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    Can you be gay and not know it?

    Can you be gay and not know it?

    This pretty much says it all?

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    I figured it out once I realized I had someone else's dick in my mouth.
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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Definitely. I actually was for a few years.

    You know how when a hot guy goes by, and you just have to look? Yeah - that doesn't happen to me. Not ever. I'm simply not "visually attuned". People usually say I'm "oblivious", and I guess that's as good a term as any. I CAN look at guys, and I CAN take them in sexually, and I CAN get turned on by it. But it's a very conscious, very deliberate decision. Unless I choose to do so, it simply doesn't happen. So I went through my teen years not getting gobsmacked by anybody, waiting for the girl that would finally really float my boat. And it never happened. I finally said "Well, maybe I'm gay. Maybe I should go actively look at guys now." So I did...and holy shit. By that point, I was twenty years old, I think.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Absolutely, especially if you're taught from an early age that having any desires or thoughts of your own is unacceptable.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

    --Jonathan Rauch, Salon Magazine, March 13, 2000

    *the number is now forty

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Only if you are bisexual.

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    Maybe, I've always known though.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I figured it out once I realized I had someone else's dick in my mouth.
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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post
    Absolutely, especially if you're taught from an early age that having any desires or thoughts of your own is unacceptable.
    Yes, a person can be in denial based on what Kuli stated here. Their denial doesn't change the fact that they are guy.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    I think in order to answer this you would have to ask Marcus Bachmann who is gay but it isn't quite clear whether he know sit or not (my guess is that yes...he does...but it would be interesting hearing his POV on the subject)

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    I knew I was gay when I was 12; had relations with my brother-in-law's nephew until I was 18 and he was 20. It was then we both decided we really weren't "gay" but it was just convenient. If I am honest, I knew I was still attracted to guys. I would go to the beach and look at men's legs as they strolled by; the women and their breasts did not interest me. I still remember my now ex wife interrogating me after spending the day at the beach with the kids about all the women and breasts. I could be honest and say I really didn't look (although I would have easily wrapped myself around their boyfriend's lower torso I saw passing while laying on the sand!)

    My upbringing, career, and others' expectations all said I could not or was not gay. I tried to convince and pray myself straight. It finally reached a point that I was going to commit suicide or hoped to otherwise die because I was totally miserable. It was only by being honest with myself (and my God) that I was freed.

    I suppose I could have been gay and did not know it because of social pressure and family demands but deep down, I think I knew but was not willing to accept.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    You know, you will always have known long after you admit it. It's just that outside influences and society makes many believe their true feelings are in the wrong and suppressed them only to realize how wrong the others were.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    One can experience emotions without knowing what those emotions are or what's causing them. Personally, I find distinguishing between the different types of "attraction" difficult. "I want to hug that guy, but would that be enough? He can keep his pants on though. For now at any rate,". And it gets more confusing when people start talking about "bromances". If you don't have experience with your own sex, it's easier still to dismiss any signs.

    And then you read that there are lesbians who watch man on man porn too.
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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Quote Originally Posted by mbamike View Post
    Yes, a person can be in denial based on what Kuli stated here. Their denial doesn't change the fact that they are guy.
    It's an interesting thing, though, because it looks like denial from the outside, but the person is so brainwashed he doesn't agree because he doesn't even see anything to deny.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

    --Jonathan Rauch, Salon Magazine, March 13, 2000

    *the number is now forty

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Quote Originally Posted by thewiz View Post
    My upbringing, career, and others' expectations all said I could not or was not gay. I tried to convince and pray myself straight. It finally reached a point that I was going to commit suicide or hoped to otherwise die because I was totally miserable. It was only by being honest with myself (and my God) that I was freed.
    Same story here but change "gay" to "sexual". I was absolutely certain that I was just appreciating the beauty of the human body, and those urges that came along were Satan trying to corrupt my appreciation of beauty.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

    --Jonathan Rauch, Salon Magazine, March 13, 2000

    *the number is now forty

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Devois View Post
    One can experience emotions without knowing what those emotions are or what's causing them.
    Definitely!

    I cried like a baby at the news about Matthew Shepard, but could not for the life of me understand why.

    "Thirty-one* states allow all qualified citizens to carry concealed weapons. In those states, homosexuals should embark on organized efforts to become comfortable with guns, learn to use them safely and carry them. They should set up Pink Pistols task forces, sponsor shooting courses and help homosexuals get licensed to carry. And they should do it in a way that gets as much publicity as possible. "

    --Jonathan Rauch, Salon Magazine, March 13, 2000

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    I guess you can. I don't see how that's possible.
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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    I suppose that can happen. If someone grows up in a sexually repressed society, they'll feel a sexual attraction to others of the same gender once they hit puberty, and think that's just how it is. You go out with women because you're supposed to, and not because you want to. Couple that with the fact that you were always taught that anything sexual is dirty and wrong.

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    Well I remember being attracted to guys when I was in elementary school. But I didn't even think much of it since I didn't even know what being gay meant until I reached middle school. I didn't even know the word. And I had "crushes" on girls too.

    So I guess back then, I didn't know.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    Yes, you can be gay and not know it, especially in the past. If you are innocent and naive you can have feelings that you don't identify that way. Later you can be in denial to yourself as well as to others. In todays' society it is harder not to realize gay feelings because they are so openly discussed, but in the past that topic wasn't so open and people weren't as knowledgeable about it.

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    Re: Can you be gay and not know it?

    I think it's very possible especially at young ages or if you're raised to be extremely 'heterosexual' in mind.
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