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    Kissing: the last frontier

    Because I love to kiss, I used to assume all gay guys did. Big mistake! After freaking out a few hook ups and dates over the years I learned to ask. Guys who happily stuck their tongue up anybody's butthole -- no questions asked, no shower required -- recoiled at the thought of making out. What's up with that? Intimacy issues? I know couples in open relationships who fuck other people like rabbits but don't kiss anyone but their partners. Other guys I know, partnered or not, simply love to kiss and would never agree to give it up. So how do you feel about kissing? And if you're in an open relationship, any rules about it?

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    No kissing = deal breaker.

    Gotz to have that.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Maybe it's halitosis paranoia?

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Yeah, I'm sometimes amazed by how seriously people take kissing too.
    For all sad words of tongue and pen,
    The saddest are these, 'It might have been.'


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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Well I used to assume all gay guys were by definition versatile. I also assumed that if a guy made them horny, then friendship and horniness would be better than just horniness, and relationship and horniness would be better still.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I've never kissed anyone, but by thought alone I believe I'd like it

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    It is all about intimacy issues.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    It puzzles me, I had one guy that I was really in to, it was more than just fwb. When I wanted to make out he recoiled saying that he wasn't "like that".
    I still dream about him, we sucked, fucked, jacked and did everything in between, but the kiss might have proved that we were gay.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Yes, kissing somebody is intimate, yet somehow sticking your penis inside of them isn't.

    Questionable logic, to be sure.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Rimming is sex. Kissing is love.

    A lot of guys are okay with sex. Not so much with love.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I agree it's weird way guts will suck fuck and lick but no kissing. I love to kiss its part of sex My boyfriend he loves kissing too so I'm lucky and happy about that

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Kissing causes warts.

    You can also get pyorrhea of the dick.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by Anders123 View Post
    Yes, kissing somebody is intimate, yet somehow sticking your penis inside of them isn't.

    Questionable logic, to be sure.
    Exactly! Never understood the mentality of people being weirded out saying "that's too personal!" in reply to a question from someone they've had sex with.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    no kissing.. I will give a guy a tongue bath, lick anywhere he wants. just not kiss.. The only exception to that is if I am laying on my back with my legs over his shoulders with him topping me and he leans down to kiss me while in the heat of the moment of fucking. I would never initiate it tho.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I love to kiss, and I hate it when guys I hook up with don't. It kills the moment.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I'm not a big kisser. If I'm in a relationship with someone, that's one thing, but if it were just a piece of ass......no. And no I wouldn't rim some hook up, but then again I wouldn't rim anyone, ever.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by journo25 View Post
    Guys who happily stuck their tongue up anybody's butthole -- no questions asked, no shower required -- recoiled at the thought of making out. What's up with that?
    Well, maybe you should try kissing him BEFORE you rim him?

    I have the same issue with guys who can't talk about sex, actually.

    "I met this new guy, and I've fucked him the first three nights, but I'd like to bottom for him next time."
    "OK. Why don't you just ask him if you can?"
    "Oh, no, I couldn't. That'd be really awkward. I can't just TELL him that."

    Lex

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by GregKII View Post
    I love to kiss, and I hate it when guys I hook up with don't. It kills the moment.
    Totally agree.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I love kissing and really like a high degree of intimacy, passion, and intensity when having sex I am not really into the fuck and run type of guys

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I greatly enjoy kissing while hooking up with a guy. It makes me even hornier. Kissing really gets my ass twitching.

    I have hooked up with guys who were not into kissing though. Seems like the sex with them was not as intense as with the guys who do kiss.

    Homophobia kills!

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I do think that it is linked to the aspect of "intimacy".

    All I know is that if any of my casual pickups kissed me it caused instantaneous erection.

    Now the sad part: having been extremely active in my youth but terminating looking for any adventures when I arrived at 50yrs it is now 12 yrs since anyone took me in their arms and kissed me.
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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Well, maybe you should try kissing him BEFORE you rim him?

    I have the same issue with guys who can't talk about sex, actually.

    "I met this new guy, and I've fucked him the first three nights, but I'd like to bottom for him next time."
    "OK. Why don't you just ask him if you can?"
    "Oh, no, I couldn't. That'd be really awkward. I can't just TELL him that."

    Lex
    Yep! So the would-be bottom will find it easier to just ignore the guy's phone messages and texts rather than suggesting they switch positions and see what the response is. What is wrong with people?

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by dpnice View Post
    I do think that it is linked to the aspect of "intimacy".

    All I know is that if any of my casual pickups kissed me it caused instantaneous erection.

    Now the sad part: having been extremely active in my youth but terminating looking for any adventures when I arrived at 50yrs it is now 12 yrs since anyone took me in their arms and kissed me.
    When I was single I know I missed intimacy far more than I did the mechanics of fucking.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    There's this...


    And there's this...
    Last edited by HunterM; August 3rd, 2013 at 02:08 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by journo25 View Post
    When I was single I know I missed intimacy far more than I did the mechanics of fucking.
    When I was fucking, all it WAS was the mechanics. There was NO intimacy at all, ever. Another reason I now just fly solo.

    Ergo, one can't miss what one never had, other than as a vague intellectual exercise.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    If he doesn't wanna kiss, i'm not prepared to do anything else with him.
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Maybe like me, they just don't feel anything from kissing. I don't feel a damn thing from it. It doesn't turn me on, nothing.

    My guess is that it's only good with someone I actually am in love with. Other than that... forget it.

    I've often wondered why that is. I certainly never had that "WOW" moment from a kiss.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I personally link kissing on the lips with intimacy and it's extremely rare that the thought even comes to mind. When I see guys that I find attractive, the lust never really makes me think of kissing them..just other things.


    Soul meets soul on lovers' lips...


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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by reone View Post
    I personally link kissing on the lips with intimacy and it's extremely rare that the thought even comes to mind. When I see guys that I find attractive, the lust never really makes me think of kissing them..just other things.
    Hey, not all guys kiss... or find it exciting when they do. Others couldn't do without it. For me it is an integral part of hot sex. I am putting my mouth so many other places that I couldn't NOT put it on a guy's mouth.

    But some guys aren't into nipple play either. Don't know what to do with their chests. Such a lost opportunity for me, an admitted nipple slut. So the ball is in my court -- I either make it a policy not to play with guys who don't kiss or enjoy nipple work, or I do get together with a hot guy and we find other ways to amuse ourselves. For me, it's usually a deal breaker.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    There's this...


    And there's this...
    Hunter, LOL!!! As much as I love PeeWee, I'm going with pic 2!

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by braex27 View Post
    Yeah, I'm sometimes amazed by how seriously people take kissing too.
    I'm amazed, too. I view kissing as romantic and/or very sexual but I think it might be that some people see kissing as having nothing to do with sex and everything to do with romance.

    If you want to know if he loves you so
    It's in his kiss
    That's where it is


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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Kissing has always been...well, not exactly a "requirement". It's never come to the point with a guy where I want to kiss and he doesn't want to. But I've always gone for it, and they've always responded. At its worst, it's still been fun. At its best, it ramps everything up several levels. On at least one encounter, it was the absolute highlight...and that's not to knock everything else we did. That stuff was great, too, but the kissing was almost-literally mind-blowing.

    Lex

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    Oh, kiss me beneath the milky twilight

    Lead me out on the moonlit floor

    Lift your open hand

    Strike up the band and make the fireflies dance

    Silver moon's sparkling

    So kiss me......



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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Uh, I only kiss guys I intend to be intimate with, date and all that(with VERY, VERY rare exception). If it's just a hookup, why make more of it? That goes for an open relationship as well - I'm only gonna want to kiss the man I go home to.
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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Interesting how many guys have responded by saying kissing = romance and is saved for one significant partner. Yet in just about every porn video I watch today -- whether it be bears, twinks, whatever -- two guys generally get started by kissing and making out. Then the jeans come off and serious cock sucking begins. The guys are not boyfriends here. Just sayin'.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Hey, people are allowed to make whatever lines and barriers they want. I'm reminded of that Prince song where a girl invites him to take a bath with him, to which he says "Cool, but I'm leaving my pants on, 'cause I'm kinda going with someone." If that's his line, so be it.

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    I can't rock with someone who doesn't kiss. It's like starting a book in the middle.

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    I LOVE KISSING!

    For years, I have been kissing asses to be where I am in management. Ain't gonna stop now.
    Last edited by HunterM; August 4th, 2013 at 01:23 PM.

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    ^ *chuckle, snort*

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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Love kissing but if the guy whom I'm hooking up with doesn't want to, what can I do, right?

    I've learnt to expect just a good and hard pounding...
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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    Quote Originally Posted by journo25 View Post
    Interesting how many guys have responded by saying kissing = romance and is saved for one significant partner. Yet in just about every porn video I watch today -- whether it be bears, twinks, whatever -- two guys generally get started by kissing and making out. Then the jeans come off and serious cock sucking begins. The guys are not boyfriends here. Just sayin'.
    Porn is not real life. Just sayin'.
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    Re: Kissing: the last frontier

    People are weird.

    I've heard of guys who have no qualms kissing a guy (drunk at a club/party) or rubbing themselves up on him but sucking a cock or fucking is a whole 'nother story.

    For me, kissing is a requirement - if you don't, just go back home to your wife.

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