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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    She should not know less than you know about the arrangement. If you are comfortable with it, she has an equal right to make up her mind about her own comfort level. ]Why should she be denied the happiness of being just as delighted with the arrangement?
    Why should she know when she is not party to my relationship with her husband?

    There is no rational reason for my partner's wife to know of our relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Why should she know when she is not party to my relationship with her husband?

    There is no rational reason for my partner's wife to know of our relationship.
    Have you suffered from knowing about his relationship with her?

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    I must leave ....thanks for the exchanges....always appreciated for their candour...and robustness...good night from sunny Piraeus.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Not an issue if a friend, friend with benefits, fuck buddy, etc.

    If I were single, I wouldn't knowingly date a bi guy hoping for a boyfriend, relationship. I was married to a woman for a bunch of years. I was faithful but there were temptations along the way and I agonized over it for years, before coming out to her and the world. I haven't been with a woman since my marriage ended 15 years ago. I am a gay, not a bi, divorced man.

    Having dealt with that in my life, I wouldn't want to get involved with someone who either still had "unfinished business" or wasn't prepared to commit exclusively to one sex or the other. O course there are never any guarantees. Realistically I can get dumped by a gay partner who wants fresh dick, but not knowing if my partner is missing fresh dick or fresh pussy would be too stressful FOR ME.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    What you presume to be ethical behaviour is based upon current social constructs that presume to fit each, individual human being into preconceived life that fits in with conventional wisdom how society should function.....remembering some fifty years gay men were imprisoned for daring to engage in sexual relationships with men....how life changes....
    If you're going to spew post modern language, at least taylor it to the subject matter first. Behavior deemed ethical in current social constructs in the western world at large doesn't allow for poly relationships (minus some enclaves and those can get noxious for different reasons). There is no preconcieved life that fits conventional wisdom that anyone is arguing for, unless you mean that people are encouraging you and your boyfriend to quit lieing to the wife. Someone can have the old white picket fence, spouse, 2.5 kids and a dog with a boyfriend "on the side". I've seen it. I've also been it, come to that. It's when that someone lies to the wife about it that people go "No no".

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    There is no rational reason for my partner's wife to know of our relationship.
    Say you had a STD or something that you passed to her husband and he in turn passed it to her. That is a damn good reason for her to know of the relationship. If she is in the relationship with her husband expecting monogamy, and this is not the case she deserves to know about it so SHE can decide if she wants to remain in the relationship. Its not your decision to decide she is happy with this arrangement, because she doesn't know the full story. It is highly deceitful and disrespectful to not tell her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    It give the impression of misogyny, though I admit not to know about the substance of that charge. For example, if a person is equally cavalier with both genders is it misogyny?
    Depends on why they're cavalier about it. If they do it because "She shouldn't worry her pretty little head about it" then yeah, misogyny.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    It give the impression of misogyny, though I admit not to know about the substance of that charge. For example, if a person is equally cavalier with both genders is it misogyny?
    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    I must leave ....thanks for the exchanges....always appreciated for their candour...and robustness...good night from sunny Piraeus.


    Great, bankside. You scared him off.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Why should the wife know...when she is happy with her husband....what benefit would it be to her to know?
    Do you not expect this man to be honest with you about his sex life? What if he were having random, risky and unprotected sex with strangers? You might be happy being ignorant of his behavior, but it could cost you your life.

    You and he do not have the right to unilaterally decide for his wife that she is happy in her ignorance.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Never because the possibility of them cheating is obviously greater! But wait...simply to date with no intention of an ltr...sure! Why not? If they are no longer "practicing bisexuals (ie. given up seeing woman)" then maybe. But there are so many people who are gay that it really isn't an issue.

    If you lived in a place with very few gay guys then it may be different. But the complications are still there. No question about it.

    And before you dig into me accusing me of some agenda against bi's I have none so please... they are fine...just not to date seriously IMO.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    And before you dig into me accusing me of some agenda against bi's have none so please..
    No one is going to dig.
    Last edited by Native Son; July 20th, 2013 at 11:45 AM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Never because the possibility of them cheating is obviously greater! But wait...simply to date with no intention of an ltr...sure! Why not? If they are no longer "practicing bisexuals (ie. given up seeing woman)" then maybe. But there are so many people who are gay that it really isn't an issue.

    If you lived in a place with very few gay guys then it may be different. But the complications are still there. No question about it.

    And before you dig into me accusing me of some agenda against bi's I have none so please... they are fine...just not to date seriously IMO.
    I used to have a very low opinion of bisexuals until I came to JUB and got to know one or two. I thought they were just gay guys in denial. I thought they were more likely to be unhappy in any relationship they would have because a part of them would always be unfulfilled. I no longer believe that, for the most part. Cheaters cheat, no matter what their sexuality.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Never because the possibility of them cheating is obviously greater!
    Why? Cheating is an action that someone chooses to do - it has nothing to do with liking more than one gender. That's like saying "Well, there's more than two people in the world, so a date might cheat on me with that third or fourth or ten thousandth person. Best not risk dating at all."

    Now if you're insecure that your imaginary bisexual date might leave you for a woman, fine. Insecurities abound in dating. But being insecure in a dating situation doesn't mean you can foist misconceptions off on your imaginary bisexual date and claim your fear of them cheating means anything beyond what it is - that you have fears.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    No one is going to dig.
    more like gouge on this site....ah yes here come the anguished accusatory ripostes ....

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Cheating is your characterisation based upon your judgement that loving relationships should be monogamous....whereas, my partner remains a committed partner of his wife, and of his male lover...with happiness flourishing in the lives of three people...without the need for academic judgements that condemn others for daring to be happy living in an unconventional relationship.
    Cheating is when all parties involved are not informed about the actions of their mate. Basic, cut and dry. Didn't have to make a "judgment" or "moral" call - she doesn't know, therefore your fervor about an "unconventional" relationship is as empty as the prose you use to explain it away.

    So again, come back down.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    accusatory
    More like fact, rainbow wiener.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    more like gouge on this site....ah yes here come the anguished accusatory ripostes ....
    Oh please. People have reasons for saying the things they do - doesn't mean they're good or logical reasons. You don't need good or logical reasons to not date someone, either, because that's generally not how dating works. If love and romance or what have you were logical there wouldn't need to be a dating/screening process in the first place, you could just fill out a form and marry without ever needing to meet the person beforehand. Insecurities are a fine reason for not dating someone. While I'm on the topic, everyone has them because no one is perfect. Even that diagnosed narcissistic guy I met way back when had 'em.

    But if you have a reason you don't want to date someone it generally ain't kosher to pretend that it's because one set of people are cheaters while another resemble the driven snow. Because that puts your erroneous assumptions about a whole group of people (that they're somehow more likely to cheat) on those same people that you've never even met. I can say with all certainty that I'm not more likely to cheat than you just because I like more than men. Because cheating is an action. I doubt anyone who identifies as bisexual is anguished over not getting to date you, either (a hint - bisexuals don't generally want to date people who think they're automatic cheaters, it's insulting), and no one here has been accusatory, either. I didn't say anything (and would never claim to) about how you should date bisexuals. But pointing out you're bias is based in erroneous information? Yeah, that I'll do.

    All I did was point out you have no basis for "Bisexuals are more likely to cheat." Particularly since cheating is an action and not an intrinsic character trait.
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    I really can't answer honestly until I come across this situation. I have hooked up with guys who are into women and men but I never dated one.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    That question raises the question why should she know when there is no reason for her to know.

    Neither you nor me know the day we will die.....why should we know...what benefit would it be for us to know?

    We can spend a lifetime shooting academic questions....what if....when our realities are focused on what is....

    It is a pleasure to see you posting on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    You don't need good or logical reasons to not date someone, either, because that's generally not how dating works.
    I take exception with this statement. I find that's exactly how it works!

    But if you're going to dilute this into cheaters vs. non-cheaters, well, then it gets murky.

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    Some people say that bisexuals always wind up with women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    I take exception with this statement. I find that's exactly how it works!

    But if you're going to dilute this into cheaters vs. non-cheaters, well, then it gets murky.
    By good and logical I'm talking about value judgments, granted 'good' prolly wasn't the right word to use. Logical definitely was, though. Someone can have any reason they want to date or not date someone and it doesn't mean that reason is logical. Nor does having a logical reason to date someone mean that the relationship is going to last, or even be a good relationship. But in my mind, it's at least better to have a reason not to date someone that isn't based in fallacy, no matter how shitty that reason actually is. "I couldn't handle the stress of having people constantly question and stare at my visibly disabled partner" would be a good example. It's shitty because the disabled partner themself did nothing wrong, but at the same time it can be stressful in a relationship for a partner to get constant questions, comments and finger pointing. Not nearly as stressful as it is for the disabled person, but stressful all the same. And that's their right not to put themselves in a situation that they do have control over.

    What did you mean by diluting cheaters vs non cheaters? Some people cheat, some people don't. Some people have thought about it, some people haven't, some people are going to cheat in the future and just haven't yet (cuz we're still in the present) and some people have cheated before and never will again. It's a mixed bag and people cheat for all sorts of reasons. But cheating itself is an action that's taken, unless you believe a thought is as good as a deed.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    It may be Greek to me--but happiness for these three is based only on deception and fooling the woman into thinking everything is fab---like her husband only had eyes for her--it would only truly be a happy situation if the wife knew she was sharing her husband with a guy and be okay with it---then I would be okay with it---if it was all out in the open--like in open relationship---which I originally thought it was, then okay ---the way it is--is not really a good situation.

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    *not talking about value judgments, that is. People have different values, obviously. I'm just saying there's a difference between something observable and something that's guessed at.
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    To reply to the OP : absolutely. I would date any man I fancy and who I think could be interested in me. Bisexual or gay or anything in between doesn't matter besides mutual attraction and will to date.
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    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    Nor does having a logical reason to date someone mean that the relationship is going to last,
    That's true.

    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    What did you mean by diluting cheaters vs non cheaters
    Well, the overriding fear seems to be that BIs are more likely to cheat. Where does that come from? A really, really dark place, I would imagine....

    I think we should try to get to the bottom of that fear. (Not holding my breath.)

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    I don't therefore, date, period.
    Nah...really?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    I'm toxic... I don't therefore, date, period.
    You only think you're toxic. You're a perfect gentleman.

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    If he was out and proud bisexual then yes. I am well past dating closet cases.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    Really. ........
    Well, with that attidude....

    I don't buy it. There must be something you're doing wrong.

    Are you bi?
    Last edited by Native Son; July 20th, 2013 at 04:44 PM.

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    Yes, and I have. Bisexuals can be just as faithful as any other sexual orientation. Don't prejudge. Don't assume. Attracted to both genders does not mean someone cannot settle down with one person they're in love with.

    Even in a relationship, we all see other attractive people around us. Doesn't mean anything.

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    This is interesting, Kallipolis, how would you feel if you discovered that your lover secretly had yet another man or woman that he was sleeping with ?

    If he cared for all three of you, would it matter or diminish your relationship ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    Deceit is deceipt. To defend down low relationships is as much as to defend the closet.

    I'm sorry that the thread has become a referendum on infidelity and deceit. Bisexual men deserve better than that. They are not inherently unfaithful, and surely many are in open relationships.
    By what authority do we judge another person's relationship? A person is not judged for being in the closet. He/She is encouraged to come out on their own terms.

    Similarly, a person in a relationship with a bisexual who is in a relationship with yet another should not be judged either. We simply acknowledge their relationship without judgement.

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    Toxic eh?

    Well, that's your word, love. I'm just sittin' here readin'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    That's true.



    Well, the overriding fear seems to be that BIs are more likely to cheat. Where does that come from? A really, really dark place, I would imagine....

    I think we should try to get to the bottom of that fear. (Not holding my breath.)
    Oh yeah, that. There's also the absolutely charming concept that poly people are only in it for the sex, lesbians' just need a good dicking and gay guys have no love to give. The absolute rock bottom to all of those (different as they are) is that "So-and-so doesn't want to be with me / cheated on me, so it must be that somethings' wrong with them." And once they decide what's wrong with the elusive 'them' (That guy cheated, and they're also bi! That must be it!') they just....extrapolate. And then they tell their friends.

    I think the 'Bi's are more likely to cheat' thing happens (in a small part, but certainly not totally by any means) because of a monogamy oriented social structure. Not that monogamous people are more likely to cheat (I've found the rates are about equal, funnily enough, although the 'how' changes with regard to cheating and poly relationships). I figure most people are searching for 'the one', even if in a roundabout way and they think they can be and have to be all things to their partner. Which isn't really possible. Most people don't fulfull their partners every need, let alone their partners' every want. It's why people still have family and friends instead of just hanging out with the "one person who fulfills everything". But instead of talking things out and finding out what's changed in the relationship or what and how something has gone of the rails, people cheat. That's not even getting into drunken one-night mistakes, which are a whole 'nother topic, really.

    Another reason for the "Bi's cheat!" is because (roughly) half the population looks different from the other half, genital wise. Frankly, I think the people who refuse to date bi people because they're afraid that their spouse will leave 'em for a different genital configuration aren't really thinking anything through, and they're seriously selling themselves short. "We are all reducible to our genitals, woe is us", is basically where that comes from. I mean, come on, there's a huge amount of variation in genitals, you can find plenty of differing dicks easily enough. Just go to any locker room. It's rooted in an "I can't compare" mindset. Then again, the dating population seems to be worried people will cheat in general. It's just upped for bisexuals because liking only one sex is the norm, and if you up it to liking two, people think that the number of possible partners jumped. As if billions of people in a possible dating pool was just fine, but add an an extra 4 billion and suddenly, it's just too much. Pfffft. Oh god, and don't y'dare ever admit to liking a trans person - only some body configurations are acceptable, because y'really can't compete with someone who is 'half n'half'. Best of both worlds my ass, I hate that coining.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    To be sure, they don't have to answer to me or my standards, . . .
    Here is your answer.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Have I even answered the question yet?

    Yes. I would be delighted to. It would be flattering to mean something to someone out of not just half the population but all of it. And I'd be unstoppably curious about this aspect of my guy's ability to see the erotic in other people of either gender. I think I'd learn something about human sexuality.

    Oh, wait. I did answer! But it bears repeating.
    Last edited by bankside; July 20th, 2013 at 06:18 PM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    That you're replying suggests less than passive involvement. .

    You don't pull a word like "toxic" out of thin air. I was lividly reading, and you threw it in my face, all right?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    I have no strong opinion one way or the other.
    I see.

    You're telling me you can do what he did and you're sittin' there not doin' it?

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    I think the 'Bi's are more likely to cheat' thing happens (in a small part, but certainly not totally by any means) because of a monogamy oriented social structure.
    I don't know...

    I think they just do it cos it's in their nature to do it. Which goes back to the logic of would I date him or her in the first place. I think I can tell just by appearance and or vibe. I think I might be kinda psychic in that sense.
    Last edited by Native Son; July 20th, 2013 at 07:16 PM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    That said, I have produced a CD that is for sale, and have two other projects in the works, temporarily on hold whilst I try and configure my updated music software.
    Got any YouTube vids?

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    I think they just do it cos it's in their nature to do it.
    By that I meant PEOPLE who cheat...not attaching any kind of label or social construct or whatever.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by ibill1 View Post
    Yes. But if I liked him enough, eventually I would ask him to make a decision if he was dating women also. Pu**y or cock buddy, your choice!
    Excellent use of asterisks.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    Cheating is when all parties involved are not informed about the actions of their mate. Basic, cut and dry. Didn't have to make a "judgment" or "moral" call - she doesn't know, therefore your fervor about an "unconventional" relationship is as empty as the prose you use to explain it away.

    So again, come back down.
    Your assumption is drawn from your belief that human relationships must fit in with your understandings how intimate relationships should function when human nature does not evidence such "values" universally accepted, or practised for human life has its way of making exceptions which relate to the individual nature of the human being choosing to do their own thing contrary to the accepted values of society. The United States is a puritanical society founded upon principles that speak of liberty whilst one quarter of its population with black skins were enslaved...here lies the deception and the hypocrisy.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by NYClover54 View Post
    Some people say that bisexuals always wind up with women.
    Yeah but what's your opinion. Who cares what some people say! That's a pretty weak statement IMO. If they end up wit women then what? What's the ultimate divorce rate of bisexuals marrying women? Higher than straight men? I wonder.


    Bisexuals cheat more ...yep...that's a fact. "Some people" here are upset about that. But to be honest, if I found out my bf was bisexual due to finding out he slept with a woman on the side to get his bi kicks he would be out on his arse INSTANTLY. Even faster than if I found out he slept with a guy. I just don't like pussy and the thought of my bf skanking down with some icky tuna grosses me out!
    Last edited by cgymike; July 21st, 2013 at 12:55 AM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Saying something is a fact doesnt make it so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    Saying something is a fact doesnt make it so.
    Do you honestly think a bi person can maintain monogamy with someone of the same sex for the long haul? "Oh no sweety, I don't need a woman now that I've met you. You are a woman and a man for me enough!"

    Ya right!

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Your assumption is drawn from your belief that human relationships must fit in with your understandings how intimate relationships should function.
    Hang on.

    Your partner is married. Did he do the traditional vows, the "forsaking all others" part? If he did, he's in the wrong - he promised to be faithful, and now he's cheating because it's without his wife's consent. If they don't believe in this part, they should have asked the priest to leave it out. If it was left in, well... he's out of luck.

    Were I you, Kallipolis, I would back out of this thread now. You're already at rock bottom; no sense in breaking out the power tools.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Do you honestly think a bi person can maintain monogamy with someone of the same sex for the long haul? "Oh no sweety, I don't need a woman now that I've met you. You are a woman and a man for me enough!"

    Ya right!
    This attitude probably explains why you're single.

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