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    Hostel or Hookup

    I got some stupid ass issues. One of them being paranoia. I'll be going to a big city and I was planning to stay at a gay hostel, but now I've found out they want my fucking name and address. I mean my family knows I'm gay, but I don't want my fucking government to know. Why does this hostel want to know my name and address anyway? Like they could prove if I broke some of their cheap ass shit. So I'm thinking why not save some money and hook up with guy, crash at his. Trouble is I never did that before. I've been in guy's appartments, but I never stayed for the night. I might not even be in the mood for a fuck after traveling. I need some advice.

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    Would you want someone staying in your house if you didn't know their name or contact information?

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    The hostel is infinitely safer.
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    If you wanted to crash at my place, I'd need to know waaaay more than even just your name and address. Compared to the hostel, I'd look like the NSA.

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    The government is only concerned if you're a gay terrorist.

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    In most things in life: renting an apartment, buying a house, getting a job, getting a driver's license, travelling by air or train.... You have to give your name and address. If you want to do grown up activities you'll have to conform to the rules, or sleep on a park bench or under a bridge.

    ... and it's very unlikely that the hostel is going to turn you into the government, unless you plan on trashing their room.
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    dont all hostels/hotels ask for your name? isnt that just normal?

    anyway, i dont know what you should do about your hostel paranoia, but i would not rely on a complete stranger for lodging. thats just stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by treeri View Post
    The government is only concerned if you're a gay terrorist.


    You can stay and hook up with me. But I need to see your STD test results first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by treeri View Post
    The government is only concerned if you're a gay terrorist.
    ^^^ This cracked me up and made my day! LOL

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    Re: Hostel or Hookup

    hi Lypoka,

    As far as I am aware, straight guys are also allowed to stay in a gay hostel. So staying in a gay hostel does not mean that you are gay. I agree with all others that any hostel (etc.) will always want to know such kind of details. So I would not bother about this. Same rule is also the case for hotels (all over the world).

    How about couch surfing?
    I am Dutch, so please excuse me for my low level of English.

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    Re: Hostel or Hookup

    Isn't this a fucking sex forum? All I wanted is some encouragement to hook up. How old are you? Y'all sound like my motherfucking grandma. Telling me everybody is a fucking serial killer.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ganoderma View Post
    hi Lypoka,

    As far as I am aware, straight guys are also allowed to stay in a gay hostel. So staying in a gay hostel does not mean that you are gay. I agree with all others that any hostel (etc.) will always want to know such kind of details. So I would not bother about this. Same rule is also the case for hotels (all over the world).

    How about couch surfing?
    Guess I'll resort to my emergency plan and stay at a non-gay hostel than.

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    ^ Oh my...such an ungrateful attitude on a no flame forum.

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    Re: Hostel or Hookup

    Quote Originally Posted by Lypoka View Post
    I got some stupid ass issues. One of them being paranoia. I'll be going to a big city and I was planning to stay at a gay hostel, but now I've found out they want my fucking name and address. I mean my family knows I'm gay, but I don't want my fucking government to know. Why does this hostel want to know my name and address anyway? Like they could prove if I broke some of their cheap ass shit. So I'm thinking why not save some money and hook up with guy, crash at his. Trouble is I never did that before. I've been in guy's appartments, but I never stayed for the night. I might not even be in the mood for a fuck after traveling. I need some advice.
    Because murder happens LOL
    Why not name and address anyway? They are not going to tell everyone you know.


    NEVER LISTEN TO A ONE SIDED STORY AND JUDGE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lypoka View Post
    Isn't this a fucking sex forum? All I wanted is some encouragement to hook up. How old are you? Y'all sound like my motherfucking grandma. Telling me everybody is a fucking serial killer.
    I reckon for the hook-up plan. A) You save some money B) You get some serious ass pounding

    Win-win situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lypoka View Post
    Isn't this a fucking sex forum? All I wanted is some encouragement to hook up. How old are you? Y'all sound like my motherfucking grandma. Telling me everybody is a fucking serial killer.
    No, it's not the sex forum, it's advice forum. It's also the no-flame zone- a rule which includes both the original poster and those who respond. You're not obligated to accept any advice that you're given here but you are expected to read it and be respectful to those who take the time to offer advice.

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    Re: Hostel or Hookup

    Quote Originally Posted by Lypoka View Post
    Isn't this a fucking sex forum? All I wanted is some encouragement to hook up. How old are you? Y'all sound like my motherfucking grandma. Telling me everybody is a fucking serial killer.
    hookup all you want... but tbh, 99.9% of times, at the end of a hookup, whoever is "hosting" wants the other guy to get out, not lay about and crash for a weekend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KaraBulut View Post

    No, it's not the sex forum, it's advice forum. It's also the no-flame zone- a rule which includes both the original poster and those who respond. You're not obligated to accept any advice that you're given here but you are expected to read it and be respectful to those who take the time to offer advice.
    ^^** well said! Within the context of this well put comment I share:

    Why not come out, be out, and seek relationships (hook ups or lasting) that way? Your already putting yourself out there..?? You want more but want it to be so discreet. It doesn't work that way.

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