So, here's one of a rare thread when Im not here posting my gayness/gay related story. It's about regular life; mom recently contacted me and shared her story about my lil sis.
She's just turned 15 few days ago and her hobby is going to concert.
She said..the only one thing that makes her happy is to go to (PG) concert with her friends and sleep over. The problem is.. she's going out too often, neglecting mom&dad, makes them worry about her. She can't stay at home too long, icky to go out. This whole entire summer break- if she isn't going with her friends...she just kill her time in extreme way..
: watching tv all days- browsing iphone, call her friends and just lay on sofa doing nothing. Around 3/4 am she started sleep...awake 3/4 pm and the cycle repeat again..
she said she's unhappy in home and have nothing to do, I said she lacks creativity.
Her behavior worried my mom a lil bit, but if mom bugs her- that just create ww3 since she has a notorious character. (nasty I say)
But! When she go outside- she can go on full throttle/ extremely out going. I.e: went to friend's house- wild wave- cinema- concert- sleep over in one day!
I was like wow...Im not even like that when I was 15, she makes her life like twenty fucking years old in a body of 15!?
Mom asked me how to tell her not to going out alot.. It's hard since money isn't an issue and perhaps because she's unceasingly a permanent strike A's student, a honor student too, one of prestigious kids in school that got letter signed from Obama . I dk how she did but my sister seems like: "work hard and play harder"- type
She's planning to go to 4th concerts this fall and winter, each of her friend asked her to go to different one.
It's hard for me too to say no/prohibit her since my policy basically is a balance between give and take. Now what can I say if she's basically not out of system or being irrational?
Anyway, I see this whole situation like- she uses her grades to get whatever she wants- while my parents being permissive. Now who dictates who? ^^ it's obvious that she's subtlety control my parents.
Does my parents over-reacting or my sister just plain right in this whole thing?
You dont have to be expert in child development, just tell me what you think? Or maybe some of y'all have experience child rearing for 15 years? ^^