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    Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Just wondering

    Sometimes I almost get the "urge" to tell a straight guy how hot he looks.
    Not (well yes, but not really) because I want seks with him, but just genuinly because
    - he is very esthetically pleasing to me, so therefore, why not pay him a compliment?
    - telling him might do him (and his self confidence) some good

    Now, I peronnaly have never done it.
    Probably, because I fear they might think that "I want more", which is a shame really

    Then, otoh, most straight men don't flat out tell beautiful women on the street they look hot either, do they?

    So discuss, do you do this, if not, why not, if you do, did you get some notable reactions?

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Yeah, commenting on a shirt or a pair of shoes is something I would dare to do.
    It's just that, cycling through my home town these days, I sometimes wanna get off my bike and tell a guy: "do you have any idea how hot you look? Well, you do! Congrats on that, and have a great day"

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    I say something along the lines of "Damn man, look at you! You're definitley getting laid tonight for sure!"

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    I don't dare to compliment a straight guy on his bulge.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    There is a big difference between telling a guy he looks good and telling him he is hot. The latter implies something sexual. A straight guy is likely to not appreciate it.
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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Friends I do. Strangers I rately do, just because I'm not really one to compliment strangers.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I tell straight guys they look good all the time. I may go months sometimes without working with them and if something has changed, hair, scruff etc. I'll tell them they look good. Mind you, they all know I am as gay as picnic basket, was partnered for over 33 yrs. and it's nothing sexual. It's funny though. If it's 3 straight guys and me, they act differently around me alone as opposed to when another straight guy is present, but not in a bad way. I think they feel more relaxed around me believe it or not.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    My straight friends always do it with me half-jokingly.
    Something along the lines of "hey, what up sexy." or "here comes that damn hotttie"

    I usually do something similar.

    I'm fortunate to have a couple close buddies who are completely ok with blatant honesty and I will tell them their ass looks good or they have a nice bulge going on, they take it as an ego boost. When he's in the mood, one of those dudes will feel the need to whip it out and show it off. No complaints here.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Did it once, appreciated it.

    I wouldn't really approach them though, just that one streak of courage was enough!
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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Why not? Of course. As someone already posted, there's a big difference between telling someone they look good and they look hot. I certainly feel comfortable enough to tell certain straight friends that they're looking hot or that the jeans they're wearing make their ass look great, or whatever. These people are comfortale in their own sexuality, comfortable around me, their close gay friend, and no one feels the remark is inappropriate. Typically my compliment would be a more general one, made to friends and acquaintances.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I dared but more dare with few beers

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    I compliment anyone, straight or gay, guy or girl, if I am friends with them or know them well enough where I know such a comment wouldn't be taken the wrong way. Most of the time they are just platonic, harmless compliments anyway, and are nothing sexual in nature.

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    All the time. My friends are cool with it.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Always. As they do with me. Usually it's about being buffed.

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    If you complement a straight guy here on the subway, you are inviting yourself for trouble. I think a gay guy can get away complementing women as it's less threatening to them than if a straight guy would.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Not at all. Even though I'd think it, it would be suicide to say anything like that to some straight guys where I live

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Quote Originally Posted by SaskGuy View Post
    Not at all. Even though I'd think it, it would be suicide to say anything like that to some straight guys where I live
    same here

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Nope never have in the past, and not something I'd dare to do now. (not in my nature to compliment someone even if they were a total hottie, it'd make me feel very uncomfortable...plus where I live you wouldn't want to risk saying like that to straight guys )

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Actually even if the guy wasboth gay and a friend I still couldn't do it because of the 'feel very uncomfortable' mentioned above...

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    I rarely compliment anyone on their looks one way or the other. I do, however, have straight guys I know ask me how they look sometimes.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I like giving out compliments to people. I live in a dorm so I know a lot of people that I see regularly. I always tell someone that I like their shirt, or their hair looks good, or they smell nice. I think I'm gonna start doing it more though. I think it brightens up peoples day when they hear something like that out of the blue. I know I do.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I wish more people complimented,

    One day I was walking somewhere on campus. When I'm walking alone I usually have headphones in, and I also happen to be a whistler. So one day I'm walking and maybe 15 ft in front of me there is a chick walking in the same direction, and farther off there is this guy walking towards us. I see him smirk and was looking in our direction but I figured he knew the chick and was gonna talk to her.

    The guy gets closer and the chick turns around to see who he's looking at, apparently the guy doesn't know the chick and the guy is looking at me. He walks past the girl, and comes right up to me.

    I take my headphones out so I can hear what he has to say. All he says is "I like that song" still smirking and walks off.

    I kinda took that as a compliment on my whistling, but that was just completely random. I wish I had more days where stuff like that happens.


    So I say just compliment people as long as you aren't creepy about it they'll enjoy it.

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    Since I am still somewhat closeted in public situations (i.e. work), the answer is "no."


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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Thanks for the input guys, it's great to hear.

    I generally don't compliment people either, do that's also why I wouldn't be inclined to do it to a straight guy.
    But also because (and quite a few of you seem to share this thought) I don't want them to think "he's' trying to get into my pants".

    Someone mentioned it's gross how gay men act as if straight men are the ultimate prize. Agreed, but that doesn't mean we can only find gay men attractive, does it? So we are only allowed to compliment gay guys?

    I just feel like it's kinda sad we don't dare to do it, because we have to fear for their response. That way we keep alive the "uneasy vibe", right? Of course, you don't do it at the gym whilst showering
    Especially since I would just like to compliment some guys who arn't necessarily "hot" in a conventional way (agreed, they already know). Just some nerdy guy or something, with like really nice legs, or ...


    If a girl (even if she thought I was straight) complimented me on my looks, I would still appreciate it, so maybe straight guys would too.


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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I don't compliment strangers but I will compliment another guy I know even if he's straight and not interested (*sigh*).

    I once told a guy I've know for a good time he was totally my type, looks-wise and everything, (I was drunk!) but he just thanked me and the conversation moved elsewhere.

    Meanwhile, back in the real world...

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    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    I don't dare to compliment a straight guy on his bulge.



    Really??? You've never struck me as the shy type.............

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    Compliment him in front of his girlfriend to see if she moves closer to him. If she doesn't then announce that fact and ask him to switch hit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    I don't dare to compliment a straight guy on his bulge.
    You should be okay if you are about a 100 feet away with a running start.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Compliment him in front of his girlfriend to see if she moves closer to him. If she doesn't then announce that fact and ask him to switch hit.
    Once at a party I chatted with a cute guy while his girlfriend gave me the evil "go away"-stare.

    Bitch forgot I introduced them a month earlier.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Well this "straight" guy kept flexing his muscles and whatnot while I chatted him at a party. I told him they were nice and he seemed to love the attention.

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    I only do it to my friends and I don't say they're hot, I'll say you look nice.

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    I do at work because it is part of my job (Medium-High end Retail).

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Sometimes when I'm on the mood, because I often praise a weird, usually unnoticed aspect of a person which some will find weird if not bewildering.

    That said, I often mention some men who I think are easy on my eyes and my straight guy friends will deliver that confused look, that straight men do not usually praise another man aside from 'not gay-looking'.

    Yeah, I'm not out to all of them.

    Although I once had an argument with my straight best friend about two male lecturers and who is more handsome or hotter.
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    Depends on the guy. Not usually strangers, but I have done that before as well
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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    No!

    Believe me, if a man is Attractive /Hot /Cute or whatever, HE KNOWS IT! Straight men especially know their position in the beauty hierarchy because they've been lusted over by both men and women since their teenage years. Those experiences has caused some attractive straight men to become homophobic. And I don't mean homophobic in the traditional sense of being 'hateful and bigoted'. I just mean a general uneasiness and nervousness around gay men for fear that he may be the object of their gay desire. Think about it; some of the most unattractive , fat, disgusting looking straight men believe that ALL gay men want them sexually.

    Now Imagine how a slightly insecure yet absolutely beautiful straight man may feel...

    Don't compliment straight Men! They are incapable of believing anything other than it's just another 'fag' trying to get them in bed.
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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I make a point of complimenting guy's on their shirts/outfits whenever I think it looks really good.

    I complimented a guy on his shirt today at the vegetable shop. I noticed him walking past me once or twice and noticed his shirt (and to be honest he was also a hottie) was looking really good. So I went up to him and said "Nice shirt Mister", he looked at me, smiling in a cute sort of way and said "you dig it", I said "yeah, really good". I think I made his day.

    When I was younger i did not have the courage to go and compliment a person on their outfits etc, but now I treat it as doing a good deed for someone, making them smile and feel happy that someone actually noticed the effort they had put into how they dressed that day. I always get a smile, more often a broad grin.. They mostly say something like "do you really think so?", and I say "yeah you look great!"

    I have never had a bad experience yet and I do it real often.

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    No!

    Believe me, if a man is Attractive /Hot /Cute or whatever, HE KNOWS IT! Straight men especially know their position in the beauty hierarchy because they've been lusted over by both men and women since their teenage years. Those experiences has caused some attractive straight men to become homophobic. And I don't mean homophobic in the traditional sense of being 'hateful and bigoted'. I just mean a general uneasiness and nervousness around gay men for fear that he may be the object of their gay desire. Think about it; some of the most unattractive , fat, disgusting looking straight men believe that ALL gay men want them sexually.

    Now Imagine how a slightly insecure yet absolutely beautiful straight man may feel...

    Don't compliment straight Men! They are incapable of believing anything other than it's just another 'fag' trying to get them in bed.
    Do you know from experience, or are you just scared of and prejudiced towards straight men?
    This is an hounest question...
    Of course, I agree that it would a bad idea to go to a guy and tell him 'mmmm your bulge makes me want to do dirty things! Congrats on that!', but just a general compliment?
    If we don't dare to do that I feel like we act as inferiors or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    I don't dare to compliment a straight guy on his bulge.
    True. No more than a little pat at most.
    Blah blah blah, something enigmatic sounding...

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    Quote Originally Posted by wikke1 View Post
    Do you know from experience, or are you just scared of and prejudiced towards straight men?
    This is an hounest question.
    No, I'm not "prejudiced" towards straight men. In fact, I'm more comfortable around straight men than I am around the homos. I just know from being around them everyday and hearing what they talk about on the regular. Because I am fairly masculine, I can blend in with these homophobes and see what their true nature reveals. What's shocking is, lots of young straight men are still very afraid of gay men in 2013. They see us as sexual deviants who will suck a nasty dick no matter who it's attached to. I work among lots of straights, and when I was in college, I shared classes with lots of jocks. So I know all about their insecurities surrounding gay men. They think we ALL want them, even if females ignores them, they still believe the gays find their lame asses appealing. (no matter how ugly or fat they appear).

    (unfortunately, some of the gays are guilty of chasing after every str8 man, so I can almost see where the fear comes from, but it's still ridiculous).

    If you ask ANY female (no matter how fat or ugly she may be), she will still believe a Man wants her nasty pussy no matter what. If a man speaks to a woman in public, or compliment her, she instantly views it as a "come on". Meaning you want to fuck her!

    How are straight men any different when it comes to gays trying to speak to them in public?
    Thus complimenting a straight man is a bad idea particularly if he knows YOU are gay.
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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    Reading this thread almost 2 years later, I'm still intrigued by (some of) the answers.

    I still don't compliment straight guys, although I eg tell my brother in law he looks nik-ce when he has a new shirt on and got his hair cut or something

    I'll just keep complimenting men in my head then

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    I rarely compliment anyone on their looks as apparently one comes across as a dirty old man trying to pick someone up. This is very EWWWWW I'm given to understand, so I keep my opinions regarding how attractive someone may be to myself.

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    It all comes down to context and intent.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I have told a few of them, who are still good friends of mine. One of them said he was flattered but that it was a little weird. He is a really nice guy though.

    and Kane, you are describing a certain type of guy. A lot of straight guys do react and think the way you're describing but not all of them.

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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I've had good experiences and bad experiences with complimenting straight guys. When it's good, they will usually say "thank you" and we'll get to talking about whatever we wish to talk about. When it's bad, I'll either get blocked or called slurs and cursed at, or both.

    This one, for example, was unnecessary and accusatory, when I never even talked to this guy more than once or twice before and was just a simple compliment. The boy is young and stupid, and very arrogant, rude and vain too, from what I've seen him post on a social site both of us use. Claims to be a professional model. You'd think he'd know that both sexes are going to grovel over him and think he's hot stuff, yet is very insecure to that fact.


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    Re: Do you dare to compliment a straight guy on his looks?

    I compliment my straight male friends on their looks, and they compliment me. Generally the compliments are on the order of "looking buff", or "I like the scruff". They'll also mention to me how good they think my partner looks.

    I compliment both men and women, sometimes not actually because they look great, but because I can see they've put thought and effort into trying to look as good as possible and I want them at least to feel great.

    Sometimes I really like what a person is wearing, for example a great-looking suit, and will say, "Great-looking suit, you look really good in it," even though I've admiring the suit more than anything else.

    Yesterday morning I was feeling hung-over and thought I looked like hell--I had been out late the night before at a charity banquet where I had had too much to drink--and the woman who made my espresso at a café I stopped at on my way to a meeting served it to me saying, "Here it is, handsome." I smiled in disbelief and responded, "Thanks, that's very generous of you", and she replied, "But you really are," which--whether it was true or not--made my day.
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