im a closet bi and he happens to be one of my really good friends and also my room mate. this is going to sound strange at first, but here goes:
my friend admits that he does strange things while hes on ambien, and of course, ive witnessed them, given that hes my room mate. while he was on ambien last night, we hung out. i thought it was strange that he would stare at my lips for a long periods of time while we were conversing, but i shrugged the thought since hes on ambien. later on, i took an ambien that he gave me and we both started having some beers and having deep conversations in his room. at the end of the convo, we gave each other bro hugs and told each other "i love you man, no homo". during the bro hug, he gave me a peck on the cheek. i didnt say anything about it and pretended it didnt happen. later on, he was showing me something on his cell phone, then i realized he was getting really close to my face and it seemed like he was getting ready to kiss me. i backed off, and i told him "what are you doing? are you trying to kiss me?". he then told me "i wanna kiss you". i was shocked. to make sure i wasnt hearing things, i asked him again what he wanted to do, and he said the same thing. right before we hooked up, i asked him twice if he was bi, and he said yes each time. then i asked him twice if "this is not going to affect our friendship, is it?" and he replied both times "no its not".
im still a little bit at shock, i mean, he hooks up with chicks from time to time and hes had girlfriends in the past. quite frankly, i really dont think hes bi, prolly bi-curious the most (even though he did ask me to penetrate him, which i didnt). i can leave this fling behind and not let it strain our friendship, but im not too sure if he thinks/or feels the same way i do, let alone if he remembers what happened last night. i havent gotten a chance to see him today since he works long shifts throughout most of the week. now, is it best that i dont say anything unless he brings up the topic?