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    Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    It doesn't have to be all of them. If you stay in touch with at least one say yes

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Yeah I try to stay in contact with my first ex, but his life is going so good that I don't think he needs me in his life any more.

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    I'm friends with the first guy I dated and loved. We were estranged for at least eight years. He's a good man but I can see now that we never would have made it as a couple. I'm glad he's in my life in a different way
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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Well, the first love of my life, Vincent, is gone. I believe in Heaven, and I believe that he's there waiting for me.

    Dave and I live in the same town, and there's always a chance that we will run into each other. Sometimes, I see him at the bank, or at Walgreens, or at another store. He calls me when he wants to know how to do something in the kitchen. And he knows that I mall walk on Saturday mornings. He's shown up there, before, and fool that I am, I usually end up having coffee or lunch with him.

    I've said it before in other threads...I still love him. I just do not trust him.


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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    One good thing i see from never having dated...is i have no ex'es

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    My ex is laying behind me on my bed.
    I hope that when the world comes to an end, I can breathe a sigh of relief, because there will be so much to look forward to.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Quote Originally Posted by RisingPhoenix View Post
    My ex is laying behind me on my bed.
    The midget?? Are you using him for a pillow???
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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    I'm still in touch with two of my three serious exes.

    I'm good friends with my most recent ex (we broke up three years ago) and we get together a few times a year.

    I'd like to be better friends with my other ex (we broke up about six years ago), but it's a slow process.

    I don't speak to my first serious ex. She's completely cut me out of her life.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    I'm not in touch with any of my exs. Then again, I don't currently live where I grew up, & the one ex who keeps trying to contact me is the same one I stay as far away from as possible because, well, that's just a bad situation waiting to happen. The rest were amicable breakups.
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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    I only have one ex and it was her birthday today... I called her up and wished her a happy one.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Don't have any, my honey of 29 yrs is my one and only

    And we are getting married 4 days
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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    John was my first ever long term partner and after 42 years he is still my closest friend with whom I am in regular contact and would make any sacrifice to ensure his health, happiness and well being.

    Paul my second partner refused to speak to me when we split up. Over the years we met occasionally due to having mutual friends. Finally he accepted to join a few of my closest friends at a London restaurant to celebrate my 60th birthday. We are still not in contact, much to my regret, but he will accept a dinner invitation if I am over in London.

    I do wonder if it is my choice of restaurant that is the deciding factor in his acceptance.
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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    I've stayed in touch with a couple. Most turned out to be assholes and didn't see any point in my suggestion if we weren't dating or fucking. No dinners, no movies, no chat. Sad. I have a friend who has remained in touch with every one of his past boyfriends. Amazing.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    For the most part no. However, my first girlfriend--when I actually thought I was straight--became my best friend, and she's actually one of the people I first came out to. It wasn't that easy though, we didn't talk for almost 2 years after we broke up. That was way back in middle school, though.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    nope... once romantic feelings are involved and hearts are crushed on one side or the other, it's hard to revisit that relationship in any capacity.

    it's a little sad because my last boyfriend and I probably would have been BFF's for life if we'd never dated, but my annoyances with him as a boyfriend prevent me from wanting him to have anything to do with my life at this point.

    I've got a few ex-friends with benefits/fuck buddies that I'm still friendly with, but in those cases, romantic feelings were never involved. they were just friends who'd keep me warm on a cold night when we were both single.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Yes, the most recent one.

    Although the previous one and I tried to keep it amicable, it got weird before it even started. A flurry of angry back and forth via email, some revelations were... revealed, and that was the end of that.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Only ever had one. We became FWBs but by the second year I decided to be more cold to him. He then started the whole drama of me not wanting to meet him because I've got my sexual needs fulfilled by European men. We realised then and there that it is better if we don't keep in touch at all.
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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    The midget?? Are you using him for a pillow???
    I never actually ended up meeting the midget. I meant WildeOscar.
    I hope that when the world comes to an end, I can breathe a sigh of relief, because there will be so much to look forward to.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    I have no trouble keeping the lines of communication open, but I refuse to do all the carrying. For instance, there's one guy whom I still like, and whom I enjoy talking with on occasion. But he's terrible at responding to e-mails, or returning phone calls. And I don't mean "sometimes he won't e-mail back until the next day" - I mean "I'll send him an e-mail or leave a voice mail, and he won't respond for up to twelve months". So we've settled into a routine where he'll contact me when he gets around to it, and I'll respond...then nothing will happen until the next time he contacts.

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    D - lost contact 5 yrs ago
    K - happily married in another state. He still thanks me for 'turning' him.
    A - no idea what happened to him
    M - we still talk
    K - in law school
    A - still jealous I've moved on from him. Just sent me a text a couple months ago telling me he misses me.
    R- went back to grad school.
    J - still ignoring my calls and texts.
    N - moved to NY for acting career. No idea how he's doing
    E - recently died
    J - also dead
    K - no idea what happened to him
    M - still single after we broke up a number of yrs ago. I think she has commitment issues
    A - no idea what happened to her
    C - thank god she moved to a different hemisphere. Crazy bitch...

    There's a few others I'm having trouble remembering name.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Yes. In fact had a phone call yesterday asking if I was coming for Christmas. Speak on the phone least once a week and go and stay a few times a year. In the past usually staying around 60 days a year. Various times I cat sit for him, so I'm there on my own.

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    Re: Keeping in contact with your ex or exes

    Was just texting one of them this morning - coincidentally one of 2 I'd ever get back with.
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    These words i speak are gates to Hell..."

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