JustUsBoys.com gay porn forum

logo

remove these banner ads by becoming a JUB Supporter.

View Poll Results: If you're gay, would you date a bisexual?

Voters
103. You may not vote on this poll
  • Yes

    73 70.87%
  • No

    23 22.33%
  • I don't know

    7 6.80%
Page 5 of 8 FirstFirst ... 456 ... LastLast
Results 201 to 250 of 392
  1. #201
    The old familiar sting blackbeltninja's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    Cape Town; the arse-end of the Dark Continent
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Bisexual
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    9,704
    Blog Entries
    17

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Did you cheat on your wife when you were married, MBAMike?

    -d-
    Last edited by blackbeltninja; July 22nd, 2013 at 06:25 AM.
    Members: [insert appropriate/relevant wise saying or deep thought here]
    Thank you.


    I hope you get this message.
    Comments welcome.

  2. #202
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    ....why would it be necessary or obligatory for my partner's wife to know about my relationship with her husband when she and her husband are very happy in their relationship with one another?
    Because she is living a lie and itīs your fault (you + her husband). Thatīs it, leave the cultural and social influences. Do you like being lied? If yes, ok, but most people donīt. Itīs imoral. There a many ways of unconditional loving relationship, but lying is not found in either one of them. Every reply of yours doesnīt justify your acts. Think about your mother, would you like her to be lied by her cheating husband?

  3. #203
    Look, listen and rejoice oakpope's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Location
    Paris, France.
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    2,412

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    ^^^ Indeed we shouldn't judge the person. But we can value the act.

    To Kalli : as we're not saints we can partake in any depravity we'd fancy ? You're better than the silly arguments you have provided in this thread. Truth be told I wonder if his account has not been hacked.
    Magna Veritas


  4. #204
    PerScientiam AdJustitiam bankside's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    The Middle of Snowwhere.
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    16,376
    Blog Entries
    2

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    When you next date a saint please drop us his telephone number.
    Why? So you can intrude on that relationship too?
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

  5. #205
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Why? So you can intrude on that relationship too?
    Vassilios and I were in relationship before he married....in this sense she was the intruder....but I have no issues with jealousy.

  6. #206
    nf fbt funw glbhuof gmhp
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Posts
    12,566
    Blog Entries
    3

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    let see world cultures make sport a huanm apes fa eons fa bunch a elite? dick wads playin butta wit ther crap cause best crap win or sumthang maybe or it big foot?

    sudeen like be nice ta cheesewhips of any labull wot sellin popcorn intenret 1 or 2

    1st worlds luv playin wit theres a isuuesshoes woteva

    planet round so fart oda way please any unis toon pips workin on next game plan

    thankyou
    postcard forom a mars-lot a beach go figa
    -tittars-

  7. #207
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by oakpope View Post
    ^^^ Indeed we shouldn't judge the person. But we can value the act.

    To Kalli : as we're not saints we can partake in any depravity we'd fancy ? You're better than the silly arguments you have provided in this thread. Truth be told I wonder if his account has not been hacked.
    I can value my relationship with Vassilios without compromising his relationship with his wife....I'm that wise

  8. #208
    PerScientiam AdJustitiam bankside's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    The Middle of Snowwhere.
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    16,376
    Blog Entries
    2

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by mbamike View Post
    I do? This is news to me!

    My argue is very simple. We do not have any authority to judge another person's relationship. They are the ones who will reap the rewards or suffer the consequences. No one made us the moral police.
    We absolutely have the authority to judge someone else's relationship. We lack the authority to impose our judgement. But there is nothing wrong with coming to a considered opinion. In fact it is essential.

    Particularly in the case of a married person. "Love" is what people decide privately in some moment that unfolds for them. Marriage in almost all forms is a way of making obligations to someone you love, and publicly so, having invited a community of family and friends to support the spouses in keeping to their commitments. When someone voluntarily enters into that commitment we can expect them to keep it. If they pay their vows only lip service, busy providing "lip service" to someone else, then of course we know them to be disloyal, untrustworthy and slimy. That's an irresistible combination for some people though.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

  9. #209
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by SLOPPYSECONDS View Post
    let see world cultures make sport a huanm apes fa eons fa bunch a elite? dick wads playin butta wit ther crap cause best crap win or sumthang maybe or it big foot?

    sudeen like be nice ta cheesewhips of any labull wot sellin popcorn intenret 1 or 2

    1st worlds luv playin wit theres a isuuesshoes woteva

    planet round so fart oda way please any unis toon pips workin on next game plan

    thankyou
    You're correct the real issue here is that academic posturing assumes that without practical experience my critics can place themselves in my place, living the experience...reminding us that puritans are always ready to identify assumed failings in others while ignoring their own easy readiness to believe that theorising can replace practical living experience.

  10. #210
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Fly View Post
    NO I would not date a Bi-sexual.
    Not because of a fear of them cheating, I don't believe being bi-sexual makes someone more prone to dishonesty.
    Not because "they're really gay and just won't admit it", if someone says they're Bi I assume they know better than I about their orientation.
    The reason I wouldn't date a Bi-sexual is I believe a persons sexual identity is such a deep part of an individuals self. I can not wrap my head around the fact (and I accept it as fact) that someone can be attracted sexually to either gender.
    The fact that I will never be able to understand the why's and how's of a bi-sexuals orientation is a emotional roadblock to me.
    Is this a thread or what? Hehe.. Iīll try to respond to this: there is not much to understand, really. Some of us, you know, humans, like to stick their dick in an asshole or a pussy. Your question is not far from Ļhow do you like men, itīs unnatural?Ļ and one might respond ĻI just do, it is naturalĻ. Itīs the same with bisexuality. It doesnīt mean anything else than this. Cheating, having changes of mind, not accepting who one really is, itīs all about the caracter, his way of being. Bisexuality doesnīt affect someone in any way, itīs the values or lack of them that makes it ok for someone to cheat or lie or do harm, willingly or not.

    Iīm bi and except some replies in this thread, I must say that the general acceptance amazed me. I have years of reading the topics in this forum and not long ago the hate or misunderstanding that some gay people felt for bisexuals was really.. hurting me. I donīt have a better word. It was like the homophobic messages towards gay people. Iīm really really glad that this evolution happened. When I have been with someone, even the dating phase, I was always monogamous. I am currently in a serious relationship with a man, we live together for some time. In 2 months we celebrate 2 years. I have never Ļmissed pussyĻ as someone said here, just like I have never missed fucking a different man each 2 days. I donīt know if itīs because I really donīt give a crap about the sex differences in humans?! Itīs the character that does it for me..

  11. #211
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    I'm that wise
    Stop fooling yourself. Youīre just a liar.

    The guy cheats on his wife. Do you think he wonīt do it with you? Wouldnīt it be painful for you to get an STD because of it? You canīt lie people this way, no matter what.

  12. #212
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by aaggii View Post
    Stop fooling yourself. Youīre just a liar.

    The guy cheats on his wife. Do you think he wonīt do it with you? Wouldnīt it be painful for you to get an STD because of it? You canīt lie people this way, no matter what.
    I'm happy that you are expressing your opinion....drama is always a welcome diversion among serious discussion.

  13. #213
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    We absolutely have the authority to judge someone else's relationship. We lack the authority to impose our judgement. But there is nothing wrong with coming to a considered opinion. In fact it is essential.
    By self appointment? On the assumption that you are holier than the rest of us? Religious fanatics use this argument when passing judgement on gay men and our hedonistic life style...glad to note that you have joined the church of perfect people........

  14. #214
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Iīm dead serious about it. The drama starter is you, fucking a married man with a future kid coming and having the nerve to pay for the weeding of the woman you two cheat on.

  15. #215
    Of Nightmares & Secrets. MoufOfKhaos's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2011
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    9,120
    Blog Entries
    1

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis
    I'm happy that you are expressing your opinion....drama is always a welcome diversion among serious discussion.
    Also dodging questions. Don't forget about that.

    (boy has this become a bloodbath)
    Last edited by MoufOfKhaos; July 22nd, 2013 at 06:57 AM.
    "I snuff their tongues, my heart a-flutter,

    These words i speak are gates to Hell..."

  16. #216
    Ruminating
    sixthson's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2004
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,354
    Blog Entries
    15

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by mbamike View Post
    I do? This is news to me!

    My argue is very simple. We do not have any authority to judge another person's relationship. They are the ones who will reap the rewards or suffer the consequences. No one made us the moral police.
    And my argument is that the wife is unknowingly part of something she did not choose for herself. Only she of the three is in the dark and unable to decide what is right for her. You may not like others judging this, but should she not have the right to judge it? This is a relationship based on deceit.

    As far as suffering the consequences, the wife and child are likely to be the only ones to suffer.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

  17. #217
    PerScientiam AdJustitiam bankside's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    The Middle of Snowwhere.
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    16,376
    Blog Entries
    2

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Well we know because she is pregnant that in all likelihood she has consented to unprotected sex with her husband. She has a direct claim to know whether her husband is monogamous or not as it affects the interests of her health and is likely a factor in her consent. At the moment it is safe to assume she's having sex where consent has been invalidated due to the deception. Oh, sorry, due to the "omission!"

    Did I forget to mention my other lovers? That vow of fidelity, just a figure of speech, you know. Like the father doesn't actually give away the bride...mere formalities! You didn't take that seriously did you?
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

  18. #218
    A Total Bottom mbamike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    14,610

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    We absolutely have the authority to judge someone else's relationship. We lack the authority to impose our judgement. But there is nothing wrong with coming to a considered opinion. In fact it is essential.
    Why make the judgement since we have no authority to impose it? It's pointless.

    Homophobia kills!

  19. #219
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    Also dodging questions. Don't forget about that.

    (boy has this become a bloodbath)
    You've known me long enough not return abuse, with abuse leaving our special friends to proffer their venomous assaults knowing that such posts provide them with therapeutic value...I also have a generous nature.

  20. #220
    Ruminating
    sixthson's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2004
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,354
    Blog Entries
    15

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    Also dodging questions.
    You noticed that, too?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

  21. #221
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    Well we know because she is pregnant that in all likelihood she has consented to unprotected sex with her husband. She has a direct claim to know whether her husband is monogamous or not as it affects the interests of her health and is likely a factor in her consent. At the moment it is safe to assume she's having sex where consent has been invalidated due to the deception. Oh, sorry, due to the "omission!"

    Did I forget to mention my other lovers? That vow of fidelity, just a figure of speech, you know. Like the father doesn't actually give away the bride...mere formalities! You didn't take that seriously did you?
    Fear of the unknown always ensures that the most injurious of possibilities are unearthed whilst failing to recognise that I am his first and only male lover, whilst she was virgin on her wedding night...and I have his word for that...

    I'm waiting for the next instalment in your fright night series of possibilities.....justifying your self assumed right to judge...
    Last edited by kallipolis; July 22nd, 2013 at 07:09 AM.

  22. #222
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by mbamike View Post
    Why make the judgement since we have no authority to impose it? It's pointless.
    Assumptions work wonders for the self righteous personality keen to identify fault in all .... but themselves.

  23. #223
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by aaggii View Post
    Iīm dead serious about it. The drama starter is you, fucking a married man with a future kid coming and having the nerve to pay for the weeding of the woman you two cheat on.
    Again, I note that your drama is dead serious, and that your contributions here are entertaining value....

    Do you have anything of real value, even something constructive to add to this exchange of understandings, or should I continue to appreciate the entertainment that you are providing for us?

  24. #224
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Of course. Stop lying. Itīs the same message that everyone is sending you in the last 5 pages.

    My contributions? Go read my posts about the original topic. They are on this page. Take out the drama that only you see and read the rest, then. You canīt lie to someone and demand respect or not being called a liar.
    Last edited by aaggii; July 22nd, 2013 at 07:25 AM.

  25. #225
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by aaggii View Post
    Of course. Stop lying. Itīs the same message that everyone is sending you in the last 5 pages.

    My contributions? Go read my posts about the original topic. They are on this page. Take out the drama that only you see and read the rest, then.
    I have already advised you that your opinions are duly noted....can I expect something from you that is more than self righteous judgement garnished with venom?

  26. #226
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    If this is what you think, Iīm sorry for you. I donīt know and donīt plan to know you, so itīs not personal. You posted your story, therefore you knew what itīs coming. Iīm actually asking myself if all of this is a charade for attention or to laugh at people?! I hope it is. Youīre doing something that in the eyes of most people is immoral and even if you see it or not (I guess the latter), it doesnīt change the unethical actions and the consequences or the suffering of the wife and their child when this will come to light. When they break up, reward yourself with a piece of cake, because you are just as guilty as your lover.

    Is this entertaining enough?

  27. #227
    nf fbt funw glbhuof gmhp
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Posts
    12,566
    Blog Entries
    3

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    You're correct the real issue here is that academic posturing assumes that without practical experience my critics can place themselves in my place, living the experience...reminding us that puritans are always ready to identify assumed failings in others while ignoring their own easy readiness to believe that theorising can replace practical living experience.
    coor lot biggys
    _ bucket a ice _
    ooh ya heads me thankyou

    is reply all dat _ wot next bit?
    * battery low *
    ooh where zeus zap me up
    ! ZAP !
    thankyou betta check no classfied OOH a trickys this

    here quicky - 1st worlds great folk like open mouth ans a make noise ans forgat alway planet gon deaf eons agobut long every a 1st world folk littull world perefect ans filla rosey corncakes or sumthang all okay

    so sure figa it in ans out

    maybe next time awsum cupcakes world ova a great supa folk figa wot a call food wen dun play wit it fa mankind a course futre happys
    * this food a killa ya *
    it gurrrrrd fa ya
    * ooh *

    thankyou
    thankyou
    postcard forom a mars-lot a beach go figa
    -tittars-

  28. #228
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by SLOPPYSECONDS View Post

    thankyou
    thankyou
    You are always a breath of fresh air.

  29. #229
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by aaggii View Post
    If this is what you think, Iīm sorry for you.
    Never feel sorry for me for I'm not the poster passing judgements - I'm merely enjoying the experience.....

    ....while you assume that all married couples share all matters, and that there are never secrets between married couples....some fantasy world.....

    meantime, in the real world, and in advanced countries the divorce rate among hetro married couples is 1 in 2....suggesting that your idealistic world is remote from everyday reality.
    Last edited by kallipolis; July 22nd, 2013 at 07:52 AM.

  30. #230
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    And thatīs your excuse for cheating? I like how you find excuses in your actions. The world is fucked up so no problem if you fuck it up more?

    I do believe that 2 people who love each other donīt have secrets in their relationship. I donīt. Not one. My partner claims the same. I choose to believe until proved otherwise. I donīt have an idealistic world in my mind, an utopia is by definition imaginary. I do however believe in being an honorable person and not willingly harm the people around you.
    ĻBeware the fury of a patient manĻ - John Dryden

  31. #231
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by aaggii View Post
    I do believe that 2 people who love each other donīt have secrets in their relationship.
    You can fantasise as much as you wish and the world will remain as it is...yes, loving couples do keep secrets from one another...I was reading an article last week discussing how many married couples maintain secret separate bank accounts....I also appreciate that an obsessive need to believe that married life is built upon love is rapidly shattered when you examine divorce statistics and the agonising hate filled accusations and counter accusations facing those going through a divorce....I have a niece who is a lawyer specialising in divorce....the facts are grim and tragic.

    Thanks for your opinions I must now make my way to my work place

  32. #232
    PerScientiam AdJustitiam bankside's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    The Middle of Snowwhere.
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Married (to a man)
    Posts
    16,376
    Blog Entries
    2

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Fear of the unknown always ensures that the most injurious of possibilities are unearthed whilst failing to recognise that I am his first and only male lover, whilst she was virgin on her wedding night...and I have his word for that...
    Yes, his word. The value of which you last esteemed through buying his wedding present. His word is worthless.

    The injury is done to her free will. She has consented to a monogamous relationship. You have deprived her of the relationship purportedly offered to her, android have undone her consent.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

  33. #233
    The nice guy from Nice. dpnice's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    7,551
    Blog Entries
    295

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    I have gleaned great pleasure from reading the majority of contributions to this subject; it has been both educational in discovering that there a still members capable of posting comments expressing an opinion rather than an insult and enjoyable in reading opinions actually logically presented and in good English.

    A strange thread in its dual nature of expressing an opinion on dating a bisexual and expressing judgements of a single member's chosen life style.

    But I think we have really arrived at the final act and there really doesn't seem to be anything new to add. Don't you think it is now time to draw the curtain and withdraw sedately knowing that there is no winner in this saga?
    http://justusboys.com/forum/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=72786&dateline=115443  2352

  34. #234
    Of Nightmares & Secrets. MoufOfKhaos's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2011
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Posts
    9,120
    Blog Entries
    1

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by dpnice View Post
    But I think we have really arrived at the final act and there really doesn't seem to be anything new to add. Don't you think it is now time to draw the curtain and withdraw sedately knowing that there is no winner in this saga?
    Well since this play has already been done in Caligula, it seems like there's no reason for the curtain not to fall... but I don't think that this tragedy has an end. Or, at least, will end yet.

    Is it cut/uncut season yet? That oughta take the heat off.
    "I snuff their tongues, my heart a-flutter,

    These words i speak are gates to Hell..."

  35. #235
    Lions&Tigers&Bears Oh My!
    eastofeden's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2011
    Location
    Silicon Valley
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    5,203
    Blog Entries
    2

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    I'm not interested in dating anyone and when I was "dating" I was more likely to go on a fuck date rather than a romantic one...so yes...I would go on a fuck date with a bisexual guy.

  36. #236
    Sex God aaggii's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Madrid, Spain
    Gender
    Male
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    508

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    You can fantasise as much as you wish and the world will remain as it is...yes, loving couples do keep secrets from one another.
    Did you talk with every couple in the world? If at least one of those in a relationship thinks like you, yes, they keep secrets from each other. If both (or all in the cases of polygamous relationships) think like me, they donīt have secrets one from another. I canīt be the only one thinking like this about relationship in this world. Itīs that simple. Why on earth would I want any relation with someone who lies to me? The thing for you is that if your loversī wife thinks like this, all this that you have is gone.

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    I was reading an article last week discussing how many married couples maintain secret separate bank accounts.
    I donīt think you can compare love and sex with money situations. This is also, however, about mutual trust and what I said earlier can apply to this situation that you mentioned. I canīt understand why bother in being with someone if you donīt feel safe enough with them.

    You are not thinking like this because the world is how it is.
    The world is how it is because of people who think like you.
    Last edited by aaggii; July 22nd, 2013 at 10:41 AM. Reason: grammar mistake
    ĻBeware the fury of a patient manĻ - John Dryden

  37. #237
    nf fbt funw glbhuof gmhp
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Posts
    12,566
    Blog Entries
    3

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by dpnice View Post
    I have gleaned great pleasure from reading the majority of contributions to this subject; it has been both educational in discovering that there a still members capable of posting comments expressing an opinion rather than an insult and enjoyable in reading opinions actually logically presented and in good English.

    A strange thread in its dual nature of expressing an opinion on dating a bisexual and expressing judgements of a single member's chosen life style.

    But I think we have really arrived at the final act and there really doesn't seem to be anything new to add. Don't you think it is now time to draw the curtain and withdraw sedately knowing that there is no winner in this saga?
    well da fairys ans planet keep a wishin hummans play new script cause nothin new sellin taday ans da act go
    oonn ans onnnnnnnnn ans onnnnnnnn ans onnnnnnnnnnnnn
    & titanic arweedy sunk a wet already &
    not next 1
    & ooh forgat Onnnnnnnn ans onnnnnnnnnn ans onnnnnnnnnnn
    % titanic so romantic %
    folk drown wit luuuuvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv

    oops

    sorry 1st world issues take it away joeeeeeeeeeee

    thankyou

    no forgat hisotry is still here any UNI lookin ta figa there butt

    t
    postcard forom a mars-lot a beach go figa
    -tittars-

  38. #238

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    I haven't read through the 5 pages of this thread, but when I read, "If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ? ", to me that's just like saying, "If you are gay, would you date someone sexual ? "

    IMO, whether they're gay, or bi, or straight... , EVERYONE will always be somewhat attracted to someone else. It's up to that person individually to decide if they're going to choose to be faithful or not - regardless of whom or what they find attractive.

    Being Bi doesn't automatically turn them into some kind of ravenous sex creature that can't keep their hands off anyone. For that matter, many gay and straights could easily fall into this category if that's the case.

    I think people tend to demonize what they don't understand, so when a gay guy comes across a bi guy who is attracted to something they're not (a female), they tend to freak out and get defensive over competition they feel they cannot compete with.
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

  39. #239
    JUB Addict mikey3000's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Toronto
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Bisexual
    Status
    Married
    Posts
    3,405

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Why make it complicated when it works very well for all three of us without his wife being party to our relationship.
    Wow. As someone who is happily married to a woman who lets me have a male partner, I must say, even I am saddened by your attitude. I struggled and fought to save my marriage because I came out to her, to be honest and fair to her. If he's not telling his wife about you, imagine what he's not telling you? I'm sorry to say, what you have is a lie. My life may not be perfect to others, but to us it is because there is honesty and respect all around. I love my male partner too much to keep him in the shadows.
    Inspired - but too tired.

  40. #240
    JUB Addict SaskGuy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Location
    Canada
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    1,748

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    It depends on the guy. I just wouldn't want him to suddenly leave me, after realizing that he prefers women after all.

  41. #241

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by SaskGuy View Post
    It depends on the guy. I just wouldn't want him to suddenly leave me, after realizing that he prefers women after all.
    This frame of mind was kind of my point. Anyone could leave you realizing they were more attracted to someone else. I don't think him being Bi makes it any more or less probable.
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

  42. #242

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    This frame of mind was kind of my point. Anyone could leave you realizing they were more attracted to someone else. I don't think him being Bi makes it any more or less probable.
    That, I suppose, depends on how 'out' he is, and/or how easily influenced he is by his friends, family, church, or any other people in his life.

    Surely most parents want the most 'normal' (safest - easiest?) life possible for their kids, and would be inclined to nudge a bisexual son in that (straight) direction.

  43. #243
    You Belong To Me reone's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Atlanta
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    15,339
    Blog Entries
    2

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    When you next date a saint please drop us his telephone number.
    I'm not interested in sharing, really.


    Soul meets soul on lovers' lips...


  44. #244
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by reone View Post
    I'm not interested in sharing, really.
    I have made it my life's dream to avoid socialising with the perfect human being...not that I've met one...to date.

  45. #245
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    This frame of mind was kind of my point. Anyone could leave you realizing they were more attracted to someone else. I don't think him being Bi makes it any more or less probable.
    Sound logic....but fear of the unknown is a destructive emotion that afflicts many people seeking certitude in an uncertain life.

  46. #246
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Wow. As someone who is happily married to a woman who lets me have a male partner, I must say, even I am saddened by your attitude. I struggled and fought to save my marriage because I came out to her, to be honest and fair to her. If he's not telling his wife about you, imagine what he's not telling you? I'm sorry to say, what you have is a lie. My life may not be perfect to others, but to us it is because there is honesty and respect all around. I love my male partner too much to keep him in the shadows.
    It's not important to me what I do not know...much more important that my relationship with Vassilios....flourishes...as does his relationship with his wife....to imagine what might go wrong is to worry over matters that may, or may not occur....fear being a highly destructive emotion capable of destroying the very relationship that adds value to my life....enjoy the moment for life's joys are finite.
    Last edited by kallipolis; July 22nd, 2013 at 10:30 PM.

  47. #247
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I haven't read through the 5 pages of this thread, but when I read, "If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ? ", to me that's just like saying, "If you are gay, would you date someone sexual ? "

    IMO, whether they're gay, or bi, or straight... , EVERYONE will always be somewhat attracted to someone else. It's up to that person individually to decide if they're going to choose to be faithful or not - regardless of whom or what they find attractive.

    Being Bi doesn't automatically turn them into some kind of ravenous sex creature that can't keep their hands off anyone. For that matter, many gay and straights could easily fall into this category if that's the case.

    I think people tend to demonize what they don't understand, so when a gay guy comes across a bi guy who is attracted to something they're not (a female), they tend to freak out and get defensive over competition they feel they cannot compete with.
    Very wise observations based I assume on experience accumulated.

  48. #248
    The old familiar sting blackbeltninja's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    Cape Town; the arse-end of the Dark Continent
    Gender
    Male
    Orientation
    Bisexual
    Status
    Single
    Posts
    9,704
    Blog Entries
    17

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Sound logic....but fear of the unknown is a destructive emotion that afflicts many people seeking certitude in an uncertain life.
    This presumably being the key as to why The Wife doesn't know yet, hmmm?

    -d-
    Members: [insert appropriate/relevant wise saying or deep thought here]
    Thank you.


    I hope you get this message.
    Comments welcome.

  49. #249

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Very wise observations based I assume on experience accumulated.
    I've had more than my share of insecurities, self doubts, jealousies, ... trying to control every outcome, and still been cheated on by multiples of boyfriends and girlfriends. Living in fear, doubts, and paranoia is no way to live. People cheat. You can't control them. All you can do is decide for yourself how You're going to deal with it when/if it happens.

    I've been through it enough times I know I'll live through it if it happens again.
    http://www.justusboys.com/forum/signaturepics/sigpic216959_1.gif

  50. #250
    Know thyself kallipolis's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Piraeus, Greece
    Orientation
    Gay
    Status
    Partnered
    Posts
    11,270

    Code of Conduct

    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix View Post
    I've had more than my share of insecurities, self doubts, jealousies, ... trying to control every outcome, and still been cheated on by multiples of boyfriends and girlfriends. Living in fear, doubts, and paranoia is no way to live. People cheat. You can't control them. All you can do is decide for yourself how You're going to deal with it when/if it happens.

    I've been through it enough times I know I'll live through it if it happens again.
    I agree, entirely with your wise thoughts...insecurity is one of the issues that raises its head here regularly across these forums.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
Terms of Service | Privacy Policy | About JustUsBoys.com | Site Map | RSS | Webmasters | Advertise | Link to JUB | Report A Bug on this Page

Visit our sister sites: Broke Straight Boys | CollegeDudes.com | CollegeBoyPhysicals.com | RocketTube
All models appearing on JustUsBoys.com were over 18 at the time of photography. The records for sexually explicit images required by U.S. 2257 are kept by the
individual producers of the images. The location of the records is available by clicking the Custodian of Records link at the bottom of each gallery page.
© 2012 JustUsBoys.com. The JustUsBoys.com name and logo are registered trademarks. Labeled with ICRA and RTA. Member of ASACP and The Free Speech Coalition.