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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    Well, who doesn't?



    You are saying you provide a service? That I'm kinda feeling.




    So you've only ever been involved with married men? That I find kinda sad.
    Not from my perspective for my experiences in early life were sufficiently frustrating to later in life prefer the company of bisexual men.

    My first two partners were not married despite having relationships with women.

    Don't knock it until you try it.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Why would my partner's wife want to know something of her husband's life that she knows nothing about and has no reason to know?

    Spouses do not always reveal everything of their life to each other despite their married status...married partners often retain bank accounts unknown to their spouse.....even maintaining friendships that are unknown to their spouse...nothing unusual.

    My partner loves his wife and chooses not to inform her of his relationship with me....his choice which I respect and support.

    Otherwise your speculations are duly noted and I thank you for them but they serve no purpose other than to speculate.
    First sentence - she's assuming her and her spouse are in a monogomous relationship. They're not, because he's cheating on her with you.

    Second sentence - you're not a bank account or a friend. You're fucking him. Which is generally a no-no in monogomous relationships, unless you've cleared it with your spouse. And neither of you have. Obviously.

    As for this

    "My partner loves his wife and chooses not to inform her of his relationship with me....his choice which I respect and support."

    It's also your choice. You know her just fine - hell, you bought her wedding gift. You can tell her just as well as he can, and since half the problem in this equation of lies is you, it's half your duty to tell. You're not responsible for his actions, but your responsible for your own, and they're no better than his.

    ....and you know, I doubt you'd be so sanguine if you found out he was seeing someone else behind your back and decided you just didn't need to know because...parrots, or something. Not telling someone something about the guy they're involved with means you don't even trust them to make their own decisions about their own relationship. It's low.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    My awareness of being wrongly judged by homophobes does not give me licence to behave in any unethical way I please. To use that as a pretext for my behaviour would be the true hypocrisy.

    The problem with judgment is in getting the judgment wrong, not in the act itself of attempting to distinguish right from wrong. And there is nothing so distasteful as reaching for post-modernist moral relativism, quite out of the blue, to portray a veneer of propriety.

    Unconventional relationships are certainly welcome in my current group of friends, but all of those relationships are based on openness.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Elwood View Post
    Again how much overflowing happiness would there be in the relationship if she knew about you?
    That question raises the question why should she know when there is no reason for her to know.

    Neither you nor me know the day we will die.....why should we know...what benefit would it be for us to know?

    We can spend a lifetime shooting academic questions....what if....when our realities are focused on what is....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    So you've only ever been involved with married men? That I find kinda sad.
    It give the impression of misogyny, though I admit not to know about the substance of that charge. For example, if a person is equally cavalier with both genders is it misogyny?
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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    My awareness of being wrongly judged by homophobes does not give me licence to behave in any unethical way I please. To use that as a pretext for my behaviour would be the true hypocrisy.

    The problem with judgment is in getting the judgment wrong, not in the act itself of attempting to distinguish right from wrong. And there is nothing so distasteful as reaching for post-modernist moral relativism, quite out of the blue, to portray a veneer of propriety.

    Unconventional relationships are certainly welcome in my current group of friends, but all of those relationships are based on openness.
    What you presume to be ethical behaviour is based upon current social constructs that presume to fit each, individual human being into preconceived life that fits in with conventional wisdom how society should function.....remembering some fifty years gay men were imprisoned for daring to engage in sexual relationships with men....how life changes....

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    That question raises the question why should she know when there is no reason for her to know.
    She should not know less than you know about the arrangement. If you are comfortable with it, she has an equal right to make up her mind about her own comfort level. Why should she be denied the happiness of being just as delighted with the arrangement?
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    It give the impression of misogyny, though I admit not to know about the substance of that charge. For example, if a person is equally cavalier with both genders is it misogyny?
    Again, judging the relationships of complete strangers, cavalier would suggest that there is a puritanical streak influencing your easy willingness to pass judgement, on people whose loving relationships do not meet with your approval....

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    She should not know less than you know about the arrangement. If you are comfortable with it, she has an equal right to make up her mind about her own comfort level. ]Why should she be denied the happiness of being just as delighted with the arrangement?
    Why should she know when she is not party to my relationship with her husband?

    There is no rational reason for my partner's wife to know of our relationship.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Why should she know when she is not party to my relationship with her husband?

    There is no rational reason for my partner's wife to know of our relationship.
    Have you suffered from knowing about his relationship with her?
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    I must leave ....thanks for the exchanges....always appreciated for their candour...and robustness...good night from sunny Piraeus.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Not an issue if a friend, friend with benefits, fuck buddy, etc.

    If I were single, I wouldn't knowingly date a bi guy hoping for a boyfriend, relationship. I was married to a woman for a bunch of years. I was faithful but there were temptations along the way and I agonized over it for years, before coming out to her and the world. I haven't been with a woman since my marriage ended 15 years ago. I am a gay, not a bi, divorced man.

    Having dealt with that in my life, I wouldn't want to get involved with someone who either still had "unfinished business" or wasn't prepared to commit exclusively to one sex or the other. O course there are never any guarantees. Realistically I can get dumped by a gay partner who wants fresh dick, but not knowing if my partner is missing fresh dick or fresh pussy would be too stressful FOR ME.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    What you presume to be ethical behaviour is based upon current social constructs that presume to fit each, individual human being into preconceived life that fits in with conventional wisdom how society should function.....remembering some fifty years gay men were imprisoned for daring to engage in sexual relationships with men....how life changes....
    If you're going to spew post modern language, at least taylor it to the subject matter first. Behavior deemed ethical in current social constructs in the western world at large doesn't allow for poly relationships (minus some enclaves and those can get noxious for different reasons). There is no preconcieved life that fits conventional wisdom that anyone is arguing for, unless you mean that people are encouraging you and your boyfriend to quit lieing to the wife. Someone can have the old white picket fence, spouse, 2.5 kids and a dog with a boyfriend "on the side". I've seen it. I've also been it, come to that. It's when that someone lies to the wife about it that people go "No no".

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    There is no rational reason for my partner's wife to know of our relationship.
    Say you had a STD or something that you passed to her husband and he in turn passed it to her. That is a damn good reason for her to know of the relationship. If she is in the relationship with her husband expecting monogamy, and this is not the case she deserves to know about it so SHE can decide if she wants to remain in the relationship. Its not your decision to decide she is happy with this arrangement, because she doesn't know the full story. It is highly deceitful and disrespectful to not tell her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    It give the impression of misogyny, though I admit not to know about the substance of that charge. For example, if a person is equally cavalier with both genders is it misogyny?
    Depends on why they're cavalier about it. If they do it because "She shouldn't worry her pretty little head about it" then yeah, misogyny.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    It give the impression of misogyny, though I admit not to know about the substance of that charge. For example, if a person is equally cavalier with both genders is it misogyny?
    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    I must leave ....thanks for the exchanges....always appreciated for their candour...and robustness...good night from sunny Piraeus.


    Great, bankside. You scared him off.
    Last edited by Native Son; July 20th, 2013 at 11:20 AM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Why should the wife know...when she is happy with her husband....what benefit would it be to her to know?
    Do you not expect this man to be honest with you about his sex life? What if he were having random, risky and unprotected sex with strangers? You might be happy being ignorant of his behavior, but it could cost you your life.

    You and he do not have the right to unilaterally decide for his wife that she is happy in her ignorance.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Never because the possibility of them cheating is obviously greater! But wait...simply to date with no intention of an ltr...sure! Why not? If they are no longer "practicing bisexuals (ie. given up seeing woman)" then maybe. But there are so many people who are gay that it really isn't an issue.

    If you lived in a place with very few gay guys then it may be different. But the complications are still there. No question about it.

    And before you dig into me accusing me of some agenda against bi's I have none so please... they are fine...just not to date seriously IMO.
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    And before you dig into me accusing me of some agenda against bi's have none so please..
    No one is going to dig.
    Last edited by Native Son; July 20th, 2013 at 11:45 AM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Never because the possibility of them cheating is obviously greater! But wait...simply to date with no intention of an ltr...sure! Why not? If they are no longer "practicing bisexuals (ie. given up seeing woman)" then maybe. But there are so many people who are gay that it really isn't an issue.

    If you lived in a place with very few gay guys then it may be different. But the complications are still there. No question about it.

    And before you dig into me accusing me of some agenda against bi's I have none so please... they are fine...just not to date seriously IMO.
    I used to have a very low opinion of bisexuals until I came to JUB and got to know one or two. I thought they were just gay guys in denial. I thought they were more likely to be unhappy in any relationship they would have because a part of them would always be unfulfilled. I no longer believe that, for the most part. Cheaters cheat, no matter what their sexuality.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Never because the possibility of them cheating is obviously greater!
    Why? Cheating is an action that someone chooses to do - it has nothing to do with liking more than one gender. That's like saying "Well, there's more than two people in the world, so a date might cheat on me with that third or fourth or ten thousandth person. Best not risk dating at all."

    Now if you're insecure that your imaginary bisexual date might leave you for a woman, fine. Insecurities abound in dating. But being insecure in a dating situation doesn't mean you can foist misconceptions off on your imaginary bisexual date and claim your fear of them cheating means anything beyond what it is - that you have fears.
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    No one is going to dig.
    more like gouge on this site....ah yes here come the anguished accusatory ripostes ....
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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    Cheating is your characterisation based upon your judgement that loving relationships should be monogamous....whereas, my partner remains a committed partner of his wife, and of his male lover...with happiness flourishing in the lives of three people...without the need for academic judgements that condemn others for daring to be happy living in an unconventional relationship.
    Cheating is when all parties involved are not informed about the actions of their mate. Basic, cut and dry. Didn't have to make a "judgment" or "moral" call - she doesn't know, therefore your fervor about an "unconventional" relationship is as empty as the prose you use to explain it away.

    So again, come back down.

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    accusatory
    More like fact, rainbow wiener.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    more like gouge on this site....ah yes here come the anguished accusatory ripostes ....
    Oh please. People have reasons for saying the things they do - doesn't mean they're good or logical reasons. You don't need good or logical reasons to not date someone, either, because that's generally not how dating works. If love and romance or what have you were logical there wouldn't need to be a dating/screening process in the first place, you could just fill out a form and marry without ever needing to meet the person beforehand. Insecurities are a fine reason for not dating someone. While I'm on the topic, everyone has them because no one is perfect. Even that diagnosed narcissistic guy I met way back when had 'em.

    But if you have a reason you don't want to date someone it generally ain't kosher to pretend that it's because one set of people are cheaters while another resemble the driven snow. Because that puts your erroneous assumptions about a whole group of people (that they're somehow more likely to cheat) on those same people that you've never even met. I can say with all certainty that I'm not more likely to cheat than you just because I like more than men. Because cheating is an action. I doubt anyone who identifies as bisexual is anguished over not getting to date you, either (a hint - bisexuals don't generally want to date people who think they're automatic cheaters, it's insulting), and no one here has been accusatory, either. I didn't say anything (and would never claim to) about how you should date bisexuals. But pointing out you're bias is based in erroneous information? Yeah, that I'll do.

    All I did was point out you have no basis for "Bisexuals are more likely to cheat." Particularly since cheating is an action and not an intrinsic character trait.
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    I really can't answer honestly until I come across this situation. I have hooked up with guys who are into women and men but I never dated one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kallipolis View Post
    That question raises the question why should she know when there is no reason for her to know.

    Neither you nor me know the day we will die.....why should we know...what benefit would it be for us to know?

    We can spend a lifetime shooting academic questions....what if....when our realities are focused on what is....

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    You don't need good or logical reasons to not date someone, either, because that's generally not how dating works.
    I take exception with this statement. I find that's exactly how it works!

    But if you're going to dilute this into cheaters vs. non-cheaters, well, then it gets murky.

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    Some people say that bisexuals always wind up with women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    I take exception with this statement. I find that's exactly how it works!

    But if you're going to dilute this into cheaters vs. non-cheaters, well, then it gets murky.
    By good and logical I'm talking about value judgments, granted 'good' prolly wasn't the right word to use. Logical definitely was, though. Someone can have any reason they want to date or not date someone and it doesn't mean that reason is logical. Nor does having a logical reason to date someone mean that the relationship is going to last, or even be a good relationship. But in my mind, it's at least better to have a reason not to date someone that isn't based in fallacy, no matter how shitty that reason actually is. "I couldn't handle the stress of having people constantly question and stare at my visibly disabled partner" would be a good example. It's shitty because the disabled partner themself did nothing wrong, but at the same time it can be stressful in a relationship for a partner to get constant questions, comments and finger pointing. Not nearly as stressful as it is for the disabled person, but stressful all the same. And that's their right not to put themselves in a situation that they do have control over.

    What did you mean by diluting cheaters vs non cheaters? Some people cheat, some people don't. Some people have thought about it, some people haven't, some people are going to cheat in the future and just haven't yet (cuz we're still in the present) and some people have cheated before and never will again. It's a mixed bag and people cheat for all sorts of reasons. But cheating itself is an action that's taken, unless you believe a thought is as good as a deed.
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    It may be Greek to me--but happiness for these three is based only on deception and fooling the woman into thinking everything is fab---like her husband only had eyes for her--it would only truly be a happy situation if the wife knew she was sharing her husband with a guy and be okay with it---then I would be okay with it---if it was all out in the open--like in open relationship---which I originally thought it was, then okay ---the way it is--is not really a good situation.

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    *not talking about value judgments, that is. People have different values, obviously. I'm just saying there's a difference between something observable and something that's guessed at.
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    To reply to the OP : absolutely. I would date any man I fancy and who I think could be interested in me. Bisexual or gay or anything in between doesn't matter besides mutual attraction and will to date.
    Magna Veritas


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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Deceit is deceipt. To defend down low relationships is as much as to defend the closet.

    I'm sorry that the thread has become a referendum on infidelity and deceit. Bisexual men deserve better than that. They are not inherently unfaithful, and surely many are in open relationships.
    There are TWO kinds of people in the world -- the kind who believe there are two kinds of people, and the kind who don't.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    I'm toxic... I don't therefore, date, period.
    Last edited by Pianist; July 20th, 2013 at 04:18 PM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    Nor does having a logical reason to date someone mean that the relationship is going to last,
    That's true.

    Quote Originally Posted by luckynumbah7 View Post
    What did you mean by diluting cheaters vs non cheaters
    Well, the overriding fear seems to be that BIs are more likely to cheat. Where does that come from? A really, really dark place, I would imagine....

    I think we should try to get to the bottom of that fear. (Not holding my breath.)

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    I don't therefore, date, period.
    Nah...really?

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    I'm toxic... I don't therefore, date, period.
    You only think you're toxic. You're a perfect gentleman.
    Americans need to keep their guns so they can protect themselves from gun violence just like Nancy Lanza did. And like Chris Kyle did. And like Gabby Giffords did. And like Tom Clements did. And like Michael Piemonte. And Joseph Wilcox.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    Deceit is deceipt.
    Arrrrrgh! STUPID brain! Bad brain! Down boy! Down!
    There are TWO kinds of people in the world -- the kind who believe there are two kinds of people, and the kind who don't.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    If he was out and proud bisexual then yes. I am well past dating closet cases.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    Nah...really?
    Really. ........

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    You only think you're toxic...
    Kinda one and the same no? However, I quite know.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    Really. ........
    Well, with that attidude....

    I don't buy it. There must be something you're doing wrong.

    Are you bi?
    Last edited by Native Son; July 20th, 2013 at 04:44 PM.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Yes, and I have. Bisexuals can be just as faithful as any other sexual orientation. Don't prejudge. Don't assume. Attracted to both genders does not mean someone cannot settle down with one person they're in love with.

    Even in a relationship, we all see other attractive people around us. Doesn't mean anything.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Native Son View Post
    Well, with that attidude....
    Toxic eh?

    I don't buy it. There must be something you're doing wrong.
    I've been here -off and on- since May of '03... feel free to ask ol' timey JUBbers some of whom are on my fb friend's list and are therefore, more aware of my personal doings. I just don't bother asking anyone out.

    Are you bi?
    No.

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    This is interesting, Kallipolis, how would you feel if you discovered that your lover secretly had yet another man or woman that he was sleeping with ?

    If he cared for all three of you, would it matter or diminish your relationship ?
    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dejavudoo View Post
    Deceit is deceipt. To defend down low relationships is as much as to defend the closet.

    I'm sorry that the thread has become a referendum on infidelity and deceit. Bisexual men deserve better than that. They are not inherently unfaithful, and surely many are in open relationships.
    By what authority do we judge another person's relationship? A person is not judged for being in the closet. He/She is encouraged to come out on their own terms.

    Similarly, a person in a relationship with a bisexual who is in a relationship with yet another should not be judged either. We simply acknowledge their relationship without judgement.

    Homophobia kills!

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    Re: If you are gay, would you date a bisexual ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pianist View Post
    Toxic eh?

    Well, that's your word, love. I'm just sittin' here readin'.

    What do you think of Liberace?

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