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    Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Ive been thinking about it for a while. Im not really out yet, only a few friends, and at first I was thinking of going with one of them but one has already told me no and the other isn't old enough yet, so im thinking of going alone. The one who is too young said they would go with me but I think I kind of want to go and just check it out myself before I take anyone with me. I just want to go to kind of get out there and do something. I'm starting to become more comfortable with myself so I need to start doing these kinds of things to continue that process. And I want to meet more gay people. I don't really know any that are my age or anything. And to be completely honest..i wouldn't mind meeting someone that might be interested in talking to me on more than a friend level and things of that nature. lol. Heres what worries me tho...idk what to wear. Ive never been out to a club before. I don't dance, and im worried that no one will find me attractive cuz im somewhat overweight. On the website all it has is pics sexy muscular guys on it and that isn't me. So idk..should I go or should I just stay home and daydream about it? lol

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    For heaven's sakes...go. Get something flattering and remember that a smile is the best thing to wear.

    And if it isn't your thing...then try another bar.

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    Go have fun, you only live once!
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    Go for it. Don't worry too much on what you wear. Wear something good. It's a good experience. It's just like any other nightclubs out there.

    Been to a gay nightclub once. I didn't really like it too much, since I don't particularly enjoy being in clubs. But at least i tried it out.

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    Go for it! They can be a lot of fun, and as rareboy said the best thing to have is a smile when you are there

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    Yes. Go. Enjoy yourself. Find out if it's right for you.

    Dress nicely in something you like, smile, don't dance if you don't wanna, and... uh... fun. Have it.
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    In someway, gay bars are more relaxed about "dress codes" compared to what many straight bars expect people to wear in order to be allowed in. Just use some common sense and don't dress like you're going on deer hunting trip. I think your first time experience will be easier if you had someone to take with you, a female friend is better than straight guys. But going alone is not doom and gloom. Explore bars until you find an atmosphere to your liking; gay bars are not carbon copies of each other.

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    yes go!! go! go! they are usually a blast! if you go alone, you wont be alone for long once guys see you by yourself. everytime I have gone alone, somebody always pulls up a chair or invites me over to their table ..its a great way to meet new guys too.

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Remember, everyone there is open or eager to meet other guys, so don't be afraid of rejection if you speak first to a stranger. Sometimes the best looking guys sit alone because others are afraid of rejection by such a good looking guy. But he did not come to sit alone. He might not jump into bed with you but he will talk.

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    As someone who is past their club days, this is my advice.

    Do not hang out in a gay bar and wait for someone to approach you. It doesnt happen often. And when it does, it is usually the guy you dont want approaching you.

    Be assertive and go say Hi to guy when you see someone you like. I never did that and in turn, I very rarely met someone. Dont waste your time. If you see a guy you like and if he is looking at you too, go say hi

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    You can go in gay clubs if you dont mind the famous cock grabbing.Men in gay clubs are mostly all about sex.So,if you want want hook ups,gay clubs is the place for you.If you want a man who is into monogamous relationship,forget about gay clubs.

    I never been in gay clubs.But,i know gay men who been in gay clubs.They said that they felt raped.Because the men in gay clubs seems to think that they owns all the men.So,they can grab your ass and grab your cock when they wants.They also said that gay clubs looks too much like sex clubs.They doesnt go in gay clubs anymore.

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    ooh betta ware cloths then

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    Get out there and get some cock already.

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Go! I went to one a couple weeks ago and had a blast. I was with some friends and he was alone. He approached me, all nice and friendly. He bought me a drink and I bought him one too. We chatted and discovered that each was out just for some fun. We talked and danced the night away. At the end I thanked him for an amazing time, we kissed and hugged and went on our way. No harm no foul. A great time was had by all.
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    Come by my place and pick me up. I'll go with you.

    I'll wear some tight jeans and a snug pull over. I want to show off my ass.

    Homophobia kills!

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    GO! Get drunk, flirt, have some fun, dance! Then go home, sleep, and call your BFFs when you wake up! Alternatively, go grab a guy, wake up next to him, and have some naked fun!
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    DO NOT GO TO A GAY CLUB! It is a very dangerous environment.

    Your drink could be spiked. Loud music could damage your eardrums and could cause you to go deaf. Men could grab your cock and squeeze the life out of it without your permission. OUCH! People could be having naked sex in dirty germ-filled bacteria-laced bathroom stalls. DON'T GO!

    Instead of going to a gay club, come join me at my knitting club. Oh the fun we have had...


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    I would try to find a chub/bear club that's near you. Anyways, don't be shy. If shit happens, learn from your mistakes.

    Just have a drink and dance.
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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Man...some of u make me excited to go and then some make me scared lol. If it makes a difference it isn't exactly a gay night club but it is a club and they have a gay night.

    I'm definitely not the type who wants strange people touching me. If they flirt that's fine but if someone just comes up to me and grabs me they are going to get knocked the fuck out!!

    And Im not old enough to get drunk so that won't be happening lol.

    Oh and I don't need to find a chub/bear club....I'm definitely not into bears and I'm neither a chub nor a bear.

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    Just take a deep breath and relax and have a good time. Dress however you feel comfortable. If you have the misfortune of running across the fashion police and they say something snotty just ignore them....

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Ok so I wanna get a new outfit if I go. it is summer here but should it be shorts or pants?

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    Either. Just make sure they are classy.

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    Instead of going to a gay club, come join me at my knitting club. Oh the fun we have had...
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    Omg, it's just a bar. Go.

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenLuke View Post
    Man...some of u make me excited to go and then some make me scared lol. If it makes a difference it isn't exactly a gay night club but it is a club and they have a gay night.
    So it would be gay night at the club.

    I'm definitely not the type who wants strange people touching me. If they flirt that's fine but if someone just comes up to me and grabs me they are going to get knocked the fuck out!!
    Doesn't sound like you'd be the type to enjoy a club....
    Also, by your original description of yourself it would more likely be you that gets knocked out when a fight breaks out.

    And Im not old enough to get drunk so that won't be happening lol.
    I don't know where you live, but all the clubs I've ever seen are off limits to those not old enough to drink..... which is the same age for getting drunk.

    Oh and I don't need to find a chub/bear club....I'm definitely not into bears and I'm neither a chub nor a bear.[/QUOTE]I would suggest not worrying about a club or anything. Just find something where you can socially interact with strangers and get to know people. I would suggest checking into community activities, you can find info at your local chamber of commerce or your library. Heck, you can even go to your city council meetings. Get to know people and interact, and maybe improve your community in the process. I don't get why so many people assume you have to have alcohol to socialize with others.
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    Be sure to wear loose clothes so you can easily play with your love tool while cruising the eye candy. If you see one that's really hot stare at him, lick your lips, and then stroke yourself. If he reciprocates go to the bathroom and have a nice quickie. Come to think of it just go to the bathroom often and you'll get action.

    You know you want it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenLuke View Post
    Ok so I wanna get a new outfit if I go. it is summer here but should it be shorts or pants?
    Wear some short shorts to show off your sexy legs. Make sure it accentuates your ass. A snug fitting pull over will go nicely to show off your sexy chest. You'll have them drooling over you! Be sure to have some condoms and lube readily available. Good luck!

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    Another good tip if it is your first time...make friends with the bartender. If the bartender knows you are nervous and if they are any good at their job at all they will watch out for you and make sure you feel comfortable.

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    Re: Should i go to a gay nightclub?

    Quote Originally Posted by JaydenLuke View Post
    Ok so I wanna get a new outfit if I go. it is summer here but should it be shorts or pants?
    This outfit always gets attention, and it's cool for the summer...


    Last edited by HunterM; July 28th, 2013 at 12:31 AM.

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    Yes, you should go to a gay nightclub.

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