're just confused as all these other bi guys are. So, label yourself as "bi". You're just a shame to the REAL gay community. You're not one of us and I hope your "partner" finds out about this eventually. KARMA.
    If you are trolling please note that some users might take you very seriously, and, depending on how sensitive they are, might be emotionally very affect by your post.

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    Not trolling. It's a fact. Don't label yourself as "gay" and then talk about how your interested in the opposite sex, there's a thing called BI, use it. He's obviously confused and us REAL gay boys do take that Seriously as well. We've fought hard for equal rights and to be seen as interested in the oppistie sex at the end of the day IS a shame, don't do that. Know who you REALLY are before you start labeling yourself. Which in this case, he doesn't. You're not representing us. You're confused just like all these other bi guys are.
    Last edited by BottmBoy; September 9th, 2013 at 01:00 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BottmBoy View Post
    Not trolling. It's a fact. Don't label yourself as "gay" and then talk about how your interested in the opposite sex, there's a thing called BI, use it. He's obviously confused and us REAL gay boys do take that Seriously as well. We've fought hard for equal rights and to be seen as interested in the oppistie sex at the end of the day IS a shame, don't do that. Know who you REALLY are before you start labeling yourself. Which in this case, he doesn't. You're not representing us. You're confused just like all these other bi guys are.
    Quote Originally Posted by BottmBoy View Post
    Not trolling. It's a fact. Don't label yourself as "gay" and then talk about how your interested in the opposite sex, there's a thing called BI, use it. He's obviously confused and us REAL gay boys do take that Seriously as well. We've fought hard for equal rights and to be seen as interested in the oppistie sex at the end of the day IS a shame, don't do that. Know who you REALLY are before you start labeling yourself. Which in this case, he doesn't. You're not representing us. You're confused just like all these other bi guys are.
    Well, if you fought against bigotry and you don't realize that you're being bigoted yourself, than I'm sorry, but I would feel sad for you if you weren't so dangerous.

    You should stop being so judgemental based on a guy's post. He said that insofar he had only been attracted to guys, so its perfectly normal that he would consider himself to be gay. The guy is here, confused about his feelings, asking for our opinion, and you reply to him with such aggressiveness as if he didn't have to right to be confused and still label himself as gay.
    Stop being an egocentrical maniac and realized that he doesn't have to label himself for You, and your notion of gayness. The guy is not trying to redefine "gay", he is just asking a question for god's sake!

    The fight that you claim you've fought for is not solely for the enlightened ones, is for everyone to which sexual orientation is not what is considered to be standard and is discriminated against for it. He is clearly a part of that. And you're coming off as vile by excluding him so fiercely.

    He does not have an obligation to represent you, you should stop being so short-sighted as to only see your own interest. Ultimately, if we only fought for the ones that represent exactly who we are we'd be fighting alone, and it would be impossible to win.

    Also, I can't understand why would you assume that all bi guys are confused. That logic is in all similar to the bigots who believe that gays are that way because of daddy issues. All your logic seems to be analogous to the people against you've said you fought.

    He did nothing wrong to his partner, so again you're being mean by wishing him the worse.

    Personally I believe (or hope) that most of the LGBT would hate be represented by guys like you, and the sad thing is, your discourse is so short-sighted that I doubt that you will be capable of understanding my arguments.

    What you did there was a pure hate speech, and it saddens me deeply.

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    I really don't know why gay guys come on these threads looking to argue with people. If it doesn't turn you on, don't come looking for it, simple. I don't want to hear from preachy gays trying to tell me what my sexuality is or isn't. I just want to hear from people interested in discussing the substance of the thread. I am gay, that's that.

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    I learned long ago to only speak for myself. I'm gay but i don't identify with the gay community. In my teens and twenties, i thought the gay community was the clubs, and gay parades. I get critized for not knowing gay speak, or code language. I had pussy once but i never told any of my gay friends. And i'm not sexually attracted to women at all. So i guess you can crave pussy, and not crave the woman.

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