Because I love to kiss, I used to assume all gay guys did. Big mistake! After freaking out a few hook ups and dates over the years I learned to ask. Guys who happily stuck their tongue up anybody's butthole -- no questions asked, no shower required -- recoiled at the thought of making out. What's up with that? Intimacy issues? I know couples in open relationships who fuck other people like rabbits but don't kiss anyone but their partners. Other guys I know, partnered or not, simply love to kiss and would never agree to give it up. So how do you feel about kissing? And if you're in an open relationship, any rules about it?